Cuddling

13 comments

• SirLapdancealot

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  5 years ago

  Pretty much every visit with my ATF DS had cuddling throughout the time. Before getting dances we would sit in spoon position for 20 min to an hour, and during this time my hard cock would be wedged between her ass cheeks, I'd massage her any way I wanted, and she would lean back and go cheek to cheek with me and guide my hands to just hug her from behind as we talked.
  
  Then just after a new song started, basically her giving me a free song, we'd go to the dance booth and cuddle in the same position for the rest of the song as we waited to officially start the dances. Again I had the option to massage her some more or just hug and cuddle her like in the main room but with better mileage. For examples if I hugged her from behind I could also grope her tits and even grind my boner into her phat ass cheeks.
  
  LOL I guess it's more "heavy petting" than cuddling but she called it cuddling and liked it. "I love cuddling" was one of her first hustle lines ever used on me. Turns out it was true. It was awesome and one of the reasons she's ATF DS.
• Jascoi

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  5 years ago

  i've cuddled with a few girls...🤪
• SirLapdancealot

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  5 years ago

  Come to think of it my ATF DS is a stripper escort which explains a little why she's more comfy with it than the average stripper.
• Pistrolla

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  5 years ago

  I can cuddle any cock with my amazing butthole
• TFP

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  5 years ago

  I love cuddle sessions as well. In clubs where the VIP room is one on one private I enjoy just standing with my dancer and hugging her for the first five minutes, while grabbing her butt. In the few VIP rooms with a bed I enjoy the laying down cuddling for a while.
  
  In HKTJ I certainly enjoy cuddling in the hour long or more sessions. But in the 30 minute sessions the girls usually hit the shower right after the deed is done.
• Hattrick15

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  5 years ago

  It was so relaxing and intimate and it’s something I’m sure I’ll do again soon. I have no problem splitting my time don’t think I want to spend all my vip time cuddling but it was enjoyable.
• FishHawk

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  5 years ago

  I once had a young dancer that when we went to the lapdance area would sit on the couch and cuddle with me while waiting on a fresh song to start. It was really nice, we would hold each other and quietly chat during that time.
• Papi_Chulo

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  5 years ago

  I don't, not have wanted, a relationship IRL for 10+ years now - honestly I just need my physical needs met - thus I don't go to the club looking for "a connection" nor to have emotional/intimacy needs met, just my physical ones - i.e. I don't really have a desire to cuddle nor feel intimate nor have romantic-feelings towards a woman I'm paying - not saying it's wrong, just not what floats my PL-boat
  
  A real life GF I don't mind getting emotionally intimate with but not a stripper I'm paying.
• san_jose_guy

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  5 years ago

  To spend serious cuddling time, really needs to be OTC, so you can go multiple rounds too.
  
  SJG
  
  https://clubkiss.us/sessions/new
• Ch3ll

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  5 years ago

  The club I frequented when I first started clubbing there was a stripper I'd semi cuddle with. I say semi, because best I remember it wasn't like we were hugged up after having sex or something. Anyway, it would always be in VIP and it'd be in between a song or two. It was cool, I can't say I preferred it, but it was still interaction, convo.
  
  I'd always ask her if I/we were getting charged extra, but it'd always just be the VIP cover which was like $15 and $20 each song she actually danced. I'd usually tip her $20 - $40. I guess since she was a veteran at the club, she could get away with doing this in VIP.
• SmashingHoes

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  5 years ago

  I agree with Papi Chulo 100 percent. Cuddling is a minor form of emotional attachment and I'm not trying to have an emotional connection in the club.
  
  She can save the cuddling for someone else. I just want the oral support.
• georgmicrodong

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  5 years ago

  Cuddling and caressing before sex sets the mood and gets the juices flowing. Cuddling afterwards is relaxing, and if enough time passes, maybe gets things moving again.
  
  As far as being a form of "emotional attachment," maybe so. I don't have a problem with that, given that I have a preference for sex with people I can actually like, instead of fuck dolls. *shrug*. To each his own.
• SirLapdancealot

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  5 years ago

  I don't see it nor do it for any emotional connection. That's a load of horseshit. I like it as part of seduction and tease. All the ways that I do it entail some sort of cock teasing which is why I called it "heavy petting".
  
  For example my cuddling with my ATF DS entails my hard boner in a hot dog position between her ass cheeks. Sure, in the process of it we are cheek to cheek and my arms are wrapped around her stomach and we are spooning, just like cuddling, but that is all coincidental because what's important to me is having that BONER.
  
  I had a similar experience with nicespice the other day, she laid her head on my lap as I massaged her neck, back, and ass. One could construe this as a form of cuddling, and yes it was lovely just to touch her, but ultimately what made it great was the lurid thought of her head down near my hard cock and what it usually means when a woman puts her head down there. Just that thought and the proximity of her head was cock teasing to me. Again it was the cock teasing part that I wanted, and not some emotional fulfillment need.
  
  Even TFP's description of just standing close to each other and him grabbing her ass is a cock teasing act to me rather than an emotional act.