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7 years ago
@dark blue - I hope you didn't scare her off. Seriously through if you are obsessed it isn't healthy. Try to find someone else. One thing also to keep in mind is even if you find her again it might not be as good. Some times it is more magical, and some girls aren't super consistent. There is probably a good chance no matter what this is going to end in some degree of disappointment. I wish you the best my friend.
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7 years ago
Sounds like you are a little obsessed. Maybe you scared her off.
Nothing helps cure obsession like variety.
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7 years ago
Personally I have no interest in porn star style sex, I am only interested in romantic style lovemaking.
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7 years ago
@ BJ99 is that supposed to be does or doesn't?
I have found a lot of the first shift girls to be pretty stable and a lot of them are moms who take first shift for low or no house fees.
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7 years ago
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lolrunedYour Friendly Neighborhood Average Guy
I would agree with chessmaster that it's best to separate grinding and mileage as there are lots of instances where you can get a lot of one but not the other.
One of the gown clubs near me you can get decent mileage but the girls can't grind repetitively.
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7 years ago
Walter Hagan golf rain pants
They are thin like wind shorts, stretchy like athletic shorts, there is no zipper to reduce feel, the pockets have pass throughs so you can reach right inside, they are water proof so no getting fluids on a dancer, and best of all they can pass for slacks.
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7 years ago
It's weird seeing the dancers sober.
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7 years ago
Also TYPING in your DL number is just as bad as scanning, FYI!
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7 years ago
@Subraman - My main point that they are doing it wrong is from not making sure the dancer sees them.
The other day a guy quickly walked up to the stage and threw a wad of cash. He looked embarrassed and almost instantly turned away and went back to his seat. Then the dancer turns around and falsely assumes I was the rain maker.
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7 years ago
@Mtent - I have had a similar issue. For me it was the psychological disappointment of not getting the experience that I want. I would suggest for you talk to the dancer and explain you like to start slowly and build up the excitement, and additionally you hate to break up the fun to go pay. So pay well in advance and then ask for a few songs to sit and cuddle/grope/etc or whatever you like. I would also recommend starting with single dances. Try out a few different dancers with single dances until you find one you like. Then implement your pleasure system.
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7 years ago
Agree with Papi that it is more prevalent on night shift.
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7 years ago
In my area a club will start scanning licenses then about a week or two later they will stop. So I just go somewhere else. And if they know you they generally give you a pass. At one club that seems to scan consistently I kept coming in once a month and refusing the scan but in a super polite way. After a few months the door girl falsely started recognizing me as a regular and started waving me by.
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7 years ago
@Michigan - later fliers show a $10 cover instead. However I think you can make a business case for pricing an urban club really high. With a clientele base that literally throws money into the air why not price things high to weed out the lower spenders.
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7 years ago
I never buy dancers drinks. But I am also not someone who wants to sit and talk with a dancer for an hour anyway.
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7 years ago
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impalaThe People's Republic of Pennsylvania
In some cases their father was a shitbag so they are attracted to shitbags.
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7 years ago
@Dominic77 - You are only going 2 times a year? Well yeah in that case I can see how you would absolutely not want to hit up day shift on a Monday. The hottest girl at the club is going to be spending all her time with Subraman.
I have had good luck hitting up the highest volume club during the day. A day shift with 30-50 girls will definitely have a multiple stunners to choose from. And even those who are tied up wtih Subraman will tend to notice you are a regular spender and it isn't hard to start getting some time with them on future visits (assuming you come to the club weekly).
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7 years ago
@galiziabob - Totally agree on the emotional aspect of it.
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7 years ago
@Ch3ll - This link might help you out: https://www.tuscl.net/user-ignore.php?id=408818
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7 years ago
COI?
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7 years ago
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Doces300You can run but you will only die tired
I thought Mons was amazing. But read up on it first, it has it's limitations and isn't for everyone.
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7 years ago
To search this forum go on google and type what you want to search followed by "site:tuscl.net".
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7 years ago
Golf rain pants
These from walter hagen are thin, single layer, no zipper and are totally water proof. So no worrying about accidental fluid transfer:
https://www.dickssportinggoods.com/p/walter-hagen-mens-rain-pants-16whgmhgnrnpntapo/
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7 years ago
I have seen a similar situation before. I think some super hot girls are just really particular about their boundaries and way more confident to give an air dance or dance defensively if they aren't comfortable with you.
If a girl is super hot and new to me I have had success with just plainly stating "don't worry I won't push your boundaries".
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7 years ago
Just because it happens doesn't make it right. Guys that do that are total shitbags.
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7 years ago
Switch to email instead of text. Then use an email address you don't login to except to contact her.