Frustrated...
Darkblue999
Somewhere in the club
Saturday, March 17, 2018 10:40 AM
Why the heck dancers give phone numbers when they don't want to respond ? I texted a dancer two times in two weeks to know if she is coming to the club. Second i went to the club and texted saying that i am in the club and i would like to spend some money on you. No response.She did not come to the club.
But I wanted dances from that girl only.I am frustrated and sad....
But I wanted dances from that girl only.I am frustrated and sad....
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She was nice in conversation,during lap dance and after lap dances. She danced exactly the way I wanted i.e topless in cowgirl position with neck kisses and our frequency matched. She was surprised when I tipped $20.00 for 5 songs.If I liked the dances I usually tip $20.00
She is 19 yrs hot blonde with the body I wanted.No other dancer in that top rated club didn't interest me. She told me she has unpredictable schedule and asked me to text if I want to see her so that she can pop in.
I understand that she is not my wife or GF but she acted like normal GF.:) unlike regular dancers That's why I like her.
K,
When I had dances with her last time I spent $60.00 + $100.00 plus tip of $20.00 And I LDKed after the last song.I offered her drink she told me she is not 21 yet. Before I took 5 dances she gave me the number.
I gave 2 days notice.
If she don't want to come fine.just say no.i received No from other dancers before.
Bj99,
No.I didn't ask any of those and I don't do or like OTC.I just sent two lines. Are you coming to the club tomorrow.I would like to spend some money on you.
And now she won't respond?
I'm shocked.
Hahaa.No. I said after 5 dances I LDKed. Before taking dances with her, I had dances with couple other girls they didn't bring it to satisfaction.But this girl made it.
Few girls really know how to dance.
Nothing helps cure obsession like variety.
May be obsessed but didn't scare her off.
Time to take a break until I find her in the club.
Where did you get the indication that I spent only $200 in the club.Go read my posts again you MFBS.
"When I had dances with her last time I spent $60.00 + $100.00 plus tip of $20.00 And I LDKed after the last song."
Like a $20 tip is something to brag about ...
She's probably getting several texts on a number she may not even be checking or just thinks, I will see him later at the club.
I'm glad dancers aren't texting me. If I get one of my sisters started, she can keep texting for a long time. There are some days and times when they don't want any texts. I'm the same but I turn off my phone ringer.
I'll second that (unless it is Chris Rock)
And Darkblue---Orionsmith is correct. Chances are she gave you her work phone number and work isn't or at least wasn't on her mind when you called. --chances are the voice mail on that number has been filled up and not accepting messages for weeks.
You are wrong..I never mentioned club..I mentioned dancer.i spent that on the dancer . I never mentioned anywhere how much I spent in da club
BTW I am not what you r assuming
I am a pure white guy
When she gave her number, I entered it and texted her.She immidiately replied.
I am homeless European
I am homeless German Mexican mixed breed
(Just the dancer you like - and she clicked with you too. )
Keep in mind a thousand things can happen in a dancer's life in a couple of days.
You can call the club everyday to check if she is working that day. It only takes 10 seconds.
I did that recently looking for a dancer that gave me great satisfaction the first time I got dances from her.
On subsequent visits to this club, she was not there.
Then I started calling the club first everyday - and the door girl would also furnish unnecessary information about that dancer after saying no she is not working today.
But one day (like after 6 days) the door girl says - "she just walked in"
Of course I went to the club. She was with a customer and did not recognize me. But smiled at me just like she would for any new customer. So later we went for dances. In the middle of second song she erupted "HEY! I know you for last week! Where have you been?" ... and dancer remembered a lot of details from our last convo - a few even I had forgot. I think some dancers have compartmentalized memories - they are vivid during the customer interaction. But each dancer goes through 100s of customers each week that things can get mixed up. (Happens to me w.r.t. dancers).
Also a few years ago - I only wanted dances from one dancer (because she scored 10 out of 10 on rogertex's personal rating system). I visited the club just for her - but did not find her. Then I called the club prior to next visit and the doorgirl said she's moved to Florida. That was that.
As others have said - keep her in your memories, and start hunting for another cowgirl.
It's not highly likely you will find your next Perfect 10.
It is a certainty.
Chances are if you see her again you will hear something about a phone issue (lost, broken, couldn't pay) as to why she did not respond.
In the meantime you need to find other dancers for the times she's not there or the inevitable time when she is no longer stripping.
Next time I went in, dropped around $800 and bought many drinks. Third time about $1k. So she kinda responds to my text telling her to work a certain day but not guaranteed.
Remember these girls got majors problems. That’s why they gotta do what they gotta do. You can’t expect them to be on top of shit.
I’ve had girls where I dropped 200-400 in a couple hours and they would ignore you for another Custy unless it was slow.
If she doesn’t save your number under a special name like baller, rich dumbass, getabag, stacks, then your prob just another random.
For clubs that dont publish dancer schedules online, when Ive tried calling or asking cover girl at front door with the dancer sign in clipboard right infront of her (hard to read upside down for me), they said "pay cover and find out, we cant tell u if she is here".
she likes you dude and is playing hard to get, my bad. keep chasing, eventually she will return your texts
How did I forget This? I should give it a try.Not sure if the girl at front desk gives genuine reply.
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You can call the club everyday to check if she is working that day. It only takes 10 seconds.
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OP, find another girl who will take your hard earned money if you gotta waste it on strippers. Most strippers probably have horrible customer service on the call return
She’s a stripper. Strippers are flaky. Most strippers deal with their urgent needs for money. A 2 day span is far too long for a dancer to show up! If I told my dog - that he was going to get a big juicy steak in 2 days - it’s not useful at all!
Once I texted her a day before.Second time i texted her a day before and same day from the club.
Also, these girls are flakey as fuck, no plans are guaranteed. I've had girls flake on sessions after agreeing 1 hr before meetup. It's insane.
Also, these can girls ghost/quit/whatever at any time. Every time you see her could very likely be the last.
Getting fixated on one is a recipe for disaster. I have favorites obviously, but notice I said it in its plural form. You'll reach ruin very quickly the minute you only want one in particular, and expect her to treat you with any normal amount of etiquette.
You understand that strippers are totally focused on themselves - correct?
If she didn’t immediately need your money - your appointment doesn’t matter to her.
I recommend you repeat after me: I’m a PL. I will store strippers names and numbers on my burner phone. I won’t call or text them. My desires only matter when a stripper needs my money.
Continue to repeat that affirmation until you understand your role in the club.