Soft, formal-looking pants with belt loops - looking for recommendations?
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There was a discussion a few pages back on LDKing and it moved to pants and how strippers like soft pants/shorts/etc. and how they felt better when you were getting a lap dance.
I started looking around, and I'm having a hell of a time finding anything that seems like it would be better in the style I usually wear - black slacks with a belt. So I'm looking for recommendations/links to good pants. I only really have two requirements (other than the aforementioned "soft"):
1: Must have belt loops.
2: Must be able to pass as regular slacks, at least under club lighting.
I'd love something akin to the pajama pants I have - thin 100% cotton - but everything I've found with that sort of softness is literally a pajama bottom.
I've got a couple of new pairs of pants on the way soon that will probably be at least as good as my current ones, but I wanted to ask y'all to see if you had any recommendations as well.
I started looking around, and I'm having a hell of a time finding anything that seems like it would be better in the style I usually wear - black slacks with a belt. So I'm looking for recommendations/links to good pants. I only really have two requirements (other than the aforementioned "soft"):
1: Must have belt loops.
2: Must be able to pass as regular slacks, at least under club lighting.
I'd love something akin to the pajama pants I have - thin 100% cotton - but everything I've found with that sort of softness is literally a pajama bottom.
I've got a couple of new pairs of pants on the way soon that will probably be at least as good as my current ones, but I wanted to ask y'all to see if you had any recommendations as well.
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https://www.tommybahama.com/en/c/big_and…
https://www.tuscl.net/article.php?id=287…
Belts, like jeans, are for amateurs. Wear long slacks (or shorts for that matter) with an untucked shirt and no belt. No one will know until your dancer goes to unzip you. The untucked shirt also helps to cover up your boner.
CP
Since summer isn't too far around the corner I would recommend linen slacks as another alternative.
And huh, silk pants. I never actually considered those, although looking around it appears they're not quite as common for the "big and tall" crowd unless you want to pay $200 a pair.
Honestly, from what I've seen, most dancers will just unbuckle the belt if it bothers them.
Gee, I wouldn't have to triple post if we could just edit our comments. @Founder.
https://shop.lululemon.com/c/men-pants/_…
I wear shorts/pants with an elastic waistband which negates the need for a belt.
These from walter hagen are thin, single layer, no zipper and are totally water proof. So no worrying about accidental fluid transfer:
https://www.dickssportinggoods.com/p/wal…
"I think untucked shirts look a bit trashy. I blame it on old military indoctrination. :p"
Self-created challenges, but wearing the clothes that give you the most confidence going into the club is a good idea.
They are available on line for about 30 dollars in multiple colors and with a comfortable stretchy waist band.
The Tommy Bahama pants look very nice. They are pricey - but I’m sure they are soft and comfy. Probably great for a nice grind too!
Why do you want to wear a belt? That's horrific for dances, both for you and the dancer. The belt is the first thing I removed when "fixing" my club outfit.
Also, the zipper is terrible as well, find pants without a zipper.
Softness is key. Honestly, some dancers have super thin material over their snatch. Be considerate, don't have them grinding their snatch against the sandpaper feel of jeans. Grinding will be more frequent and feel much better.
Once you've found these pants it will be obvious what you want. I've had dancers sit and then do the usual leg touch, get super surprised and say "wow, so soft, you are prepared! lol." They know they'll be grinding if they stick with me.
Listen, you're a PL just going into the club. Don't worry about looking like a stud or whatever. They know you're a loser, embrace that shit.
I strongly recommend pajama bottoms. The ones I wear are solid black. I like to think they look like black slacks. Whether I'm fooling anyone is unknown. I get let in without any mention of my clothes. Most dancers compliment me on my choice.
Wear whatever makes you comfortable. If they don't let you in, then worry about dressing up.
As an aside, I've tried everything:
Jeans, the worst
Slacks/Khakis, softer but has zipper
Sweats, comfortable and softness is nice, I see why so many dancers tell me old dudes wear them.
Athletic pants, depending on material can be good or bad. Some have weird fly or strange lining, or weird outer material.
Pajamas, best so far, super thin, very soft, no fly issues.
Athletic shorts, very very good, if they let you in.
That said, pants without a zipper and belt loop are better. Instead of a belt loop you can get pants with a drawstring or elastic waist band instead. These will also come without a zipper.
The Haggar slacks I wear are polyester but very thin and soft and can be found for anywhere between $20 and $40. The stretch waist allows them to be worn very comfortably without a belt and the zipper is plastic with a liner on the inside to keep it from catching. They are also machine-washable...toss them in the washer, then dryer, and hang them up as soon as they're done to avoid wrinkles.
They're great club pants that pass all dress codes; they can be worn with a v-neck for a casual look, or with a polo or button-up shirt.
This could easily be an article - as this advice will be useful to clubbers going forward.
The panel of lap dancers also approved of the pants in terms of softness, lack of jizz transmission, bulge containment and clit massage ability. So they gave it a high score of 3 VIP’s.
The results are unanimous! Lol!
You get jizz containment AND thin/soft/smooth material at the crotch. I've 'tested' these against jeans, slacks, shorts, and just about all other options and they clearly win on both fronts. (Others do better on one front but not the other.)
+1 on the Haggar pants by the way - these are actually my current favorites, even if I'm looking for something better. Linen and silk pants are two other good ideas. Hell, I might even get a pair of pajama pants based on @houjack's suggestion and have a friend of mine alter them to have belt loops - she's good at that sort of stuff (although I suspect if she knew the reason, she'd be less than happy to do it :V)
For me, @wallanon hit it on the head with "wearing the clothes that give you the most confidence going into the club is a good idea." Sure, I could wear basketball shorts and an untucked shirt, but I'd spend the whole time feeling weird about it whether I was in the club or not. I'm a fat PL, so I feel like I need to look semi-nice to make up for it.
But buying dances is for chumps. And paying money for ejaculation services from girl who has not opened herself up to you emotionally is simply spending money to exacerbate your own sexual frustration.
SJG
Paying for the ejaculation service is the point, you moron.
I say wear what feels the maximum best as long as the club allows it and it contains (or at least hides) your jizz. I don't know about anyone else but I sure as hell don't judge another PL for wearing any pants or shorts that are already acceptable in public.
I'm in a Portland club right now and I see dudes with shorts, slacks, and jeans on. It doesn't fucking matter unless the club has a dress code.
The dancers have seen it all before though, so try not to worry about it too much.
:)