Responding to Their Requests for Help
Ch3ll
Arizona
If a stripper asks you for help whether it be monetary or whatever, how do you respond? Do you ignore? Play along hoping you're wooing her? Ask this for that?
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It's not about helping them or not - it's that 9 times out of 10 helping a stripper is as successful as pushing on a string (you'll be spinning your wheels and have nothing to show for it but a huge expenditure and her staying in the same dysfunctional state)
The second was she said she needed a room for one more night (has kids) and if I could pay until she could get back to work. I paid over the phone directly with the motel. Haven't noticed any other charges on my credit card. Knowing her history I'd like to think this was used actually for what it was requested.
"hope she reciprocates" ~King_Gambrinus~
Hope in one hand, shit in the other; see which one fills up first.
My ATF has had far more “favors” than I’ll ever collect on (well over $10,000). One time she’d gone to Hawaii to detox, found that the place her brother sent her was run by “ a fuckin’ sex maniac who only wants to get in my pants and he’s not going to. I’m thumbing to the airport. She got picked up by a young native Hawaiian, moved in with his family, smoked a little weed, went spear fishing, learned to surf and then got a job. She called me saying she needed a ride to get to work and she met a guy selling his motor bike cuz he had to leave the islands the next day.”It’s worth $1500 and I can get it for $500” of course I sent the $500, then she had an accident, discovered the bike was stolen. I think she cameo back from that trip owing me over $7000 which I never saw.
There’s one of us born every minute.
Wow! I liked your non ATF...the other whew!
for example: a dancer i ain't seen in a minute one day on a whim showed me a pic on her cell phone of her young daughter, when i ran into her at the SC. 3 months later, i run into that dancer again and she ask me for $200 so she can move. she didn't mention her kid at that moment, but i gave her the $200. she said she'd pay me back. of course she never did. i didn't mention her kid when i gave her the $200, but the money was for that. God knows what that dancer did with the money, if she actually moved or whatever. but i gave her the money strictly with her kid in my mind. never met her kid. don't even know if she had custody of her kid. but on the off-chance that i could indirectly help a child, i'll consider it. haven't seen that dancer again so far and that was a good 7-10 yrs ago?
Some stripper at the club who I've hung out with a bunch of times. I have a absolutely-not policy. My experience is, help out a random stripper, and you will learn the meaning of the phrase "no good deed goes unpunished". Absolutely not. And I may well stop seeing her if I get irritated
A CF asks for a small amount of $, for some plausible reason? By the time a girl is a CF, she's already the type who wouldn't just ask for $350, she'd instead say she's in a bind and ask if I could free up for an OTC. I might consider small advances, I suppose
An ATF is different. As I've said before, my experiences on SA have led me to realize my relationships with my ATFs have been very arrangement-like. By this time, there's enough trust built up that I'm ok helping her out. I have, for example, paypal'ed an ATF a full OTC, with the deal that our next two would be half price. She came through just as promised; I'm glad I could help her out.
Never been screwed over and it was always worth it.
I have not had another dancer ask me for help.
I may have avoided such requests because I try to avoid repeated contacts with strippers, even the ones whose company I have enjoyed.
I go to strip clubs in search of variety, not familiarity.