Best Ways to Spread Out My Cash Throughout the Night to Stay Longer?
I normally bring 200-240 and want to avoid the ATM and its 7 dollar fees the best I can. I normally want to stay as long as possible but go over 2 and a half hours, normally three is my goal to make the most out of my visit.
What are the best ways to spread my cash throughout the night? I get a bucket of five beers so I don't have to keep tipping for five separate beers, and some clubs discount buckets. Also I try to go at least an hour before getting a dance and only get one song at a time unless it's a two for one. Some nights are easier than others, as some nights they keep coming up for what seems like every other song while other nights only a handful of girls approach me. It's so tempting to keep getting a bunch of dances!
What are the best ways to spread my cash throughout the night? I get a bucket of five beers so I don't have to keep tipping for five separate beers, and some clubs discount buckets. Also I try to go at least an hour before getting a dance and only get one song at a time unless it's a two for one. Some nights are easier than others, as some nights they keep coming up for what seems like every other song while other nights only a handful of girls approach me. It's so tempting to keep getting a bunch of dances!
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I have several years experience visiting non-extras clubs. I was selective about which dancers I'd get dances from. If I had a dance with a particular dancer and it was lame, I didn't buy dances from her again. If the dance was good, I'd buy several on each visit. If the dance was amazing, I'd see what she's like in the VIP. In these clubs, I rarely ever took a dancer to the VIP. At some clubs, there were very few dancers that gave good dances, which resulted in about 75% of all dances being one-and-done situations.
With this strategy, you can go to a club with $200, stay for 3 hours, and walk out of the club with at least $50 still in your wallet on most nights.
It might also be a good idea to try a day shift. At some clubs, the dance prices are lower, admission is free, and there tend to be fewer customers, so the hustle tends to be slower. Often clubs will let you back in for free after you have already been in that day, so even if the day shift is a bust, you could save on admission if you go back for the night shift.
It is also worth checking the club websites for specials. Some clubs have free admission nights for members, but you have to ask for it, half-price dance nights, and cheap drink nights.
I noticed you go to clubs with high dances prices ($25-30). I would lean towards BJ99's advice about chatting up the girls, but maybe only a couple of girls per visit instead of a bunch of different ones unless you are like Papi and like variety.
Also, how often do you club? If it is once a week, maybe go every other week and bring more money so you can spend more time.
The other thing you'll want to do, to stretch your money out, is consider buying the girls dinner -- I'll usually offer to split something with them, like a club sandwich that's easy to split -- and the $12 I spent on that sandwich, plus a couple of rounds of shots, can easily buy me an hour on its own. So, $50 all told including tip, for flirting & groping a beautiful stripper for an hour ... best deal in the club.
Just a difference in style, and I realize it's not everyone's; AND my way works best if you're gonna pick one girl and stay with her for a long time. But I think being miserly with the girls can be penny-wise but pound-foolish .... IF what you're looking for is for her to sit with (& flirt, & grope) you for a loooong time, without breaking the bank. If you'd prefer to sit by yourself and watch the stage show, then no reason to buy drinks
However, the OP is buying a bucket of beers. In my neck of the woods there are no dancers who are ordering/drinking/receiving beer.
1. Portland, OR. Go on a busy Friday or Saturday night. Get a drink, sit back and enjoy the show. Only get up to tip when there's a dancer you really fancy. Avoid most lap dances as they're expensive and low mileage in the club (usually good contact but no extras). Since they're busy, it's easy to get lost in the crowd and just enjoy the eye candy.
2. Utah. Either go when it's busy and treat it like Portland, or go when it's slow. If it's slow and there's a girl you really like to look at, tip her around $20 during her two-song set and buy her a drink when she comes to your table afterward. This should easily buy you conversation until she's called on stage next. Buy her a couple of drinks and spend another $20 and you can easily end up with 3 hours of conversation time which may lead to excellent options...
3. Seattle. Be prepared to decline the constant barrage of "Wanna Dance" girls who will really test your patience. Go when it's busy and tip less than $10/set for girls you really need to see up close. As before, the busy times help you get eye candy without breaking the bank or being bothered as much as when it's slow. If you have to have dances, pay attention to the girls who don't do as many stage shows because they're always in LD or VIP areas. If these girls don't work the floor, approach them when they're hanging out in the back and appear interested but not desperate. I've found offering less money for more dances, then tipping to come close to her original price will buy her memory, loyalty, and better service in the future. Seattle is my least favorite club scene but it's the closest for me.
