Hypothetical Situation, Hot or Not?

AtAboy
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So let’s say your SO (or if you had one) liked SC because she was bi. You go together, you are with her for all extras and get to partake in the fun. Jealously is not an issue.

She’s always been sexual with men before you, and now that you’re together, your sex life is very good. Definitely likes dick too, especially giving BJs.

But there’s a part of her that just at least needs to see (sometimes touch and taste too) pussy and tits the same way you do.


Several times a week she’s down for sex with you and doesn’t “need” the club or really mention it. There’s times she’d like to go but if you don’t, that’s ok and doesn’t interfere with the two of you going at it.

But then there’s a couple times a month, when she really wants the club. And almost needs it to get in the mood, and is pretty bummed if you don’t go. She still has sex, but instead opts for the two of you to watch porn first or talk dirty to you about things you two have done with a dancer, or stuff she’d like to do to other hot girls you two know. It’s apparent to you that just dick ain’t doing it for her tonight.

The question is, does it hurt your ego / feelings etc, that there’s times (no matter how infrequent) when it’s pretty obvious she’s rather be touching pussy/tits than dick? Do you feel like the consolation prize?

Or is it hot just to have a SO like this and you’re not over thinking the occasional night she needs to see some titties to get off?

Thoughts?

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  • Daddillac
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    5 years ago
    Is it really at girlfriend or wife.... I have a couple civvies that I date now that they might consider themselves to be my SO but I'm just sticking it in..... I don't tell them I love them and if they tell me that I dump them. I don't want another lying ass bitch
  • captainfun
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    5 years ago
    I've been with a couple of women that are bi. They say something like, I like men and women equally, like 50/50, but ultimately I need/prefer dick. That's cool I guess however she's always going to have a natural craving to be attracted with women too, I'd probably have an issue with that long term. Kind of like previous poster, if it's a girlfriend or causal dating, then this is probably hot. If serious GF or possible wife, then something that will likely cause strain over time.
  • Tiredtraveler
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    5 years ago
    Since this is hypothetical and would NEVER happen.
    1} never marry this girl nor let her move in with you, domesticity changes women
    2} NEVER EVER EVER get the girl pregnant, is she even mentions it RUN.
    The old saying that after the first year of marriage the sex stop is only partly true, once they have a kid is truly when it stops and only will start again if she wants another.
    The best thing to do is think it over and if you don't want kids get snipped. Never mention it unless you want the girl to leave because every woman I have even met will want kid(s) eventually and if you can't knock her up she will find another.
  • BudWeedGuy
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    5 years ago
    My wife is bi. Hyper sexual. We do Extras with girls. She gets really into it. Idgaf because...

    I'm there too. Which is fun.
    I am not a woman so I cant provide the same experience shes looking for.

    Her sexuality changes with the weather. Sometimes she is really into women sometimes she isn't. Shes always into dick.

    FWIW I'm v well endowed which likely helps with ego. I also do v well financially which helps top.

    People want what they cant have. She has full access to tinder/whatever if she wants a side chick. Shes gone out with a few but nothing long term. I believe because I give her the freedom to be herself without judgment that she appreciates that and doesnt take advantage of the situation.

    We are much like this hypothetical situation you've described. Sometimes she will mention stuff we have done during sex. I just find it super hot.
  • prevert
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    5 years ago
    Not sure why it would make me upset that a woman who basically gives me whatever I want sexually also wants something I can’t give her.
  • wallanon
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    5 years ago
    "Jealously is not an issue."

    Bwah.
  • Jascoi
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    5 years ago
    i'd have no problem with the bi situation. it adds spice.
  • TxVegas
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    5 years ago
    Sounds like a fun situation that you should enjoy while you have it. I do understand the advise to not get married to this person. That fun will cause strain later.
  • PutaTester
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    5 years ago
    My rule is, "My wife can have as many women as she wants, as long as I can have as many women as I want." Seemed fair to me. She didn't think so.
  • AtAboy
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    5 years ago
    Thanks for the replies. Seems how someone feels about this just depends on the person.
    And these types of women are out there, they just don’t advertise it because society still shames them for being too sexual. I’m sure you’ve met some freaky ladies but they’d never tell you and you had no idea
  • Bamaeight
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    5 years ago
    Most guys enjoy seeing girl on girl and if it’s g/f that your just picking up others it’s all good problem happens when she picks up a girl that only into women. The true les. Will do all they can to make sure she breaks up any relationship u have with her.
    It would have to be all just casual sex.
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