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5 years ago
@papi- The movie definitely does a great job pointing out how the cops didn't take anything the male victims said seriously. In the movie and real life eventually a guy got a tape recording on the phone with one of the girls that was incriminating and even then the cops pretty much laughed him off and generally belittled him. On top of that I think there was another whole scene where they pointed out that most guys wouldn't report anything because they were embarrassed to be victimized by women.
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5 years ago
So I decided to go see Hustlers today. I have seen 3 new strippers now that said they saw Hustlers and went and applied. I am super attracted to brand new young baby strippers so maybe I run into these types more than the average TUSCLer? All of these new girls were way above average on attractiveness and gave great lap dances. A pair of them were just "tourists" (just dancing for a few nights to try it out for fun instead of money) and I have always had really fun conversations with "tourists".
The other baby stripper was one of the hottest girls I have ever seen and said she saw hustlers and wanted to be "just like JLo". She had some pretty unrealistic ideas about what normal stripper income was.
Movie review:
The movie is not bad. Has one or two funny moments. Probably not worth paying for, wait till it comes out on video/streaming/torrents.
It was fairly accurate although the strippers depicted were definitely of the scammy/GPS variety. Surprisingly it even directly mentioned the concept of LDKing!
I would not recommend taking a wife/girlfriend if they are uncomfortable at all with the strip club.
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5 years ago
So ran into a new baby stripper last night who said she saw Hustlers and wanted to be like Jlo.
Good news is she was a solid 9. Bad news is she seemed to have extremely unrealistic expectations. From what it sounded like she was making great money but wanted "$2500 a night".
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5 years ago
SJG - How will wandering stripper children be handled in your great supreme organization? If they are young mexican boys will you try to DFK them?
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5 years ago
How many ricks are there now?
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5 years ago
@sirldk - come to Texas there are tons of thick and chubby strippers here
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5 years ago
So what's the best strategy to get a manager to loosen up?
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5 years ago
So the tesla has a nav system that uses google maps. If you start typing "home depot" and it has the full power of google maps and usually finds what you're looking for within a few keystrokes. But even cooler is that you can enter in addresses or search places while you're driving. There is no lockout at all.
However... I noticed today that the in car nav place search does not have any strip clubs! I guess they wanted to not have any NSFW places on it.
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5 years ago
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LiwetIf she walks away smiling, you spent too much.
https://bit.ly/2maffLu
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5 years ago
There was a thread on the pink forum recently that mentioned that there really aren't a lot of guys that have both the willingness and available cash to spend medium to large amounts over the long term. I do think there is a lot of truth to that.
But there is also some variance in dancers. A recent ATF used to leave her phone on the table with me when she would go on stage and it would always buzz multiple times from guys wanting to know if she was working. Then I have had other favs who struggle to attract any regulars at all.
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5 years ago
I have 15 threads ignored on page one of the front room.
I have 30 people on ignore.
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5 years ago
I only spend at home. No reason investing into something that can't become a regular thing.
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5 years ago
NEITHER
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5 years ago
So I have to admit I have some personal bias. But if your definition of skill is expertise then I would say Formula 1 racing.
In addition to the obvious physical skill, stamina, and precision required by the driver you also have a team of people who have expertise in engineering, craftsmanship, and strategy.
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5 years ago
D'ERRICO wins out barely for me over neither. Despite her being super gorgeous I am not into the 90s aesthetic.
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5 years ago
NEITHER
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5 years ago
Portland doesn't sound like a great place for customers.
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5 years ago
Romijn
Not even a competition
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5 years ago
NEITHER
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5 years ago
To comment on the actual original topic of this thread, dancers who really feel like they need to charge more. Personally I don't think it has anything to do with them wanting to scam you (usually). I think it comes down to:
1. First let me play devils advocate for up-charging. Although obviously the guys on this site hate it, up-charging can be a legitimate way to increase earnings. If a dancer has a inexperienced customer on the hook who is mad with lust there is a good chance they can get him to say YES to just about anything. So it can make sense to up-charge.
Here is a popular stripper training video that goes into the strategy:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gGqXJJICYgE
While I would absolutely agree with the girl in the video that up-selling works I don't agree at all that it works for the reasons that she states. Up-selling works because a customer is mad with lust and not thinking logically. Up-selling does not work because a specific dancer is a "maserati" and other dancers are "used toyota corollas".
That "maserati/corolla" fallacy inlies the issue for those of us who are experienced regular customers. We know that no dancer is really a maserati. Pretty girls come and go all the time. And almost all of my ATFs were not my "first pick" at the club the day I met them. The attraction developed over time and after emotional connection.
2. In my opinion a lot of the non-sense in the strip club can be boiled down to ego and adolescent insecurities. Some examples would be: When a dancer crying in the dressing room because of rejection. Or a customer who is angry that some girl didn't approach him. Or when ricky dugan posts about how superior he is.
Going back to the video that "maserati/corolla" fallacy is really attractive to dancers. Some of that is just the law of attraction. Believing you are attractive makes you attractive. But some dancers want to take it too far and find it is easier to delude themselves into thinking they are the hottest most desirable girl in the room even if that means ultimately making less money.
There will always be a percentage of dancers who "need" to feel superior to their peers. Those girls don't really have a set amount that they want, instead they just want MORE than their coworkers and would rather make nothing if they can't get it.
This actually provides an occasional opportunity for a smart customer. If you can find a dancer like this and play things right you can sometimes get them to do a 180. My success on this has been when spent a good amount of money quickly the first visit, clearly confidently and dominantly dictated what I wanted without giving them much opportunity to negotiate, and then I just stroked their ego a lot. The one time I found a dancer like this she would hang for hours and hours and even try to get me to stay longer. She wanted to look busy, and to appear to be making more than she actually was. To be honest she even fooled me at the time. Later when she quit and we met up as friends she confessed that she was actually making was less than she led me to believe.
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5 years ago
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CJKent (Banned)“The more a person needs to be right, the less certain he is...”
I have definitely had a lot of luck with the stripper/SB hybrid relationship. It's hard to say what is a good idea for a date. You want to find something she will enjoy.
I do think it sounds like your friend is probably going to be in for some disappointment when he ends up paying a ton for a platonic hang out.
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5 years ago
Richards