How often does she keep your hoodie or shirt ?
jaredlucas
Arizona
I've noticed that several of my overnight OTC dates ( all different girls) over the past 6 months have put on one my dress shirts or hoodies in the morning to keep warm - typically over coffee or breakfast.
Often the shirt or hoodie somehow never gets back on my hanger or suitcase. In other words it somehow becomes my OTC sweetie's latest wardrobe addition.
Losing a hoodie or shirt doesn't kill me but I find it interesting that my lady friends seem to keep them once they put them on. Not all of them just some.
I've never implied that they can keep the shirt or hoodie and being an XL size, none of the clothing I own would fit the petite ladies I tend to favor.
What's the deal with keeping oversized clothing - do they give it to their boyfriends ? Or maybe use them to wash their cars? Ha ha
Perplexed in the desert.
Often the shirt or hoodie somehow never gets back on my hanger or suitcase. In other words it somehow becomes my OTC sweetie's latest wardrobe addition.
Losing a hoodie or shirt doesn't kill me but I find it interesting that my lady friends seem to keep them once they put them on. Not all of them just some.
I've never implied that they can keep the shirt or hoodie and being an XL size, none of the clothing I own would fit the petite ladies I tend to favor.
What's the deal with keeping oversized clothing - do they give it to their boyfriends ? Or maybe use them to wash their cars? Ha ha
Perplexed in the desert.
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Power. The size imbalance IS what she likes about your shirts. The fact that the shirts and hoodies are TOO big on her re-enforces to her the power difference (size) between you two. She may be doing this for money, but she’s a flesh and blood women still, with instinct and societal conditioning.
Feeling owned (property) by you feels COMFORTING to her. Don’t read into this too much or in the wrong way. She’s probably not vying for the GF or Mrs Lucas spot. She’s renting YOU as much as you are renting HER.
The fact that she TAKES THEM means she intends to WEAR them. She may only intend to wear them when she’s around you. Or she may wear them other times, even around other people, and maybe in public. The bottom line is she likes the way your clothing makes her feel.
And it probably makes her feel wanted.
But I’ve had a few walk around the house in just my t-shirt. Come to think of it, I don’t remember ever getting those t-shirts back.
You should be thankful that most of them don't take scalps any more! ;-)
One girl loved to smell my worn dress shirts. It was sweet to see her cuddle up to me - and see how she was immersing herself in the smell and feel of my body.
How do you handle it? If an otc girl makes off with a dress shirt? Do you just pull $80 out of the envelope - to compensate for the loss of a useful dress shirt? Jk.
Civi girls do the same, the tendency to take them home is much higher with them. But they usually come back washed/dry cleaned a few days/weeks later.
My present SB sleeps allot in an athletic shirt I got from my alma mater that was one size too small for me.
A man who likes to sleep with his women. I approve completely.
SJG
So they want your clothes as a souvenir and an excuse maybe to come back.
SJG
SJG