Why do strippers ask for your name and then never use it

OTC lol

Easy conversation starter.

You down with OTP?

Anyway, with my favs the only time time I hear my name these days is when they're annoyed or trying to put emphasis on something they said. Some days I really do think I should just start dating again and get complained at for cheap lol.

🚦 Funny, Coz I Call Girls "Baby". It's Easy Ta' Use Vocab Words Dat' Da' Strippers Can Use For Just Anybody. Remembering "Individual" Names Is Harder Coz It's A Lot More In Da' Amount Of Clientele. After A Few Visits, Or OTC, Strippers Should Call Ya' With Ya' Name 🤠

@wallanon that song is going to be stuck in my head for the 24 hours...lol

@sfrsox in honor of a fantastic Janet Jackson song, which I also need to listen to ASAP, you can always tell them:

"My first name ain't baby, it's Steve...Mr. Johnson if your nasty."

Where’s Waldo? See if you can spot the autistic person in this thread?

I agree about "easy conversation starter", but also for these girls:

• they meet a ton of guys, and sometimes have 15+ conversations 15 min in length in a day
• they didn't get this job for their memory
• they think you care much more about the dance than remembering your name
• most guys never say, "do you remember my name", so they don't even realize they might want to try

It’s just acting kinda shady, that’s all

I really try... I know that saying a guy's name is almost guaranteed to make him be more engaged... more... open to possibilities... and call it what it is.. open to tipping better...

Your name is literally your favorite word... I try to use them when I can! It is just good business!

My name isn't my favorite word. My name is quite blah.

Maybe if I was named Rick I'd feel differently.

Yeah my name isn’t favorite either, except in sexual/women situations then it is Hate hearing my name during thanksgiving stuff for example

Hey- anybody remember that "How to Pick Up Girls" book that was advertised in Penthouse magazine back in the day? It actually had some pretty good tips. One was that a girl's name is music to her ears. They recommended using her name in conversation whenever possible.

I forgive dancers for forgetting my name. I understand. On the other hand, I met a dancer in Vegas once, and a few moments into the conversation, I asked her for her name again, as I had forgotten. Her answer was: "You suck!" (and not in a joking way). I wish I had told her to take a hike right then, but like a stooge I bought a useless dance from her and her friend who didn't take her top off. Then they asked for tips because "They took care of me." Yeah, I don't think so. Even a soft touch like me didn't fall for that.

I have had dancers ask me for my name for the second time about 5 minutes in, and it doesn't bother me at all.

A number of dancers I know have an amazing memory for names. Some have greeted me by name after not seeing me for years.

I've had strippers remember my name months later even when I didn't buy any dances.

But yeah most don't

Short term memory loss from weed could help explain. That's my excuse when I don't remember a dancer's name, which is a lot of the time. I figure that since the names are fake, they probably don't cherish them all that much anyway. When they share their "real" name, I remember better, but then I forget their fake name, which gets awkward when another dancer asks who I'm looking for on a repeat visit.

Our favs use our names when they're complaining to each other about us in the dressing room.

There was a song once that said "I don't remember names but I remember faces". It's easier to call someone Baby than remember an actual name. OTOH:

1. I had a favorite who'd always call me Danny Boy, which is sorta right.

2. I had one stripper who remembered my name after being away from the club we saw each other at for many years.

Send me your dick pics.

Asking for someone's name is just general friendliness.

...One night I told the DJ to use my "real" name... and literally no one believed it was my real name... they thought I was trying to be "too normal"

My "real" name is so blah and bland.. no one would want to hear a stripper announced on stage by that name...

I got dances once with a black dancer who went by Tammy. Gave her no end of shit, did you pick the whitest name possible? She insisted there were two black chicks named Tammy who went to high school with her. Yeah and there were two white chicks name Lokwanda at my high school.

Strippers names no one wants to hear:

Amy Sarah Michelle Martha Anne Carol Susan

I could go on and on...

Martha and Carol perhaps The others are fine

GND if they have an above average face and body is totally fine

I’ve noticed there’s been a couple of times there have been like 3-4 Davids in one room at the same time. Ditto with Steves and Johns

Same reason they ask what you do for work or what hobbies you have. They are just making small talk until they feel it's the right moment to ask if you want to do a private.

My strip club name is Thor. Why? I was put into service the same time as the Thor rocket. We both last about 3 minutes.

One of my favs was Shiloh. I was hoping the other strippers in that club would get inspired, and all name themselves after major battles of the Civil War. Would have been cool.

Chickamauga is too generic (sort of, Chicka for short) and the others don't really work

@ilbbaicnl: Tammi Tyrell was one of the most soulful performers ever, and definitely not white.

Oh I just assumed she meant with a y my bad.

Ohhh... damn... I am DEFFO using Appomattox as my stage name from now on!!!

Bull Run... either first or second... is probably not a good one though!

I have a very common first name so I make my self kind of distinctive by using the name Poindexter.

I get a lot of chuckles.

My all time actually used favorite stripper name: Apathy

^^^^ That is total truth in advertising right there ^^^^

Strippers names no one wants to hear:

Amy Sarah Michelle Martha Anne Carol Susan

@grrlgonebad Now that you mention it, out of that list, I can really only REMEMBER an Amy and a Michelle, perhaps one time each? But then again, plenty of club visits have long since faded from my memory... There's probably not a club anywhere where you'll ever hear more than one name from The Brady Bunch called out...lol

"My strip club name is Thor. Why? I was put into service the same time as the Thor rocket. We both last about 3 minutes."

Who is it we're supposed to call if our rocket lasts more than 4 hours??? NASA?

@grrlgonebad Oh, and I also have a very bland real name... If I ever go into porn, I think for my porn name I might choose "Rusty Johnson", since I don't get a lot of action...hahaha

@ilbbaicnl Apathy?!? Haha, that's freakin' hysterical!