Hypothetical Situation, Hot or Not?
AtAboy
Still learning to proofread
So let’s say your SO (or if you had one) liked SC because she was bi. You go together, you are with her for all extras and get to partake in the fun. Jealously is not an issue.
She’s always been sexual with men before you, and now that you’re together, your sex life is very good. Definitely likes dick too, especially giving BJs.
But there’s a part of her that just at least needs to see (sometimes touch and taste too) pussy and tits the same way you do.
Several times a week she’s down for sex with you and doesn’t “need” the club or really mention it. There’s times she’d like to go but if you don’t, that’s ok and doesn’t interfere with the two of you going at it.
But then there’s a couple times a month, when she really wants the club. And almost needs it to get in the mood, and is pretty bummed if you don’t go. She still has sex, but instead opts for the two of you to watch porn first or talk dirty to you about things you two have done with a dancer, or stuff she’d like to do to other hot girls you two know. It’s apparent to you that just dick ain’t doing it for her tonight.
The question is, does it hurt your ego / feelings etc, that there’s times (no matter how infrequent) when it’s pretty obvious she’s rather be touching pussy/tits than dick? Do you feel like the consolation prize?
Or is it hot just to have a SO like this and you’re not over thinking the occasional night she needs to see some titties to get off?
Thoughts?
She’s always been sexual with men before you, and now that you’re together, your sex life is very good. Definitely likes dick too, especially giving BJs.
But there’s a part of her that just at least needs to see (sometimes touch and taste too) pussy and tits the same way you do.
Several times a week she’s down for sex with you and doesn’t “need” the club or really mention it. There’s times she’d like to go but if you don’t, that’s ok and doesn’t interfere with the two of you going at it.
But then there’s a couple times a month, when she really wants the club. And almost needs it to get in the mood, and is pretty bummed if you don’t go. She still has sex, but instead opts for the two of you to watch porn first or talk dirty to you about things you two have done with a dancer, or stuff she’d like to do to other hot girls you two know. It’s apparent to you that just dick ain’t doing it for her tonight.
The question is, does it hurt your ego / feelings etc, that there’s times (no matter how infrequent) when it’s pretty obvious she’s rather be touching pussy/tits than dick? Do you feel like the consolation prize?
Or is it hot just to have a SO like this and you’re not over thinking the occasional night she needs to see some titties to get off?
Thoughts?
11 comments
1} never marry this girl nor let her move in with you, domesticity changes women
2} NEVER EVER EVER get the girl pregnant, is she even mentions it RUN.
The old saying that after the first year of marriage the sex stop is only partly true, once they have a kid is truly when it stops and only will start again if she wants another.
The best thing to do is think it over and if you don't want kids get snipped. Never mention it unless you want the girl to leave because every woman I have even met will want kid(s) eventually and if you can't knock her up she will find another.
I'm there too. Which is fun.
I am not a woman so I cant provide the same experience shes looking for.
Her sexuality changes with the weather. Sometimes she is really into women sometimes she isn't. Shes always into dick.
FWIW I'm v well endowed which likely helps with ego. I also do v well financially which helps top.
People want what they cant have. She has full access to tinder/whatever if she wants a side chick. Shes gone out with a few but nothing long term. I believe because I give her the freedom to be herself without judgment that she appreciates that and doesnt take advantage of the situation.
We are much like this hypothetical situation you've described. Sometimes she will mention stuff we have done during sex. I just find it super hot.
Bwah.
And these types of women are out there, they just don’t advertise it because society still shames them for being too sexual. I’m sure you’ve met some freaky ladies but they’d never tell you and you had no idea
It would have to be all just casual sex.