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5 years ago
In my experiences it's usually been business. Only one did I actually text off and on about non business stuff.
It's one of recent that made me start this post, because I'm definitely interested in her whether business or not. She ended up texting me, business related, Sat. night and I came in to see her. When I arrived she then proceeded to ask if we could hang out for New Year's Eve, because her homegirl, roommate would be out of town. That surprised me but now that I think about it, she could be meaning business as the club would be open New Year's Eve night.
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5 years ago
..."before I was counseled."
Lol I like. Yeah, tuscl helps to get us thinking right when we way off.
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5 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
I meant to ask in my original post, @rickdugan have you had a good success ratio negotiating otc over only floor dances or have they always involved some VIP?
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5 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
When I first started, 3-4 visits in a month, I thought gambling helped fund it, but a couple years into it and oh my debt. Now I'm going once a month which in time will allow me to have more, spend more at once.
Regarding tips for spending efficiency I'd say stick to only floor dance spending en route to negotiating OTC. I've had this work once so far. First night ever seeing/getting only floor dances from this stripper and I ask her what's her monetary goal for the night. Well, I found that reasonable and we agreed and had OTC that night.
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5 years ago
Yeah! Hope a WSOP or a few events in the future.
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5 years ago
The earliest I've received a stripper text was around 545 in the morning asking if I could help her move since I had a truck.
I was ironing clothes getting ready for work at the time. Anyway, we exchanged a few texts throughout the day about the situation because I was going to help after I got off work, but her dad eventually came through.
It's been a while since I've gotten stripper texts since I slowed/lower budget my strip clubbing.
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5 years ago
I'd have to say I learned it was possible through TUSCL. I stumbled upon TUSCL sometime after I started clubbing and got my first stripper number. I soooo thought she wanted to date me!
Anyway, after a few VIP visits with her which was kissing and fingering we eventually agreed we'd OTC. The OTC didn't actually happen until like the fourth time planned, because all previous times she flaked. It was probably luck of the draw the fourth time, because I was driving nearby the club, texted her to see what's up and she was down for it and needed a ride home too since it was close to closing time
We checked into a hotel about 10 minutes away and had some fun. All in all three times in that short 4 - 5 hours we were together.
My mistake/learning experience came when I was headed to take her home that morning. We hadn't agreed or mentioned any amount and when we get to the apartment complex she asks about last night and needing to pay her car note. Well I gave her like $120 which was all the cash I had on me. Through us mildly arguing and/or me allowing myself to be suckered I go take out like $160 - $180 more to give her.
A few days after, she tried to run an "I'm pregnant, need abortion" hustle. Luckily I didnt fall fool and a friend of mine told me to offer to be at the clinic to see if she was being for real, and she never texted back on the subject.
I think we had OTC once more, maybe twice after that initial one.
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5 years ago
Is this the one across from the mall and Claim Jumpers? I went there once about 18 months ago and thought it was pretty decent, with decent girls.
Anyway, I'd think a happy hour Mon - Fri that's 5 - 10 PM, coupled with 3 for 2 dance specials throughout the night might help with clientele.
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5 years ago
I like to go to the casino prior hitting the strip club. I like to gamble and strip club. Since the nearest strip club and casino are in the same city, I always do both. However, it's always gambling first then strip club.
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5 years ago
I haven't loaned too often, but the few I have loaned to it's never been repaid. The lowest amount was $15, she said she'd repay, but that never happened. Your best bet is to have an extra session or something upfront before you give her the money.
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5 years ago
The club I frequented when I first started clubbing there was a stripper I'd semi cuddle with. I say semi, because best I remember it wasn't like we were hugged up after having sex or something. Anyway, it would always be in VIP and it'd be in between a song or two. It was cool, I can't say I preferred it, but it was still interaction, convo.
I'd always ask her if I/we were getting charged extra, but it'd always just be the VIP cover which was like $15 and $20 each song she actually danced. I'd usually tip her $20 - $40. I guess since she was a veteran at the club, she could get away with doing this in VIP.
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5 years ago
I prefer the sex first and eat later. It's usually the other way around though. If it's eat first I just make sure I don't eat and drink too much so I don't feel the need to go to the restroom.
My sex first and eat later have usually been a getting her something to eat before I drop her off home.
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5 years ago
I'd usually say go for it, but your at your age I'd advise like others to go the civilian girls route. More than likely if you're meeting her outside of the club you're paying for something even if it's not for the sex. Was she your age...like 18 - 20? If she's older than that I'd highly suspect she's running hustle on you like any other customer.
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5 years ago
Im not at the age of GMD or gawker yet but I do hope that if I'm single at your age I'm able to get with younger women. Who knows how I'll feel when I'm older as far as "fun", but I know a 60 yr old who I'd do. It was a 50 yr old stripper that I thought was late 30s until she told me otherwise. Anyway, I guess I'm just saying some older women out there do look good and at least at my mid 30s age would arouse me.
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5 years ago
I didn't go tonight. Would've probably seen an old fav because I confirmed with her she'd be working.
@Papi
Yeah, and didn't want to necessarily spend money and time just for an experience with tits and ass.
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5 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
I think I've visited around 15 total. Three or four of those were before I really got into strip clubbing.
If I remain in my career field as my kids get older and get a job that requires travel, I'll definitely be upping that number.
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5 years ago
Straight out the gate asking want a dance and saying it has to be in VIP.
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5 years ago
Noticed some of my post got truncated. I guess the less than sign and or the dashes cut the remainder off when it was submitted.
Well anyway for the end of my post, catching feelings had me saying statements like it's hard when we cut ties
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5 years ago
Mine is catching feelings as a result of getting personal with them. That's the weakness, but along with that comes the money or helping out. The problem for me then becomes when we cut ties between one another. <---Hence this statement is what catching feelings will have you saying.
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5 years ago
Thumbs up to what IceyLoco posted. And abs are made in the kitchen!
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5 years ago
$5K that's absurd.
I was once quoted $1k in Vegas and found that to be somewhat reasonable given the area.
What happened or lesson learned in previous clubbing from giving out your number?
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5 years ago
Yeah the kids was what got me. I've met them and she's always had custody. However, for one reason or another her history has always been apartment, motel, apartment, motel...neverending cycle.
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5 years ago
@Gawker
Wow! I liked your non ATF...the other whew!
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5 years ago
I've said no or not responded to the few requests I've had. I have helped two so far each under $65. One was she said she needed it for her prescription. We actually met at the Walgreens, but I didn't go inside. Now that I think about it, I probably got suckered, because it was near midnight or past it. As far as I've seen a Walgreens Pharmacy isn't 24/7?
The second was she said she needed a room for one more night (has kids) and if I could pay until she could get back to work. I paid over the phone directly with the motel. Haven't noticed any other charges on my credit card. Knowing her history I'd like to think this was used actually for what it was requested.
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5 years ago
Hi *your name* = start conversation and she asks for something
Come see me babe = come to the club and buy dances
Wyd = start conversation and she asks for something or followed by come to the club and buy dances
I'll be ready/out in x minutes = multiply that number times 5 that's how long she'll be