4. Phoenix, AZ. I'd live here if I could. $10/song lap dances mean I don't have to be very picky. Contact has always been good and eye candy sweet. $300 bought me 1.5 hours of floor lappers and OTC with dinner (additional $60) beforehand with a girl who had everything I wanted.
5. Don't spend if you're not happy with the selection. Be OK with walking out and moving to another club or cutting your entry-fee/drink losses. Don't overpay for any kind of service...I'm afraid there are too many out there overpaying and it keeps prices high. There's certainly collusion among dancers and clubs, hobbyists should help counter-collude via the internet, IMO.
They may not stay long, but some will. I've seen girls sit with a guy for hours just getting drinks (girls don't make anything off drinks at the clubs I go to, same price as buying them yourself). Girls will stick around hoping the money will come.
Also day shift is best if you can swing it. Slow time is your friend. Drinks and possible money from you is better for them than sitting alone on their phone waiting for customers. Busy times like night shift are all about fast money. Dances now or she's on to another.
First if you can find the club that offers the lowest prices. Some of my favorite clubs have $5-$10 dances. Their honestly isn't any need to pay $20-$40 a dance if you don't need to. It may cost you some in gas but it may turn out cheaper to do so and more fun.
Second actual pack a cooler in your car and fill it up with ice, beer and whatever else you need for the night. Many if not all clubs always you to walk out to your car and return with out charging you to re enter. Take advantage of this and your money will go along ways since you will no longer be paying overpriced drinks and snacks.
Third even if your at a club that charges $20-$40 a dance then always wait for the deals on every hour..the 2-4-1 deals are the best way to go plus once the girls know this they will stop bugging you until the dance specials are offered.
Fourth going on dead days or nights can help you negotiate low dance prices and even champagne room prices. The clubs and even dancers want be making much on these occasions so they are more than willing to help you spend. I don't know how many times I've cut my overall bill in half by just polite asking for a discount on the basis of being short on cash.
Fith it's the reverse idea to the system. Of you want to spend less and have chicks bother you less until your ready well then you need to dress for success. What I mean by this is even if you got plenty they don't need to know this. Hell every stripper is taught to profile people based on their looks and the beer they buy. So walk in with a cut off shirt and gym shorts. Buy the cheapest beer in the house or don't buy any at all lol tenner the cooler back at the car.
Sixth you could club Hop...this could cost you more in admission but not always. If your town is big enough or the town the clubs you visit in is large enough clubs usually open at lunch time and admission is free until like 10pm...that's more than enough time to get your clubbing on. Go during these times and hop from club to club for free. This allows you to take advantage of your cooler in the car..taking breaks so no one can bother you...and spending on the girls when your ready. It also gives you the best chance to find that special one or one's LMFAO
Hope this helps
The best advice is to go on the busy day and hours and get lost in the crowd...hell i used to do just this when I was in my twenties.
I also agree with the drinks and meal ideas. If your in a club that has a nice restaurant or will order out for you take advantage of this. Weather its just for you or you pay a drink or meal as well for a special dancer you will lock yourself up for a good while just chatting, laughing and snuggling with her or yourself if you choose...the meal itself will keep other away seeing your busy or with a Girl. I really like that strategy if you was buying house drinks and food but wanted to keep the cost low and maximize the time
Not only can you get lost in the crowd but lots of girls would have already made their cash for the night and maybe getting lazy on the hustle. That would help as well.
Never mind smelling farts all night in the bathroom.
I am a young guy, 28 years old, so Saturday night is the night I normally go and I go with friends who also prefer the party atmosphere. Maybe when I get older I might switch that up. As for cheaper clubs I can try to find one in my area, I know concepts isn't too far.
From my Wisconsin days, I had a club that was about a 20 minute drive to the north that usually had anywhere from 5-10 dancers working, and dance prices were $20 topless or $40 nude. There was another club about an hour drive to the south that would usually have anywhere from 15-20 dancers working, dance prices were $20 and it was up to the dancer if they would be topless or nude, but the majority of them would be nude.
Based on this information, it should be no surprise I would usually choose to go to the club that was an hour drive to the south.
SJG
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Another idea is to sit at the bar. Many dancers think dudes sitting at the bar are cheap shit PL's and leave them alone. Also good opportunity to buy the dancers drinks and just hang with them.
