Comments by nicespice (page 2)

I’ve noticed there’s been a couple of times there have been like 3-4 Davids in one room at the same time. Ditto with Steves and Johns

I like the name “Fuzzy Holes”, it’s somewhere in Tennessee

I feel like the past few years has had an extra surge of panic against anything sexual and minors, whether correctly or incorrectly. Powerful individuals even are getting more flack for behaviors that used to be okay for them to do. And legal age gap relationships seem more shamed on than there used to be. I believe allowing a kid in a titty bar is a very bad idea. This isn’t the 1990s when 14 year olds were allegedly working at clubs.

Despite that there was a time a customer used to buy me chicken wings at the club every two weeks, I’ve eaten a lot more of those outside than inside the club.

https://prostitution.procon.org/countries-and-their-prostitution-policies/ This is a giant list of how different countries handle things legally. But as far as “is that a good idea”, I concur with what other posters have already said.

—>“Closer by NIN (90 BPM) might be right for that. What do you think?” I think it’s good for that. I think it’s a great titty bar song in general as well. —- As far as the original questions: I’m not entirely sure what the best lapdance tempo is. Some customers definitely like different lapdance styles, and speed in general. As far as a general playlist based on 119 bpm, I found a giant list of a bunch of songs. If I remember, then I’ll go through it later just for fun. https://cs.uwaterloo.ca/~dtompkin/music/bpm/119.html

I thought back on some of the songs I’ve danced to, and they are generally 100-140 bpm…which turns out to be the same general range of most popular music in general. But hmm, I do question the idea of optimal bpm and boinking. What about a quickie right before having to go to work or something? Or if one had an edible and time perception is kinda a blur? How about more romantic style and then lots of pillow talk after? Or what about if blindfolded and handcuffed? Like idk, it seems like the pacing range might be different for those things? Maybe there needs to be a dedicated research branch for this, with government grant pools established just for this ahahaha

As a lion, how do you feel about the alligators that may get into the hurricane’s way? I’m sure whatever happens to zebras don’t matter

Hah, and Muddy has even given me the heads up of which club has an anime themed night.(not in Iowa) The documentation is very much appreciated.

Yeah, anytime I’ve participated in a political discussion on this site, I’ve pretty much regretted it. It’s like in college when every so often I would have Jager, and nowadays I can’t even smell that stuff anymore without my tummy getting queasy. I’ve had some really good conversations in PMs or offline with some individuals here related to politics though.

Cue the tuscl brag threads about discount OTC that happened on a inflatable boat floating over a submerged freeway

I think some customers might also plan their visits by drink special days/nights as well. Or weekly amateur night.

There are plenty of clubs that don’t have VIP room options and lapdances are out in the open.

What club is this? In most clubs, I don’t think most bouncers are allowed to have weapons on them.

Holy sugarbombaroli, Olive Garden really does have something pumpkin spiced. https://images.app.goo.gl/9msTNW5822gRFjeL7 Also, I personally like Halloween.

My condolences with all the cliches of “sexy version of some random occupation” Here is some footage from a few years ago of sexy dinosaur! https://m.youtube.com/shorts/xNN_YtJwBX4

As a fellow Texan, I wish him well with wherever he went.

^Ahahah, I have heard about Raiders Reef. I really should have driven by the building at least back when I had visited Tucson for a few days.

Hurley has a bunch of clubs because it’s a seasonal area during snowmobile season.

Yeah, Denver is always looking for something to target the clubs with. It was especially bad during that first year after Covid shutdowns. The ones that are in Glendale or more north in the metro area seem to be left alone more often.

Massage therapy boards and organizations slam hard on protecting their “therapist” title from sex work. Many who participate in services don’t feel like fighting that battle, and tend to use different words to describe their work. I think it would be easier to try to search those who advertise as “body rub” or something instead if you’re looking for something sensual. I think they advertise on similar sites as the regular escorts. On the off chance you’re actually looking for a legal massage, try either googling local businesses or something like Zeel.

^Ah, so you did. My bad Icey.

In addition to the other points already mentioned, it might also be a way to encourage interaction with dancers. It’s easy to get two drinks when ordering for two.

Sooo many customers will outright say “thank you” when we get to a dance area, and I tell them we will sit there and start at the next song. The Cubans really dgaf. But idk, in a lot of Texas clubs it’s a bunch of dancers and a lot of customers, and so easy for either party to get from one person to the next. I think sometimes that tends to encourage petty and aggressive behavior sometimes, from both dancers and customers. I think the Cubans just see what’s there, and up the ante a bit. But if it makes you feel better, the Cubans do that with Hispanic customers too. There was one Mexican who got lots of dances from me, and then after a Cuban started chewing him out in Spanish for not getting a dance from one of his own kind. 😂

Progressive galore Portland manages to maintain itself as the known most-strip-clubs-per-capita. Many of those clubs survive with their own gimmick, such as Karaoke or being vegan or something. Or they just simply appeal as a neighborhood bar with tits. I personally think clubs should tone things down with the exclusivity branding and heavy alcohol pushing. Like lapdances can be expensive, but idk…be more transparent about it I guess? It’s tough in general to pushback against a culture that is less hedonist than it was in the 1990s. Divorce rates are falling among the middle aged guys. And alcohol consumption is falling among young guys.