Why we do this......

If I didn't do this, there's a good chance the only woman I would have slept with in my life would be my SO.

In doing this, I have had relations with many women, ranging from tens with extras to hundreds with lappers, who otherwise would probably be way out of my league or beyond my confidence level.

Yes, it's cost money, but nowhere near as much as what I would have needed to spend in relationships, on personal appearance, drinks at regular bars, etc. The girls walk away well-paid and often even a little surprised how nice a guy I am. I walk away happy and knowing I'm living life and not just letting it pass me by.

It's a glorious thing and I don't understand why it's not more popular.

Real life crushes the soul. Necessary escape.

I agree with every word that AnonymousJim said. My fat ugly 62-year-old ass isn't going to find the kind of sexual satisfaction with civvies that I can get as often as I want with strippers. And they like me -- they really like me! (At least that's what I tell myself LOL)

Because it's entertaining and we can !

Because real life relationships suck! Civilian women have baggage they are unwilling or unable to deal with or they just lump you in with the rest of the men who treated them like shit.

SC's provide a fantasy escape for me with benefits, no baggage and without guilt.

"Real life crushes the soul. Necessary escape."

- sad by so so true. Please excuse me while I go blow my brains out.


I do it because where else can I walk in someone, bang an attractive women who is dressed in lingerie with minimal fuss and talk, and get up, leave and go back to my hotel room, in sometimes under an hour. Yes, I like to hang in strip clubs, but sometimes I just wanna fuck, bust a nut and go to bed!

People need varying levels of physical intimacy. SCs provide instant gratification of that need.

Why we do this......

Because calling an escort would be just too honest.

I did it because my marriage sucked.

Now that I'm no longer married, I do not feel the need to go as much. But I sometimes miss it. Most time I don't miss the drama, but sometimes...

I live vicariously through this site now. (Plus, I'm saving a shit load of money...)

Golly, AnonymousJim, I suppose I've gotten extras from a ten or two, but WTF does a "hundred" look like and how do I get a lapper from one? LOL

Because sitting in traffic sucks. Why not wait for the traffic to go down, with a cold one in your hand & a hot one in your lap.

Same as why a dog licks his own balls........

Why do I do this? Because I can. ( short answer)

The long answer has to do with variety, a bit of fighting boredom, being on the road, and truthfully when I ran into a few women on SA that I found out were strippers.

I do this because I live in LA, and the type of girls I'm into are into the ballers. Plus I'm terrible at talking to women, so my civilian game is trash.

There is light at the end of the tunnel though. I've been talking to this girl I met at the gym. I'm planning on not stepping foot in a strip club for awhile. Like Warhawks I'll be living vicariously through you guys.

I do this mostly for fun and entertainment.

It also costs less than having a girlfriend or wife. I get the fantasy of having all the positives that come with the girlfriend/wife scenario without having to deal with the negatives.

In the real world, rarely if ever can a guy be with any woman he wants whenever he wants - in many a SC the opposite is often true.

To affirm to ourselves what RICH STUDs we are.

I do it because I love bad trashy girls. In high school I was chicken shit to talk to most a lot of them so i mistreated the nice ones.

Guess I'm reliving what I really wanted to do in highschool....and learning why it was a good idea to avoid them in the first place.

i guess i am not weird after all...

Mr. Deuce, i think you might be just being sarcastic, but if not, i think that AnonymousJim meant that he had extras with tens of girls and lappers with hundreds of them, not that the extras girls were necessarily 10s or that the just lappers were 100s? Or that's how i interpreted it from second reading (the first time i also thought he was rating the girls). Although he did say they would have otherwise been out of his league so who knows what rating he would have given them...

I thought about this a long time but every single time I found more reasons to still do the same thing over and over consciently about the consequences.

I go to strip clubs cause that's where the pussy is.

Where else can can you have a variety of different, attractive women suck your dick and eat your cum on the way home from work without all the fuss and bother of "dating" or renting a hotel room?

@johnsmith69 there is a surprising amount of pussy other places also. If we go too often like I have done in the past even SCs can get boring. Most of us have been there.

It's all about balance and finding out that we should only go when it's still exciting. When it's not, find a new hobby for a short while.

I walk into the club and take a seat. I catch the eye of a stunning girl in her early twenties, a girl that wouldn't even bother talking to me when I was younger and better looking 10+ years ago in university. She flashes a big smile and smirks as she struts towards me. Hips swinging back and forth like a supermodel on the catwalk. She sits on my lap, introduces herself, and takes my free hand to cup her breast. She says "I hope you came here to see me, I'm glad you're here." My hands roam freely as she sits on my lap as we talk for a while. Finally she whispers in my ear "are you ready to have fun with me?" She kisses my cheek before bringing her head back and awaiting my response. She runs her hand up my thigh, grazing my rock hard dick, then gives me the "I know you want to" look.

I say "of course" as she takes my hand to lead me back to the dance area. Once in position she immediately starts grinding, shoving her breast into my mouth. She compliments my cock, says it's a great size and feels so good. After a few songs she exclaims "give me that nut, I want it as bad as you wanna give it!" I explode into my pants. She moans and smiles as she admires her accomplishment. She thanks me, and says she hopes we'll see each other again.

That's why I do this.

It beats sitting at home or a motel room watching TV. :)

Sometimes it's just nice to escape reality and live in a dream world, even if only for a short time.

houjack +10!

In a game called "Getting laid with someone out of your league", strip clubs = 'easy' setting.

@DirkDiggler, I think my sarcasm was pretty clear but benign. Of course he didn't do lap dances with girls rated 100 on a 10-point scale: so few of us attain that degree of studliness :)

The main thing which makes strip clubs different than the rest of life is that the women are in extreme high heels and extreme makeup. Just to have young pretty girls, these can be found other places, and you can get them naked.

But in extreme high heels and makeup, you need strip clubs.

SJG