Do you club when you feel like it or plan a date?

FoCoChronic
If she calls me a good boy, I’ll pay her bills
Do you guys just go to the club on a whim and see what happens and who you meet, or do you make plans with a dancer to see her specifically? Maybe you switch it up?

If it’s a club I’ve been to before, I’m finding myself only going when I can plan something with my favorite at that club. I have two methods: I either have a stripper date or I’m scoping out a brand new club.

Just curious what others do and have the most fun with.

I’m seeing my CF ITC tonight. Last time we hung out, we checked out some lingerie online and narrowed it down to 2 outfits. She picked her favorite and ordered just that one, tonight I get to see which one she decided to surprise me with. Anyone else get excited about ITC dates or have any memorable ones?

23 comments

  • RonJax2
    a month ago
    My local area sucks for clubs, so I club almost exclusively when traveling, which involves planning ahead.

    And wow, that sounds like fun with your CF, hope you have a blast. 👏
  • FoCoChronic
    a month ago
    @Lionel Hutz I never even considered that, there’s more than one way to skin a cat. What’s your criteria then for selecting a club when you might never be back? And thanks, I’m sure it’ll be a worthwhile night
  • Icey
    a month ago
    I like surprising girls I know. But then sometimes my rounds are predictable. If its a new club i have to be in the mood
  • GoVikings
    a month ago
    i mostly make plans with a dancer to see her specifically. the reason why is because when i go to see a favorite i have a better time. it's not like i can't have a good time if i make a spur of the moment visits, but spur of the moment visits is much more of a crapshoot. sometimes they can be fun, but they also can be crappy many times too. if i'm going to see a favorite it's almost a guarantee i'm going to have a good time unless she's tied up with another customer or something.

    my CF is one of those dancers who dances on and off. in other words, she'll take months off at a time. and then when she feels like she'll start dancing again. anyway, it's been a while since i've seen her but it sounds like she's gonna start dancing again very soon. it'll be cool to see her again and see what she's been up to all this time
  • RonJax2
    a month ago
    @FoCo, lol, you may be the first to recognize my avatar.

    > What’s your criteria then for selecting a club when you might never be back?

    Yeah, when I'm in a new area, I plot my invasion with TUSCL reviews like Eisenhower invading Normandy. I scour every review, map routes to hotels and business goals, sometimes even DM locals or post threads if I need clarity.

    Lately though I've been traveling to San Diego with some frequency, which is excellent because Tijuana is the best SC destination in all of North America, IMHO.
  • Puddy Tat
    a month ago
    When traveling, plan it to a T.
    At home, usually on a whim (or depending on traffic).
  • FoCoChronic
    a month ago
    @Vikings I agree with your philosophy. Why spend on anyone else when you know she’s going to show you a good time? Go for a sure thing instead of a crapshoot. I’ll go to the stage and tip some other ladies, make some small talk and get a brief change of scenery, but I’m there to pay only one dancer’s bills. Have fun catching up with your CF!

    @Lionel I was raised on The Simpsons. And that’s some precision right there. I have family in SD, I fly out on occasion. Any clubs you’d recommend in or around the city? I don’t foresee myself making the drive to Tijuana, even if it is only 30 or 60 minutes

    @Puddy Tat do you prefer the variety instead of trying to find a good dancer who you gel with?
  • Puddy Tat
    a month ago
    ^ Yes. I club for variety.
  • RonJax2
    a month ago
    > SD, I fly out on occasion. Any clubs you’d recommend in or around the city?

    I've only been clubbing once in San Diego, and it was a brief PG-13 affair, I can't say I'd recommend any club in San Diego. The scene is just that much better in Tijuana, like Krusty says it's the "Happiest Place on Earth".
  • Dolfan
    a month ago
    I do a bit of everything.

    I don't plan significantly in advance, but often the day before or at least the morning of. I like having a fave, I find the rapport results in a better experience. I'm also usually angling for OTC, so again the rapport goes a long way. I'll often make plans to see her at the club, mostly around the time she plans to arrive. Or I'll get her to come in early to see me.

