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6 years ago
Thankfully I haven't. I expected this to be an issue with the fully nude clubs that I've been to but I guess that if you work in a place where you're pulling down your panties regularly, there's gotta be some kind of infrastructure in place where a dancer can regularly clean up during her shift.
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6 years ago
A teacher once told me that there's no such thing as a book that is boring or uninteresting. It's the person that's uninteresting. The kids in school who had more going on in their life other than just watching TV after school tended to enjoy reading more. I think that the same goes for the SC. If you live an interesting fulfilling life, a night at the SC enhances it quite well. But if you are generally a hermit and you look to the SC as your only source of interaction with other people, then yeah, you can lose interest. It's much like losing interest in McDonalds. As a kid it was the most exciting thing in the world but when I became an adult and ate there every day, it eventually got old.
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6 years ago
I used to wonder why guys used the private viewing booths at the adult video store. For the money that these guys were spending, they could have bought a few videos. But then I realized that they might not be able to watch privately at home because of a wife, kids, location of the TV, etc. So in this case, the PL's that you talk about are probably high profile people who would otherwise be exposed if they did OTC at their home or at a hotel where they would be recognized. It's a lot easier to be discreet when you drop $1k in a club than it is to be discreet when you rent a room and have the dancers come to your room.
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6 years ago
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san_jose_guymoney was invented for handing to women, but buying dances is a chump's game
I would have to agree with Warrior. Last Christmas I saw one of the coolest tech toys that was designed for girls. So I bought a few of them to give as gifts and none of the girls that I gave it to liked it. It's not that they hated the toy but they just weren't interested in it.
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6 years ago
I'd imagine that if they're at work, they aren't anywhere near their phone. And by the time they get back to their phone, it's a few hours later, they missed several calls and texts, and their shift is over. By this time there would be no point in responding.
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6 years ago
I agree that the most popular dancers don't have to make it known. But in my own experience with popular people, regular folks like you and me are actually "popular" to them. I have an acquaintance with a Hollywood "b-list" actor who would call me almost every other day and we would talk about all kinds of things. I would wonder to myself, "why does she want to talk to little-old-unfamous ME?" when she has direct contact with almost every single A-list actor, singer, and athlete that you can think of. So one day while I was traveling to LA on business, she invited me out to a casual dinner party where there would be 200-300 people there. Like an idiot I declined thinking that she was just "being nice" or just offering some form of politeness. It wasn't really an official invitation but more like, "There's a party at the 50/50 restaurant. Why don't you drop by?" Again, thinking to myself that I'm not famous or popular, and with 300 people in the house, nobody would even care that I was there. Boy was I wrong! The next day she was very hurt and disappointed (to put it mildly) that I was a no-show. I made up a story about how my meeting ran late and I was too tired and she understood and forgave me but I learned I can't take myself for granted and how important I am to others... no matter how famous they might be.
So this might have been a long way to get to the point that if your dancer was indeed the most popular girl in the joint you were probably her "celebrity" and/or all-time-favorite.
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6 years ago
Gmoney24 said, "To be nude in a public area, a dancer must wear shoes of some kind, otherwise it can be construed as a violation of prostitution ordinances."
Ahhh.. that make sense. I was at a club in Austin where the girl had really nice feet. She allowed me to rub her feet but she had to keep her shoes on the entire time.
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6 years ago
She isn't going to stop talking to you if she values your business. Salespeople in general know that if you get pissed off at a potential customer who doesn't want to buy anything right now, they'll lose that customer forever. So if she was able to get a good chunk of money off of you up to this point, she surely wouldn't mind waiting until you build up your finances again.
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6 years ago
If I'm in a new club, it's almost like I gotta spend money on the lower quality dancers in order to get the attention of the ones that I really want. I guess because most PL's in the club are cheap or otherwise barely have $20 in their pocket, anyone who is 7 or better is going to be more selective when it comes to working the room. I once went to the club where most of the dancers were hanging around the bar playing with the video poker machine most of the night. After buying 5 dances from the first average looking dancer that came up to me, the rest of them flocked to me like flies on a piece of rotting meat. After doing this on my first couple of visits then I started to get a reputation of someone who actually has money.