My suggestion is basically, learn to enjoy the women whom you meet for more than what you pay them for. I know, it SOUNDS rather new-age-sensitive-guy, in that it starts to be advice that moves toward getting to know the girls' and their "real" selves. But if you can cut through a little bit, find out about their kids (what school, does well at what? badminton? geometry?), learn what's really hard in their lives (lost her car, can't get to work; DJ wants blowjobs but he has a stinky dick because he never bathes; whatever), you'll find (if you're anything like me) that the cuddly touchy feely is really a lot (a) CHEAPER, and (b) just as much fun. More time up close and personal, less money. take them as flawed humans, rather than as highly skilled lap-dance providers and/or biological support units for a vagina into which you wish to stick your organ. Although they are the latter two things (lap-dancers, and bio-units for vagg's) the former one thing (flawed human) is what will help you spend less money for the same enjoyment.
I didn't mean to sound preachy. I really think of this strategy as totally within my self-interests, and totally cagey, conniving, mercenary. I don't give a SHIT whether or not some half-drug-addled middle-aged chick who has been in and out of rehab has just lost her car again for the seventh time, I'm simply not likely to end up sympathizing with how hard her life is, by the end of the night! For example, I have met guys who lost legs and hands in Afghanistan and women who were removed from the sex-slave-trafficking ring of Boku Haram, OK? it's not that bad to have to take the fucking bus for a few months while living in East Lansing MI or St. Petersburg FL! But ACTING like I want to get to know her and sympathize with her is actually something GOOD FOR ME and also makes the night cheaper, more enjoyable. Really. Believe it or not. It makes me extend myself toward other people. I'm no longer in my bubble.
Trump or Clinton or Sanders or (uh ...) Cruz, we're all in a bubble. So are strippers. Go enter theirs for a while. It doesn't hurt, and it is so cheap. And horny. Gets me OFF man, to feel ... uh, the term would be, "PL-to-stripper fake connected" maybe? Puppy luv? Whatever, it ain't real love, and it fades about as quick as the smell of smoke on your clothes and can be washed out instantly with some decent laundry detergent.
Most of the comments on here are spot on but I also tend to lock in on two or three dancers on their looks quickly and then I ask the bartender ( especially if it is a guy) on his opinion....have not had one yet be shy about telling me what he thinks. I watch each of them do a round of dancing--I walk up to the stage and I tip them---make eye contact and go sit back at the bar. I buy them a drink, whatever they want to eat, and if a friend of theirs stops by I offer to buy her a drink......I've yet to top out over 400.00, most times I'm between 200-3000 a trip. Never hit the ATM and if you need more cash offer to pay the bar tab and food with a CC--most places have bland name on the receipt and not the name of the club.
I had a similar problem with $200-$300 at clubs I enjoyed.
I'm not rich but I discovered if I stopped going once a month and went every other month I could bring twice as much like $400-$600 and it was perfect
Also I drive close to four hours to club at the cheapest and highest mileage club possible aka follies ...$10 full nude full two way contact with $150 30min touch down parties in the VIP room's
Best decisions I ever made bro
2) Keep moving, or at least standing. I move around a lot for two reasons: 1) to see everyone and everything I can, and 2) to not be a sitting duck. This works especially well if you prefer to approach dancers: you can just pick out the ones you like later.
3) Be downright picky when it comes to girls you want.
4) This one I'm just starting to use the willpower to employ: only give a girl one song to impress you, and don't get a second unless the first really convinces you to.
5) When someone comes up and you don't want a dance at the moment, say you're waiting for someone. If she asks who, point to the stage. It helps if you're telling the truth (or are a good liar).
I went yesterday to a $20 spot. Six girls. One I wasn't interested in at all. One girl stood out above the rest. Got one dance from each of the other four, got 3 from the one I really liked before the club closed. Pretty good time, spent less than what I budgeted for...and now I have surplus for an extra trip if I choose.
I'm not an expert or anything, but it works for me right now.
But, it is difficult when all they want is to sell you dances. The remedy to this is pick the girl you like, start handing her front room money, get her onto your lap, let her get softened up, and get her making out with you.
Pick the girl you would want to be waking up in the morning with and be continuing to see regularly, because this is likely.
SJG
Don't take her into the dance booth to see if she is good. Proceed with her because she is already being good, in the front room. Save booths and back rooms until it is time for your own pants to come down. And then take her home with you too.
SJG