How often does she keep your hoodie or shirt ?

Never.

@JaredLucas: It’s COMFORTING to her and she like the way it FEELS. And, yes she intends to WEAR them!

Power. The size imbalance IS what she likes about your shirts. The fact that the shirts and hoodies are TOO big on her re-enforces to her the power difference (size) between you two. She may be doing this for money, but she’s a flesh and blood women still, with instinct and societal conditioning.

Feeling owned (property) by you feels COMFORTING to her. Don’t read into this too much or in the wrong way. She’s probably not vying for the GF or Mrs Lucas spot. She’s renting YOU as much as you are renting HER.

The fact that she TAKES THEM means she intends to WEAR them. She may only intend to wear them when she’s around you. Or she may wear them other times, even around other people, and maybe in public. The bottom line is she likes the way your clothing makes her feel.

And it probably makes her feel wanted.

Prostitutes steal? Say it ain't so Joe.

She wants something to remember you ! ;)

Right. What a klepto-whore! Going to trade it for drugs or Xbox games.

They’re going to try to collect some DNA off them and blackmail you.

Haven’t lost hoodies.

But I’ve had a few walk around the house in just my t-shirt. Come to think of it, I don’t remember ever getting those t-shirts back.

Nah. It's nothing sinister. It's like the Native Americans used to "count coups" over their fallen victims.

You should be thankful that most of them don't take scalps any more! ;-)

solution: if she wants something to wear and most likely not give back then just take out something you were thinking about discarding. don't even think about offering a t-shirt like a led zeppelin 1980 north american tour shirt or something of that sort.

I’ve not had otc girls do that. I’ve had fwb civilian girls do that several times.

One girl loved to smell my worn dress shirts. It was sweet to see her cuddle up to me - and see how she was immersing herself in the smell and feel of my body.

How do you handle it? If an otc girl makes off with a dress shirt? Do you just pull $80 out of the envelope - to compensate for the loss of a useful dress shirt? Jk.

My ATF used to put my shirt on sometimes after we were all done, though she never took one. My wife does the same thing. I asked them both why, and their answers were identical, “It’s yours. And it smells like you.”

A lot of strippers will put one of my shirts, none have ever taken one without asking though. I can only recall one instance of a girl asking for one once, it was a concert t-shirt from a band we both liked.

Civi girls do the same, the tendency to take them home is much higher with them. But they usually come back washed/dry cleaned a few days/weeks later.

Now that you shared that, I'm going to the thrift shop to get some extra dress shirts as souvenirs. She can put it on after our encounter and she's free to keep it. I can't afford to lose my tailored shirts. Aside of the cost, it would be a huge inconvenience to be short one shirt and have to get another one made.

My former ATF liked to sleep in my undershirt and kept it for herself. She also kept one of my nice ties which was ok with me. She said she liked the smell of me on it and they were mementos.

My present SB sleeps allot in an athletic shirt I got from my alma mater that was one size too small for me.

@JackScott, you should. Joke’s on them tho bc I buy all my tops at thrift stores for a dollar. Winning!

I've had a couple of Cav's T-shirts that somehow turned into the permanent possession of an overnight guest.........

Well, just need to stock up on hoodies.

A man who likes to sleep with his women. I approve completely.

SJG

Odds are that these girls really like you. If you'd of met them in the supermarket check out line, instead of at a strip club and offering them money, likely they'd be going out with you for free.

So they want your clothes as a souvenir and an excuse maybe to come back.

SJG

Maybe you wear the same shirt/hoodie size as her BF?

^^^^^ Ha Ha Ha

SJG