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6 years ago
I can't help but to think of the movie "Maximum Overdrive".
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6 years ago
So if I say that I did it once, it didn't really happen.
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6 years ago
I thought I had a good response until I saw the part where you said,
"when I got home, I sent her like 4 dick pics, so she'd know I was serious; semi-hard, out of respect."
LOL!! That was classic!
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
" Midget refers to a person who is very short, but normally proportioned."
Actually that's not accurate. I used to think that there was a difference between "midgets" and "dwarfs" but it's ALL different forms of dwarfism. It's just that proportionate dwarfism is very rare in comparison to Achondroplasia which is the more common version. Normal sized torso, short arms and legs, and a big forehead.
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6 years ago
Now that you shared that, I'm going to the thrift shop to get some extra dress shirts as souvenirs. She can put it on after our encounter and she's free to keep it. I can't afford to lose my tailored shirts. Aside of the cost, it would be a huge inconvenience to be short one shirt and have to get another one made.
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6 years ago
If the fake boobs are as good as you guys are saying, then I've been fooled more times than I realize. Every time I've seen a stripper with fakes, they were hard and unnaturally shaped.
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6 years ago
I don't care how it looks. I'm only concerned with how it feels.
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6 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
The biggest lesson that I learned is that I am a paying customer and I have the right to pick and choose what I want and it's perfectly OK if I don't buy anything. When I first starting going to the SC it was always on a very busy night when there was more guys in there than dancers. After being in the club for 3 hours without being able to get a dance, I would settle for some of the most fugly women in the joint. Along those lines I've told many of them exactly what I wanted and I don't do a second dance if they cant/wont give it to me. Also, I'd have to say a lesson that I learned is how to know exactly what it is that I want. Too many times we go in there thinking that we can only have what the dancer has to offer. Aside of the club rules each dancer has their own routine that they do if you sit there and say nothing so be sure to tell her what you want her to do if you want enjoy yourself.
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6 years ago
If she walks up behind you and you really want to get a good look at her, tell her to take a few steps in front of you and to turn around like a model. Don't be afraid of offending her or disrespecting her. You must inspect the merchandise before accepting delivery.
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6 years ago
It's obviously doctored and weird looking. The problem with these videos is that the facial expressions don't match the body language. Also in some of these videos, their head is turning one way while their eyes are looking in the other direction.
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6 years ago
I had one offer to give me a BJ for $400 right on the main floor right in front of everyone else. You can probably guess what I said. So a few minutes later I'm coming back from the ATM.... LOL. No really. I couldn't do it.
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6 years ago
I knew of a stripper who had AIDS and died a few weeks after I met her. I met her through a friend who lived a half mile away from the SC who would invite some of the strippers over for a place to crash before their shift. There was this one stripper in the group that they called "momma" because she was about 30 or so.. which I guess is a senior citizen in this industry. Anyhow she looked tired and sickly and I didn't know exactly what was going on until she stopped coming over to the house.
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I always like to play drinking games when there are certain words or phrases that I expect the president to say. This year it's going to be words like FANTASTIC, and OUTSTANDING, and FAKE NEWS.
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6 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
Lenny Kravitz - Fly Away
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6 years ago
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LiwetIf she walks away smiling, you spent too much.
In addition to what has been said so far, there are ways to complement her looks other than the standard, "You look nice." or "I like the way your _____ looks." The other day I complemented the dancer on her piercings. But rather than just saying they look nice, I asked her how long she had them, where she got them done, how long did they hurt, etc. And that got a conversation going. Periodically she pulled her top down to show me and even let me touch her to show me examples of what we were talking about.... and this was before we did any dances. So as far as I was concerned I got a few freebies. ;)
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6 years ago
K hit the nail on the head. In everyday life the one thing that I can't stand are text messages that say, "how are you" unless it's a friend or loved one that really cares to know. But when it comes to anything job/business related, I'd rather they get right to the point and tell me exactly what they want. It's too time consuming with the back and forth greetings and the 5-15 minute lag time between texts before we get to the reason why you bothered texting me in the first place.