    But strippers come and go, and I sometimes wonder if the grass is greener or simply want a little something new. Unplanned visits are a good way to meet someone new. I find its always good to have a new girl or two on the radar as potential new faves. And a few times my old fave had been gradually lulling me into accepting substandard service and a fresh face helps me see it.

    I sometimes go spur of the moment regardless of my desire to see a favorite stripper or not. If I'm driving near the club and there is traffic, I'll stop in. Or maybe a meeting will get rescheduled and I'll decide it's a good time to go see some titties instead. Often times I'll go watch a game with a couple of buddies, and one of them will suggest hitting up a strip club.

    Sometimes it's quasi planned, like this week I'm going to an area with a club I'd like to check out. I don't know exactly when, but I'm sure while I'm there I'll check out a shift or two.
  • sushiman
    a month ago
    My CF used to work the So. Fl clubs, which is where I met her. Then she left for a PA club, which happens to be fairly close to me.

    I do plan my visits to see my CF. I give her the heads up and she knows to make time for me. The other girls know I'm hers and never try to move in. They do come over to say hello and I always tip them a few $.

    We'll have lunch together (I bring it in no one bothers me), and I know the bouncer and he's cool(I tip him as well). My ITC experiences are always good and she knows when to text me to say hello or ask a personal question about some life things she has going on.

    What's nice, ITC it's all about us. When I leave, it's all about me. Nothing to cling on to for both of us..
  • sfrsox
    a month ago
    @sushiman, is it sushi?
  • skibum609
    a month ago
    Never plan.
  • Lurker-X
    a month ago
    First let me say your ITC date tonight sounds like a lot of fun.

    To answer your question my trips to the strip club lately are lightly planned.

    For context I’m a married guy whose wife knows I occasionally go to strip clubs. But I’m sure she wouldn’t appreciate me going too often. So once it’s been 3 weeks or so since a visit I look for an opportunity to go again. My trips to the club are always an add on activity to something else that has me out that night. Like dinner with guys from work, or seeing a movie. My AMC A-List membership comes in handy here since there is almost always something out that I can go see since it is effectively “free”. (More accurately already paid for).

    Last few months I’ve been exclusively going to one club on Fri or Sat nights because a couple of my CFs pretty reliably work there on weekends. But it’s not as advanced as what you do FoCo with something planned out with one of them. I just show up and hope for the best. Only been disappointed once, every other time at least one has been there.


  • sfrsox
    a month ago
    Wouldn’t OtC be cheaper or longer time?

    When I feel like it (and don’t have to work early in the day) but maybe I’m doing it wrong



  • mjx01
    a month ago
    Same as what RonJax said:
    "My local area sucks for clubs, so I club almost exclusively when traveling, which involves planning ahead."
  • drewcareypnw
    25 days ago
    Generally I wait until Mrs Carey is out of town. Sometimes I get the urge and go “right now”. Very occasionally I will plan a meet.
  • ilbbaicnl
    25 days ago
    I like OTC better than the club, not very practical to be spontaneous with that. Even when I do go to the club, I much prefer to go when it's most likely at least one fav will be working. My desire for strippers outstrips (pun not planned) my budget, so that tends to make spontaneous club visits rare.
  • skibum609
    25 days ago
    << Likes strip clubs. OTC has absolutely nothing to do with strip clubs.
  • shadowcat
    25 days ago
    Usually on Sunday I'll take a look at the weather forecast for the next week and check my calendar for appointments and then decide which day/s to go. Also coordinating with my friends for meeting up.
  • sushiman
    24 days ago
    @sfrsox - I bring salads for her then dessert is 'Live Sushi' :)
  • rickdugan
    24 days ago
    I club when the spirit moves me and my schedule allows. Sadly my schedule is much less flexible nowadays, but that's life in the big titty.
  • nicespice
    24 days ago
    I think some customers might also plan their visits by drink special days/nights as well. Or weekly amateur night.
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