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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Seems to happen a lot in south Florida. Girls who are there to talk & hang out. Even in some heavy tip walk places, leave the group when they are called on stage & go right back there when they are done, bypassing their tip walk. IMO if you pull them from shooting the shit, they're likely to give you shitty dances.
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Brushing off dancers that I'm not interested in.
And knowing when to fold 'em, i.e. if the dancer that I'm looking for isn't there or available, or there isn't anything that I really am interested in, being able to walk out the club with my money, rather than lowering my interests and blowing my money on the B-team.
Also, more PL restraint. If I didn't want dances from you before you walked up to me, I shouldn't have my principles lowered because you started stroking the goose's neck, and he starts being the decision maker.
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
This is a problem. You don't want to be rude because 1. Word may travel that you're a shit bag; 2. Just because you don't want a dance from her now, doesn't mean that you may not want one in the future; 3. These girls are at their job, and just doing there job, and none of us like dealing with a rude asshole at our job.
My usual sign when they plop themselves down next to me and I have no interest is to show no interest. Backfired on me the other day, when a dancer told me that I was shy, because I wasn't making eye contact with her. I'm not making eye contact w/you, because I have no interest in you. But she didn't get that, she thought I was shy. That balance of Subraman's rule, where you're not being a bitch/but not being an asshole, leaves you w/some dancer who thinks your shy.
One other point though, I disagree w/the notion that convo leads to a better dance, more than "wanna dance". I don't think there is any correlation at least in my neck of the woods. I've had great convos where it seems we're really vibing, leading to distant/mechanical dances. Some of the best dances I've had came off of me already wanting that, when she came & said "wanna dance/quieres un baile". I think because in my area there is so much of a "wanna dance" culture, that you cannot judge a book by it's introductory paragraph, at least here.
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7 years ago
@shadowcat it's a bad thing when you're going home to an amateur detective
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7 years ago
Like how your eyes adjusts to the lighting, unless the talent is below a certain plateau, your wants generally adjusts to the talent. Also certain girls can grow on you. I can think of one where the first night I saw her she came up to me & I totally blew her off, not my type. A couple of visits later, she'd grown on me to the point where I'm getting mad b/c I want dances from her & some guy has her locked down.
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7 years ago
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flagoonerEverything written by this member is a fact.
Call me conservative, but I'd consider ITP HJ in extras category. Maybe in my mind crossing the clothing barrier goes into extras category by my definition.
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7 years ago
Before this gets out of hand: Work slacks are dry clean only. You don't send a suit to the cleaners after every wear. But this one has to go in apparently
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7 years ago
It is the content of the tattoo, and not the tattoo in of itself which is the problem. Kind of a cultural reverence thing. For example in Mexican prisons guys get full back tattoos of the La Virgen de Guadalupe on their back, because it would be difficult for someone to stab you in the back, if they have to stab La Virgen.
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7 years ago
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joc13firmly on the Atlanta United bandwagon!
I wanted to say "Hear, Hear" but 25 beat me to it. Totally agree.
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7 years ago
I've only made one excursion to WPB and was not impressed. My presumption is that Pompano is just too strong & too close, that talent & customers who would frequent WPB end up going down south. And for folks down south, we have to drive PAST Pompano to get to WPB, and from everything I've read & seen, why would one do that?
I thought that there was a niche in WPB for the rich guy, looking for the Playboy Playmate type dancer, but maybe neither of those really exist up there.
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7 years ago
I was thinking the same thing when I saw a bad ass stripper w/some coke once. I was like no way on fucking earth she is paying her dealer in dollars.
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7 years ago
@Subra I'm with you, you've converted me on the buying a girl you're interested in a drink (I can actually think of a time where a girl, who I found sexy, kind of forced a drink sale on to me, and was mad that she did it, so I angrily sent her on her way-with my paid for drink-there the big head overruled the little head, and the little head was right on this occasion).
However, the OP is buying a bucket of beers. In my neck of the woods there are no dancers who are ordering/drinking/receiving beer.
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7 years ago
Don't buy so much beer. Get a dark bottled beer, so they can't tell that its empty. I've nursed a single beer for 3 hours. Tip a little bit on stage (very visibly) to let dancers know that you are there to spend money, and just put off your dance spending to the end of the night. So they know you're not a rock & are going to spend, but you're just biding your time waiting on it.
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7 years ago
I saw dancer heels & male pair of feet underneath a stall once. At the time I figured it was an extras situation, but now that I think about it they were probably just doing coke.
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Kind of sounds similar to the pitch for a time share.
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7 years ago
One of my regular situations is to hang out at a club for a minute while I wait for traffic to die down on my way back home. I can't get any stripper smell on me, so the most I can do is a little stage tipping. I'll scope to see any talent worth returning for on a later date when I can do more. So I'm there just to look but times I don't do it & am sitting in horrible traffic like "why didn't I stop in the club!"
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7 years ago
If I had to stare at her during conversation while across a dinner table or next to her at the bar = face.
Anything else in the world = body.
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7 years ago
Because sitting in traffic sucks. Why not wait for the traffic to go down, with a cold one in your hand & a hot one in your lap.
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7 years ago
There is a lawyer down here who represents a lot of strip clubs and let's just say he has gotten waaaaaaaay to involved in his work
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7 years ago
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joc13firmly on the Atlanta United bandwagon!
Glasses & taking off shoes for a lap dance, which apparently is a pretty common like. Slingshot bikinis. Tan lines. Belly chains. Large gaudy necklaces (popular w/Cuban dancers here). Tight fishnet shirt/dress with no bikini/bra on underneath. I don't like tattoos, until I see the right one, when I like HER tattoos.
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7 years ago
Short socks in the dancer heels. Fishnet, particularly when it's over the butt. Boot stripper heels. Ornate/intricate shoes. Fishy vagina smell & ass smell. Thick braids. Any sort of hairstyle that is youngish or girly. Skirts I think.
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7 years ago
Many historians say nothing shaped the face of America more than the Great Splooge Migration of 1876.
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
late 30s, early 40s. Finally have enough money to make things happen, and still have the drive to make things happen. And not yet creepy old for the dancers.
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7 years ago
Futuretrackstar got me crying
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7 years ago
What PC said.