Eat first or sex first?

1000%, eat first, then go drinking, drink in her sheer sexiness and energy, flirt the entire time until I'm so horny I can barely think straight, then go fuck it off. With my ATFs (who by definition, I really really like hanging out with), sometimes we go back out after sex, and go drinking or have a late snack. Although the older I get, the less often I find the energy to do this.

"I did OTC yesterday with a dancer 50 years younger than me.."

That's got to be some kind of record here and you deserve some kind of award.

Sex first because the blood goes where it's supposed to go instead of into your digestive tract after a big meal.

Definitely going sex first. Then you got bbq sauce all over your stomach when your doing it, the whole thing is just one big messy nightmare yeah fuck first.

Shadow, if you are fucking a gal 50 years younger, I would definitely have sex first, because you may not make it to dinner! Rock on, dude!

I think eating before sex is a product of the dating environment. That's kinda how it is always done.

I think what subra said anot building things up is part of it too.

Your relationship with the woman could determine things too. Some guys are only about the sex and might want to be done after the sex and not go to dinner after.

Personally it doesn't matter to me. But most of the time either dating/ married or in my OTC life, dinner has almost always come first.

I've had more than a few OTC where she wants the sex first, and then (maybe) we eat. I'm flexible...

Sex, dinner sex, snack, bj finale'

and comma after dinner....

Eat first. Then comes dessert.

It depends, sex before or after a meal is great, on what she wants to do.

Total civilian, its probably food first, then sex.

But when there is money, probably sex, food, sex.

SJG

Either way is fine by me. Just make sure the sex is in there somewhere.

btw, congratulations on the -50 OTC!

I prefer both. Have sex before AND after dinner. Not that I'm greedy or anything.

I want to enjoy every bite of dinner, so sex first 100% of the time. Saturday sex is best. Work til 1; great sex with wife; early bird special.

I don't understand the concept of not enjoying dinner because you haven't had sex with her yet. I'm the opposite: everything tastes better when every sense is razor sharp and every neuron firing due to the beautiful view across the table, which I'll be shortly indulging in. Every joke she says is a comedy act; every story, a heart-pounding page-turner; the meal is like a feast. After sex, I'm mostly satisfied, relaxed, and less present, at least for a while

The sooner you fuck her the first time, the sooner you are ready to fuck her the second time.

SJG

WWRJD?

I literally had hundreds of OTC sessions with my ATF. She worked nights (6:30 -1:00 or two). I preferred to have sex before she went to work so I’d schedule to see her at 3:30 thinking 60 to 90 minutes at the hotel and then time for a bite before work. On special occasions ( birthdays, theater, etc.) meal time varied depending upon what time for the other activity.

I like to have dinner first then there is nothing to get in the way of as much sex for as long as you want, or as long as you can, afterward.

But I've had fun first then dinner, or breakfast, afterwards too. Whatever works is the key.

Shadowcat, if you're banging a girl 50 years younger and both of you want to screw first then have dinner, I say that's what you should do regardless of what anyone else thinks.

What type of question is this??

What if the hangry 🔪🔪🔪🔪 comes out before sex can occur? Then it might never occur 🤷🏼‍♀️

Sex first.

I prefer the sex first and eat later. It's usually the other way around though. If it's eat first I just make sure I don't eat and drink too much so I don't feel the need to go to the restroom.

My sex first and eat later have usually been a getting her something to eat before I drop her off home.

Lol blah makes a good point. I am a grouchy bitch when I’m hungry 😅

eat first or drinks.....I call it foreplay...then release that energy on her! or if you're super horny...fuck for a few hours and then feast. You have to go with the flow... Most of the times the girls I already know like to wine and dine and then fuck....energizes their tiger juice!

Nicespice is also into the 🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🇨🇱🤠

Note to self... When having OTC date with Nicespice and blah, feed them first.

Yes feed me

VH an honest wish for you to get cancer.

If I were to do OTC, SEX first, then Wish her well. Send her on her way. Go eat good steak dinner at honky Tonk bar and flirt up the bartender.

Sex first....

I had a very good thing going about once a month for a year a few years ago with a girl that I met at a club. The routine: Check in to my hotel casino on arrival on business trip. Shower. Meet girl in lobby for a drink. Upstairs for fun. Then down to the casino for blackjack (I'd do most of the playing and she'd play a little sometimes).

Then we'd go over to the slots and put $20 or $40 into the $1 per bet machine. If we won I'd split the winnings 50/50 with her. Then to the restaurant and we'd order breakfast food at 11 pm or whatever time it was. Back up to the room for more fun and then good night.

Aye Captain, sounds awesome.

While I'm not fucking high class prostitutes, romantically, the ideal, classy situation would be to have dinner followed by sex. Use the dinner to get her in the mood.

LOGICALLY though, having sex builds up an appetite (at least for me) thus eating afterwards makes more sense. Though neither of you are wanting to get out of bed afterwards (assuming the sex is good. If not, then work on your stroke).

Also to add, if you aren't having a date with a prostitute, but an alleged partner, or someone who "probably " shows romantic interest in you, sex first assures she won't run off after the meal leaving you with blue balls

I’m confused. If you are paying her, then why should you have to “get her in the mood”? If you are paying her, she should come prepared like any other professional and already appear “in the mood”. Otherwise, she is not worth the money. It’s a fantasy. Her professional duty is to provide the fantasy of “being in the mood”.

Eating together is a sensual experience. Just don’t eat too much. Don’t drink too much either. A meal together with good conversation can be a good preamble to the feast of delights that follow

Either way works for me. Really though, my OTC seems to be either a quick wham bam or an extended overnight type thing. The quick ones don't include eating, so its not an issue. The long ones tend to include more than one meal and more than one romp, so its not really clear what comes first.

The question is whether or not anticipation adds to the experience or makes you mental. I enjoy the building anticipation, so I don't mind dining first.

But it's a light meal and 1-2 beers tops. Big meals put me in the mood for a nap, which isn't what I'm looking for.

@Nindan111 because she's not a robot? Personally, I get what your saying. You came to fuck an escort, not play date night. However some people like the aspect of sharing a meal with the person their about to screw. Sometimes even a professional can have a weathered day and getting her in a good mood can make the experience more enjoyable, no matter how you do it.

At least according to the Tuscl folk here. I've never fucked a whore myself. Different strokes for different folks. But I do agree, I came to smash, not wine and dine.

Me and my ATF will have some drinks and apps before the super bowl. Then after a while we work up an appetite and hit a restaurant on typical encounters. Sometimes we will go to a nice restaurant first and then to the game. We mix it up. Just depends on our mood.

We were so spent from playing last week we just got Uber Eats and put on some Netflix.

Good times

Ideally I’d have sex first.

When I know I’m getting some - watching her hotness is a total distraction from everything.

Also, it limits any chance of her getting the shits from a poor food choice.

I enjoy parading a hot whore around the Red Lobster - knowing I just had her - and knowing the other guys there want a piece.

Sex is desert. It comes after the meal.

Seems like the guys who want food first are probably more accepting of Car Key's and Wallet Dating.

SJG