Comments by PaulDrake (page 57)

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    7 years ago
    Lexydorado
    California
    BBW Night in San Diego
    You might want to ask this on stripperweb.
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    7 years ago
    JohnSmith69
    layin low but staying high
    Dallas
    @PinkSugarDoll - One last thing about Bucks is now the first Wednesday of every month is a mandatory day for all dancers. Most of the dancers complain about not making much money that day so if you can somehow get out of it I would recommend that.
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    7 years ago
    JohnSmith69
    layin low but staying high
    Dallas
    The Ricks in West Fort Worth is hit or miss. It fluxuates a lot in terms of numbers of dancers and number of customers. I have been there when there have been 10 dancers and 2 customers and when it was 25 customers and 3 dancers. My visits were all similar times and days. There are a core group of dayshift girls there, so you'll obviously stand out as a traveling dancer (no idea if that is good or bad), where bucks has new faces all the time. It is a classier joint compared to bucks but I would guess you already know that. Mileage and lap dance cost are identical in my experience, however the VIP pricing at Ricks is more traditional compared to Bucks. One girl I know who dances at both dances at Ricks on busier days and Bucks the rest. If you are looking for something to do while you are here I would recommend: https://www.moneyfactory.gov/fortworthtxtours.html The tour is free! So what name do you use here? DM me if you want.
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    7 years ago
    JohnSmith69
    layin low but staying high
    Dallas
    Day shift or night?
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    7 years ago
    Jigman
    At the club
    Should I drop CF (almost an ATF)
    Totally agree with Subraman, in my area as well the day shift girls would be pretty happy over $200 once a week.
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    7 years ago
    Titus23
    Kansas
    Accidental tipping
    My CF is always super generous and undercounts the songs, then I tip her extra anyway.
  • discussion comment
    7 years ago
    Dancers with kids / MILFs
    I just don't like hearing about kids. And milfs love talking about their kids.
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    7 years ago
    Mtent
    Relaxation
    Do dancers not like boners?
    Would also agree with warrior if multiple dancers are protesting there might be something else going on.
  • discussion comment
    7 years ago
    Asor619
    California
    Day vs Night- Manufactured vs Natural
    Now that I think about it I know of one or two clubs near me that the dayshift has more enhanced girl. Those are the lifers.
  • discussion comment
    7 years ago
    JohnSmith69
    layin low but staying high
    Dallas
    Baby Dolls Dallas definitely has more Cuban and Hispanic dancers these days but there are still probably near 40-50% white girls there. The new chairs there limit positions on lap dances (no cowgirl position). I personally like the Mens club a lot, it seems to attract some of the hottest dancers at nightshift. But it is a gown club and mileage depends on the girl. It tends to attract a lot of new baby strippers as well so sometimes they just aren't good at lap dances yet. Day shift is pretty dead there other than Wednesday lunch. I would avoid the lodge completely, total waste of time. Very low mileage, pretty much an air dance compared to anywhere else. There are 4 bucks clubs in DFW so they are easy to get mixed up. Cabaret is topless, Wild are nude and BYOB. Bucks Cabriolet in Fort Worth is the best, excellent selection of dancers and medium to high mileage. Bucks Cabriolet in Dallas is hit or miss, I have gotten ultra high mileage there once but there are a lot of aspects about the club that suck. I wouldn't make the Bucks Dallas a destination but would be worth it as a backup spot if others are a bust. If you are looking for dayshift the only clubs worth your time are Baby Dolls Dallas and Bucks Cabriolet Fort Worth. Both of those have amazing day shifts with 25-50 dancers. Might be some of the best day shift in the country, day shift attitudes and service with an abundance of girls who could work nightshift anywhere else. I have reviews of most of the clubs.
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    7 years ago
    Asor619
    California
    Day vs Night- Manufactured vs Natural
    Dayshift dancers are more focused on cultivating regulars, and I would totally agree with papi that they tend to be older. That is why finding a high volume club in the day tends to work best IMHO.
  • discussion comment
    7 years ago
    Jell69
    Massachusetts
    Just how common are ATM guys?
    So I am the kind of guy that likes gown clubs. And gown clubs are the types of places that attract whales that spend hundreds or thousands for company. It is a regular occurrence at those places. I think those type of guys are misinformed as to what pricing is in 2018.
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    7 years ago
    Cashman1234
    He/Him - He’s a filthy pig. That’s him in VIP with another whore.
    Burner phones - should I get a new one?
