Comments by AtAboy (page 3)

I had no idea this was a thing. Not going to comment either way on my thoughts as I’ve yet to be in a situation where that seemed to be a factor. So I can’t say whether I’ll feel ok with it or not. But just want to say thank you bringing this piece of information to my attention. I’ll keep it in mind.

I wonder if it’s a generational thing? I seems that more often than not it’s younger-ish guys, like 30 and under. I’m all for shining the light on sexual harassment, but are these younger guys afraid to even look at women now? I just don’t get it. And honestly, looking at porn is no different. Just because the woman isn’t there in person doesn’t make you any more a saint. She’s still taking her clothes off for money. Or do these guys not look at porn? What’s the world coming to when a guy turns down looking at a pair of titties?

Thanks for the replies. Seems how someone feels about this just depends on the person. And these types of women are out there, they just don’t advertise it because society still shames them for being too sexual. I’m sure you’ve met some freaky ladies but they’d never tell you and you had no idea

Uber strips?

Shaving is for pussies. Wax that shit like a man

@ shadowcat, couldn’t agree more

sorry about the typos

Pervert, Actually when a woman becomes aroused, the bladder fills pretty quickly. Squirt does contain some of the compounds of urine but not the waste products. Also when a woman squirts it contains a white substance from a gland that the opening is off the urethra. Which isn’t expelled with urination. Also it’s not the same sensation. It doesn’t feel like when they start a stream of urine, or are starting to pee. I fact of a woman isn’t well hydrated, she may only squirt the thick white “ejaculate”. So yes something that is quite similar to urine is giving her that forceful stream you may see in porns. If you’ve been with a squirted, I assure you act of squirting and peeing look, and smell different. And you’d be able to tell the difference if she were cumming or just peeing on you.

One of the hardest things to do in life, and one of the hardest lessons to learn if you’re a good caring person is it’s not you’re place to help people out of their problems. Especially if they aren’t even asking for help. Strippers and anyone really. I watched many good people go down the road of addiction or just really poor life choices. It’s not your place to step in. Really the only way you can help someone is if they are already trying to help themselves. Beyond that, you’re just enabling them.

Misterwonderful, true. I stand corrected in that if she is a squirter, that’s pretty much a fool proof way to know she came. Unfortunately, not every woman is a squirter, so all those woman can fake it with really no way for a man to tell.

Totally thought this was a thread about discussing the vip menu with your dancer a head of time while in the front room, or something about not wasting vip time talking to the dancer, do that in the main room. But I also haven’t had my coffee yet so my brain isn’t fully awake. I only post there when it something that god forbid I don’t want my SO to do a google search on SC or what have you and it pops up. I know my SO can’t see the vip room posts, and that lets me sleep at night

Going to agree with doctorevil here. Every girl I’ve been with in the VIP “came”. Yeah ok. I’m not saying they can’t be aroused and get wet, but actually reaching orgasm....I highly doubt each one was that easy and one girl I knew faked it. Girls are even able to squeeze and release their pussy muscles in a way that if you were fingering them or fucking it would feel orgasmic, if they really want to trick a pro. Even civi girls can fake an orgasm. Unless you’re with a girl that’s basically going to be alway honest, you never really know for sure.

I only saw the tits. There was nothing else. Very curious about the ass people are talking about. The tits are a little too big for me, but this video was still pretty hot regardless. I like thick women, and usually it’s AA women that are thick in all the right places but still have a slim waist. However I also like thick women of all colors. Here’s an example of a size I like https://www.instagram.com/p/BzgHDN3gcAQ/?igshid=1snelzyn7p8zh I notice when I search curvy women I get a lot of fat girls. It’s KEY that they have a small waist and basically flat tummy. Usually to be thick but not flabby and doughy looking they have to have a good muscle mass under their fat. Women that lift (especially building that booty) but also have a little extra weight are ideal for me.

This review is awesome I’ve never heard of this place. But now I’m kind of afraid to go there. And also curious

Good to know about the LD rate. Haven’t been in a while since it was $20.

