My friend from the Relationship Agreement with a Old Favorite that ended up in an avoided catastrophe is looking to get a new Favorite to do OTC and hopefully to have a SB arrangement.
He got her phone number and they are supposed to go out on a date to dinner (her request) and more to discuss the situation.
She is a relatively new (baby stripper), religious person (she said) and want to know him better. She did mention “kiddingly” that she wold expect enough so she doesn’t have to work for a week, and hinted at looking for a man (boyfriend?” / sugar daddy, but she didn’t call him that) to get her out of working...
My friend told her yes we can go to a nice dinner and see a play at the live theater (no movies) and go from there. He clearly told her we wants to “make love” to her.
In my opinion dinner is ok as long as is in a nice quiet discreet place where they can talk freely and discreetly, I even suggested a romantic picnic at the beach where he brings the takeout from a fancy steakhouse, but can be tricky to pull off as a first date.
Another date idea I suggested was Disneyland, young strippers are generally cool with that in my opinion, because it is the so called “Happiest Place”.
I told him the play is a little too much for a first date, with a young girl. Maybe just a romantic walk by the beach next to a fancy beachside restaurant.
I also told him he should be prepared to pay what she asks for without bargaining, because it kills the mood and she would not be happy about it, but if she is asking for too much just to thank her and walk away.
Anyhow, I am sure he will appreciate all the ideas and wisdom from the Jedi Masters of OTC at TUSCL.
Thank you.
As a general rule, my experience is that strippers do not convert well to SB's, even when they claim that is what they are looking for. For those dancers I've pursued as possible SB's they almost all ended up looking for OTC for 1-2 hours and nothing more. They may agree to dinner dates or shopping at first. But that will fade as soon as you start providing cash for p4p sessions.
To be clear, there are an increasing number of strippers who are now creating profiles on SD/BD sites, but those are generally do so for two purposes:
There may be a bit more fuzziness with a young, first time dancer, as described above. But the comments noted above about "not working for a week" are a huge red flag for a SB. Also, if you are prone to pay what she wants, you are going to be very unhappy. SB allowance, just like tips for VIPs and OTC must be negotiated in advance. Note that even if you (sorry, your FRIEND :lol) do pay her a weeks funds, she will likely still work at the club and try to recruit additional SD's there. Why settle for one week's pay from one SD when she can get the same from 3 other SD's?
Lastly, there an old joke that could sum up this situation:
What does a stripper do with her asshole before she goes to work?
She drops him off with his guitar at rehearsal.