    I would agree with a21985 the secure folder on all newer flagship Samsung phones is the ultimate solution. As previously mentioned it is essentially an entire second phone inside your phone. And it is hidden behind a password on a non-descript app. You can have completely distinct copies of any app you want, a second set of social media profiles, a different set of contacts, photos, etc. With google voice inside the secure folder you have a free second line ready to go. Additionally you can rename the secure folder app and change it's icon to look like something non-descript (for example make it look like an app for stocks or baseball). If you do use the secure folder you need to be careful with the settings and make sure all notifications for it are off. Then in google voice make sure turn off forwarding for both calls and texts. Here is a video overview: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZSdLqa9pg8k It is also worth mentioning you need to be careful if you have two sets of social media accounts. Facebook can see that both are in the same place at the same time and will suggest your secret account as a potential friend to contacts in your vanilla friend list. Even if your accounts are never linked it will out you. I would recommend keeping all location services off on your secret account but even that might not work. This seems to be more of an issue for strippers than customers.
  • discussion comment
    7 years ago
    Undecided
    Illinois
    To leave or not to leave
    Also document everything to use in the divorce proceedings
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    7 years ago
    Undecided
    Illinois
    To leave or not to leave
    @undecided - If you would divorce him if this situation remains the next question to ask yourself is if there is any sign he is giving you of changing? From what you have described that seems like a negative. In fact it might only be until after you leave him that he decides to change and then wants you back. However in the mean time it is probably best to start thinking from the perspective that your marriage is ending and doing things in a way to protect yourself. Open up your own bank account, maybe move some money into cash off the books. Also it might be good to set some ground rules with your husband, maybe tell him you don't want to hear about his affairs, and get him to agree to a more reasonable budget.
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    7 years ago
    gothamyte
    from that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
    what are some of yawl's favorite websites
    reddit
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    7 years ago
    Undecided
    Illinois
    To leave or not to leave
    @undecided - You didn't answer my question. In detail what would you do if you knew this would continue? Would you divorce him? If not how would you set ground rules to make things better? How would transition your finances to better protect yourself?
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    7 years ago
    Undecided
    Illinois
    To leave or not to leave
    Also if you do type a response to my question please use paragraphs.
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    7 years ago
    Undecided
    Illinois
    To leave or not to leave
    I am going to treat this as if it is real. So it's actually really simple... imagine for a moment that the situation you are in continued for 5 years. Different strippers, different drama but all similar to what you are going through now. How would you decide to act today if you knew that was the way things were going to be? I am not saying things are going to be that way, I just want to know how you would act if you knew it would be?
  • discussion comment
    7 years ago
    PaulDrake
    Off again on again PL
    At what point are you getting a dancers contact information?
    @Subraman - I am not thinking at all that this is like asking a civilian for her number. Just haven't crossed into making appointments before and figured this would be a good topic (and from the number of responses it appears to be).
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    7 years ago
    bang69
    North Carolina
    How dumb can a person be
    I never shut off my engine when filling up gas.
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    7 years ago
    Warrior15
    Anywhere there are Titties.
    How much SS would you put up with if Extras are at stake ?
    Although I enjoy conversation with a dancer I have seen repeatedly with a new dancer I am definitely in the camp of someone who wants to get straight to the action. Some girls for sure will move really slowly, sometimes they are shy and working up the nerve, or they are trying to give you a better experience by waiting a long time before the pitch. Additionally some (especially new) dancers need a few minutes of conversation to loosen up and feel more comfortable with you. My methods depend on the type of club, in a super high volume club sometimes I'll just say up front "Hey I know you're busy, if you want to chat for a bit here great but I am actually ready for a dance, why don't we head to the dance area and just chat there for a song or two before we start". In a medium to low volume club, I usually just let the girl know early in the conversation I want a dance and say "why don't we chat for a song or two first and then you can ask me and I'll say yes". I have also done cheesier variations on this if the girl seems fun or one of my favorites that works well is to tell the dancer "all you have to do is keep making sexy faces as me for a few minutes and I'll be powerless to say no to you". Depending on the dancer some of those can be really fun. Past that for me I just wait for a lul in the conversation and then tell her I would love to get a dance from her. Or with a really fun dancer you can start talking about how cold you are and see if she can come up with any ideas on how to warm up.
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    7 years ago
    doctorevil
    Evil Lair
    Sunglasses
    Hats indoors, huh? Never heard that one before.
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    7 years ago
    GACA
    Un-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
    If Subra doesn't crack the Top 10 in trust
    Something happened to the database and it added 110 trusts to a bunch of members. If you look at mine it shows 118 but then if you actually click to see who trust me there are only 8 which is the correct number.
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    7 years ago
    flagooner
    Everything written by this member is a fact.
    SirLapdanceAlot
    What are you trying to accomplish here? Are you drunk?