Kids move so fast and in crowded areas like an airport where the mother may not have a stroller to confine him, it can be so dangerous. That’s why those backpack leashes are great but then the mothers get the side eye from judgy people. They’re damned if they do damned if they don’t. Glad the kids wasn’t severely injured.

Just like any other thing or kink that people can be into sexually, pleasuring someone else is something that gets some people off. I would think it’s not only by odds that you’d at least come across some strippers that are into this, but that the job itself may have a tendency to draw in women that like having that sexual power over men or are turned on by turning on others.

As papi said, drug addict is a major turn off. Once watched a girl on stage that I’m pretty sure just shot heroin. Watching her dance in a semi comatose state was a huge turn off. Also SirLapdance mentioned the number one complete deal breaker for me, for dancers and just women in general. But I didn’t even think to list it. When a woman’s waist is thicker than her hips or boobs. That apple shape, after menopause, insulin resistant, too much beer thick middle look on any size woman instantly turns me off. I like thick women mostly, but they have to have that hour glass shape. Even slender women, can get that thick waist around middle age usually from heavy drinking. I don’t care how awesome she is in every other way, that look turns off any thought of sex in my brain. Almost everything else I can over look with the right girl. Tattoos, piercing, fake tits...

Agree on cleanliness. I hope thats universal and they probably feel the same way about us. They don’t want to be dancing close to someone with nasty breath, BO or someone who smells like crotch sweat in their nether regions. I don’t like super skinny girls with no ass. Also can’t seem enjoy a woman with super short hair. Like pixie or boyish cut. I love long feminine hair. I can appreciate their body if their hair is short, and of course tip at the stage, but that’s a no go for VIP time.

Speaking from experience, unless your SO is bisexual and can’t wait to ogle naked chicks too, it likely won’t go well. If she’s strictly dickly, then you’ll be spending the whole night trying not to piss her off or make her jealous. One upside to going: She IS bi, and hasn’t felt comfortable exploring that, and secretly wants to go, but doesn’t want you to know she wants to go, so she had to make it seems like your idea so she doesn’t have to admit she likes girls too, and ultimately the night ends with her making out topless with one of the dancers.

Heaving I see what you did there Trust given

Reverend, my oldest just got to that age this past year. Middle school. Now my very existence is an embarrassment to him. Unfortunately for him, I’m the kind of parent that finds this amusing and has fun with it in public places. I’ll just pay for the therapy bills when he’s an adult.

If we’re talking club only, I’ve been told I look very friendly and approachable. I actually had a dancer tell me one time how nice it is to see someone having fun and smiling, as they don’t really enjoy dancing and looking into the crowd to see expressionless stares, and patrons looking bored. I’m happy and relaxed in the club and it shows. Sometimes this means some girls will hang around a bit longer than I prefer, but all I have to do is not tip and they get the hint. I’m there to have a good time and enjoy the whole atmosphere, not just find a girl I think is the hottest and get extras, so chatting with someone for a bit that I dont particularly want to get a dance with doesn’t bother me. Now whether or not I look mean else where may be a different story...

Troll, bot or person with untreated schizophrenia (henceforth the word salad) You be the judge!

I know I’m new here and don’t really know you George, but I just want to extend my condolences during this time of loss. Rick, I don’t really know you either, and I don’t have anything against you, you seem like the kind of guy that says what he’s thinking and while I respect that, I just want to offer my professional education and knowledge as I’ve worked directly with people on hospice and families that are grieving a loss. There is no set time line for grief. There is no right way to grieve and no right amount of time to process a loss. Every person grieves in their own way. It doesn’t matter the age or how the person died, and it doesn’t matter what the relationship was. Grief is very personal. Rick, we’re just message board people here, not really a part of your life, but maybe this bit of professional advice can help you some day in real life should you find yourself trying to talk with a person experiencing a loss. Again George, I am so sorry for your loss.