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7 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
The way I see it a dancer can charge whatever she wants. But if that number is different from the house rate it is her responsibility to mention that beforehand.
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7 years ago
I don't mind tattoos and even can find a fair bit of it attractive but I am on the younger side of most here.
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7 years ago
Typo - a guy would want a girl 2-4 inches shorter than himself.
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7 years ago
I have given this some thought. I would agree with you SebHenley that I hate the platform shoes.
I think it comes down to most men's perception of height. If you line up a bunch of girls and ask men to pick the most attractive they tend to choose the tallest. However a lot of that is to do with the feeling of status and women as possessions or trophies. I think if you put a guy on a deserted island where status is irrelevant the preference for taller would go away and a guy would want a girl there he would pick someone 2-4 inches shorter than himself.
That 2-4 inch height difference (girl shorter than guy) is exactly what the vast majority of women want as well. And I think this is one of the reasons the strip club environment is not conducive to female bonding.
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7 years ago
yup
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7 years ago
Also songs are 3-3.5 minutes long. So you can work out the number of songs from that and the info previously posted.
For stage tips unless your dancer is black an in an urban club it is most likely she is not making a ton off stage tips. Say 0-10 on a stage shift normally and in the case of one guy 20-50 making it rain (which is not an everyday thing). Instead the money is made selling lap dances. However there are clubs where this is not the case.
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7 years ago
So I know the OP and most everyone here are seasoned vets but just in case some newb lurkers are reading here is a tip.
When I was a newb I had pretty bad success with telling a dancer at the stage I wanted her to come and see me later. Changing the language to a more direct approach however has been way more successful. Instead of just saying "Hey come and see me when you get off stage" I now add "I would definitely love to buy a dance from you. Do you have anything lined up?". That tends to work almost every time, and when it doesn't she usually lets me know so there is no wondering.
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7 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
Easy, say you have been thinking about it and the idea of spending more time in bed sounds awesome (be positive) but you still want to give her something. Offer half of whatever it normally is. Get this out of the way immediately. If she questions it say you had a mistress before and want to transition slowly.
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7 years ago
I am personally not interested at all if a girl has fake tits/lips/etc.
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7 years ago
@hotdog0007 - Sounds like a sweet arrangement. I am assuming it didn't start at $200 for that lengthy of an meeting. Did it morph over time? What was your deal like with her 5 years ago?
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7 years ago
Thinking about it buying a car could be one of the best deals in sugaring. Say you find someone who hasn't fucked up their credit. You work out the paperwork in advance and just have her show up to sign. She feels like she is getting a $30k car. You are sending in a check for $199 every month to cover the lease.
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7 years ago
Probably a lease.
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7 years ago
What the hell is "letter s"?
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7 years ago
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PeterEasterVirginia - Last seen being walked to the door
I wouldn't take Bjs comment as cynical at all. The dancer likes you and wants to keep you as a regular.
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7 years ago
"he doesn't realize that is actually the type of stuff I want to hear"
LMAO!!!
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7 years ago
@Bj99 - I am guessing you are done with this thread. But if you happen to respond again I would be curious what you mean by he is an easy customer. I am guessing he is nice, doesn't expect lengthy conversation, and doesn't push physical boundaries?
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7 years ago
Remember the don't be a little bitch rule.
I would just say to my regular girl. Hey I want to get a single dance with the new hot baby stripper. I'll be back in 5 minutes and then after that I will definitely still want to get a few dances with you. You cool with that? If she says yes, then give her $5 and say buy yourself a drink or keep it as a tip.
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7 years ago
@Bj99 Moving forward what do you want from him. He obviously didn't handle the situation well and knows it. And from his tip he probably wants to apologize. It seems like you are hurt. Going forward you can either act like nothing happened or bring it up. Personally I think bringing it up and expressing your feelings about the situation is most likely to end in a resolution that everyone feels good about.
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7 years ago
Bj99 - How would you have liked him to act?
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7 years ago
The one other thought I have is that the $20 tip is a signal that you should at least talk to him. You don't know what is in his head. You are obviously hurt about the way he handled the situation. He might feel completely shitty about it and totally want to apologize to you and maybe even want your council on how to act in the future. Talking to him could end up being super positive for both of you and create a deeper connection.
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7 years ago
A $20 tip from a guy that normally only spends $60-80? Sounds like he is sorry for how he handled the situation. He probably didn't want any drama.
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7 years ago
How much are you tips fluctuating?
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7 years ago
@rogertex - Which clubs would you recommend for the best LDK potential with white or latina dancers?
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7 years ago
@LoverBoyPizza - You REALLY need to stop going to the club and start using SA.
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7 years ago
So I went by tonight which is the first time there not during day shift. The night shift there is way better. I went early on when it wasn't too busy and there was a ton of great looking talent and an amazing dancer/customer ratio. And you are pretty much guaranteed a good grind.