Ever deal with a stripper dying?
theDirkDiggler
Illinois
I've heard of several dancers dying (usually heroin overdose or similar) or other causes (accident or illness) in the last few years. Before that, there was a well over a ten year period where i didn't hear of a single incident (death), and that incident had been the only one to that point. Then kind of like the porn stars dropping like flies recently, i started hearing about some of these dancers. The sad thing was that i knew two of the strippers (out of 5 total stripper deaths in my entire SC history) and had seen (just danced with) a third once. That third girl was kind of a ROB, but i still wouldn't wish anything like that on anyone, and felt it was damn shame and very unfortunate. But i never got close to her at all or missed her or even think about her as i had literally only spent maybe 5 minutes total with her.
Unlike with the other two, whom i did really like as human beings as well as dancers and had hoped to see them again and have more fun with them. One of those two died (heroin OD) not even a few weeks after i had last danced with her. Very fun dances, and very sweet dancer, among the sweetest dancers and even people i've ever met, and sweet memories. I was very sad, almost like hearing about an ex-girlfriend dying. Well, maybe not; I've yet to lose an ex like that, but i still imagine it might be similar. The other girl died a few years after i had last seen her. I had stopped going to her club as it was pretty far away and had started going to closer clubs, but found about her death (cause unknown) on stripclublist. Also sweet, but more feisty and great chemistry with her. Still remember my last VIP with her. That was probably the most recent death and i felt a similar sadness as the other girl.
But even so, those incidents didn't stop me from continuing to club. Neither has other deaths of people relatively closer to me. My visits are a usually a few weeks apart anyway, and i would compare SCing to any other hobby i continue to do. I move on eventually and get on with life, usually pretty quickly and SCing is also a nice distraction.
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One of my faves committed suicide about 10 years ago. On the surface, she was a sweet, happy person. Clearly, there was a lot of pain beneath the surface.
That is also the type of news that is impossible for me to follow since I never club in my home town.
However I have seen many many dancers that are already dead they just have not realized it yet. When you see skinny dancer that her skin is loose on her frame and she has bad teeth even though she is less than 25 years the odds are she will be dead in less than 2 years with meth-mouth and a habit so bad she forgets to eat.
There is not one of us that has not seen that whether you recognize it or not. The majority of strippers are screwed up in one way or another. It is seldom I speak with one who is just there for the money and even then they have issues.
that was a shock to come home to.
Some time later, imagine my surprise when my fave barmaid called me from the club where my CF had worked and told me that my CF had called to see if she could work there if she came back down.
She did return, but she had to wear a wig and looked quite different. Anyway, I saw her a couple of times in the club. Not long after the last time she called me to say she wasn't doing strip clubs any longer, instead, working out of her apartment. Travel was 8 mile, now it would be 30 miles of Miami traffic. I called one time when I was in the area, but she could accommodate me at that time. Never called again, but when she called me, I always told her just to time comsuming to see her. After about 3 calls, she stopped calling. My guess she either gave up or perhaps even had died. She had told me the cancer was very aggressive. Not exactly sure what that meant.