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@flagooner agreed 100%. I encourage my CF to do the same thing. We will text and she will let me know if I am coming in on this night, shes going to be tied up for a bit with another regular. When she can break away she will. Once shes done she comes to see me. Doesn't bother me one bit. I don't want to be her only source of income when I am there, plus variety is the spice of life right? After we have spent some time together, if the club is a little busier, I will encourage her to go make a round. Its not going to hurt my feelings, plus I want to spend some time up at the stage or just chatting with the other girls in the club who might hesitate to approach me if CF hasn't seen me yet or i am with her. Once shes done that, she comes back and we hang out a bit more. Keeps things interesting me.

Regular club there is almost never lines or a wait to get in except maybe when there is a bigger group or there is a bachelorette party coming in to go see the male dancers upstairs. When there is I know the bouncer and coat girl well enough that they will wave me up right away or open up the exit door for me and get me in past the lines. Guess that is one of the perks of being a regular and making sure to tip the staff well.

Regular spot plays quite a bit of variety and defiantly depends on the girls. Few play older 80/90s rock, a few girls dance to rock/metal and a few dance to dubstep and newer hip hop. Majority though dance to a lot of 90s and early 2000 hip hop, which coincidentally is one of my preferred genres so it’s usually enjoyable. Tends to get me into the mood when I’m getting a private danceand I’ll end up finding myself kind of dancing along with them or singing. Which has made the dances pretty fun at times when the girl gets into it too. Ironically enough though with the area I live in and the area my regular club is in (rural, farm land) and how popular the music is in general, not too many girls dance to country. A few but not as many as you would think. Thankfully. At the end of the day I don’t really care what music the girl dances too as long as they can dance well to it. Which doesn’t always happen. I’ve seen girls who dance awesome to rock and roll but out hip hop on and they are lost. I will agree with the others too. Music is way too loud. I hate sitting less than 5 feet from a girl or someone I’m at the club with and not being able to hear a word they’re saying.

Likewise. A few girls that I get sometime to hang with on a more regular basis both only work 2 nights a week, sometimes 3 but thats it. I am not quite regulars with them, but I have spent enough time with them that when they see me they will come over say hello and usually give me a dance or two while they are in between their regulars. I always enjoy spending time with them. Like you said they usually seem happier to be there than the other girls, actually can hold some decent conversations about things other than the club, and dances are usually much better and not "going through the motions" like a girl working her 4th day in a row as you said. One of them is a younger girl in her mid 20s and the other is slightly older in her middle 30s. This is their only job and both seem to live a pretty comfortable life according to them.

Wow, thats pretty gross never have seen anything like that. I used to get mad at this one dancer I took to VIP 2-3 times probably and each time so would stop in the middle of her set, get dressed and run down to the bathroom. She comped me some time for it, but was very annoying and certainly a mood killer. Hearing that story, I feel much better about that situation and appreciate the fact that she did that instead of just pissing on the floor. I think we all know its a given that clubs arent the cleanest places, I just dont want to see that crap happening.