Comments by pensionking (page 23)

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I cannot argue with the posts discouraging the need for so much paranoia in the case of an OTC with a dancer that you might have enjoyed some ITC extras or with whom you have spent time grooming and cultivating a "relationship" -- probably not necessary. In my case, I have almost never received OTC in my own area. My conquests have usually been one-off opportunities traveling around the country with relative strangers. Sometimes, they have been straight up escorts. In each case, I have used a higher level of caution for the concerns given previously. The only reason I am paranoid about driving a dancer concerns getting stopped by police for some stupid traffic issue when she might be holding drugs or something. If she drops them in your car and denies that they are hers, you take the rap. Is this likely to happen -- probably not. Is it possible -- sure. If your conquest is a regular club, regular dancer, relax and enjoy. The likelihood of her wanting a safe, routine income stream OTC increases exponentially in your case.

All of the above is great (never let her in your car, never at your home, etc.) One more idea -- first time with a new girl, I intentionally give my hotel room number incorrectly in such a way so as to require her to walk past your room first (example -- if I am in room 234 I might say 243). Then I watch by the peephole, after she passes my room unescorted by any thugs (but before she gets to the phony room), I will open the door and say hi and call her back. She will assume she got the room number wrong and you will be sure not to get jumped. Paranoid much? Sure! Whatcha going to do --call a cop???

Try out a change of on-stage persona. Stay in character all night on and off stage. Maybe innocent schoolgirl, naughty nurse, 60's hippie freak, Alaskan eskimo, Pocahontas, powerful businesswoman, latex wearing submissive, dirty dominatrix . . . whatever turns YOU on. Your being turned on will spread to your custies.

You mean like trading 5 enemy combatants for 1 US soldier and then placing said soldier on trial for desertion? Good trade.

To answer the OP, I feel the overwhelming national mood is anger. When angry, we vote for the polar opposite of whatever we currently have. For now, Trump has most successfully tapped into this anger and must be considered the front runner at this time.

It all depends on your perceived notion of what skill set the job of President requires: 1. Commander in Chief? (Military background is useful) 2. Chief Executive Officer? (Governors get good on the job training) 3. Legislative Leadership (Usually attorneys, often Senators) 4. Moral/Ethical/Social Leadership (See community activist) 5. Economic Leadership (Former CEO, economist) It is quite difficult to find any candidate that checks all the boxes, so often it seems to hinge on the single issue or factor perceived al the most urgent or important on election day. One year it is the economy, another national security, another year social issues are paramount. Sadly, in America, we tend to vote for style over substance, in any event.

A for sure. What's the point otherwise??

Try CashForDaddyIssues

Never pay upfront. Show it to them, at best, so they know you are for real. Offer to tip if everything goes well.

@anongirl -- 1. fuck that rapey fucking asshole. If there are cameras in the club, you should push the club to review the tapes and get his fucking ass arrested. 2. +++ for craving us older guys (I get it (and like it) -- BTW, where in the USA are you at?) 3. don't let the haters chase you away. Not everyone has a pickle up their ass 4. You survived what wlll likely prove to be a valuable lesson. Count your blessings.

Great advice from all posters above. Hugh, Tired and Deuce have the Inkster/Romulus scene perfectly wired. If you have the cash (and several nights), I would start at the dive-y places and work my way up to Flight Club. Each night will be memorable in and of itself. Happy mongering!

I agree with the OP, papi, Jack and the other posters regarding pole work. Who cares? I want eye contact, conversation, and, then, physical contact. The more of my senses stimulated at once, the better (touch, smell, taste, sound). Give me a sweet smelling, tasty, hot dancer grinding my pole and whispering dirty thoughts into my ear (please).

Seriously, I think I could have written JohnSmith's explanation (without the OTC DS -- i am not that lucky) as a summary of my own life right up until the part of his divorce. His summary makes perfect sense to me as a description how he slowly got involved and his involement escalated. "Strippers treated me a 1000 times better than the wife did, and I spent a hell of a lot more money on the wife than I ever spent on strippers. So I lined up a reliable list of strippers, both for ITC and OTC sex, and I gave up on trying to ever have a satisfying sexual relationship with my wife." Example: I spent over $2,000 on her last two birthdays -- romantic response from her -- nothing, going on 14 months now. Just No, No, No. I often wonder how it is going to end after my kids complete college. I cannot see her libido returning and I cannot see mine evaporating. When I wish to retire (and no longer have reasons to travel alone and/or be out of the house for hours at a time) -- how will I fill my base needs??

Only choice -- bury it down inside there and never bring it up again! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=56Qf1H16T3U see 0:22 seconds

I have seen the same show as Subraman at MBOT in San Fran during roughly the same timeframe he describes. I was amazed to see two extremely attractive women enjoy full-on cunnilingus and toy play at a distance of under 1 meter at eye level as I sat at a small round table. I am pretty sure it was the Green Door, too. Awesome!

Chris Boomer Berman should have retired 5 years ago. He is unwatchable. He is no Keith Jackson, though I think he thinks he is a national treasure.

How did we get from talking about soccer -- the beautiful game -- to talking about spilling Christian blood??? WTF is going on???????

+1 JamesSD for your analysis. Due to the limits on the number of times a nominee may remain on the ballot and the requirements to remain on the ballot, your argument makes some sense. Also, some writers intentionally lowball certain sure-thing nominees becuase they do not want their first-ballot vote totals to exceed certain luminaries from prior generations. I feel that the correct candidates make it eventually, with a very few exceptions. Of all the major Halls-Of-Fame, I find the Baseball Hall the most interesting because of their exclusivity. Every other hall (including rock and roll hall) lets in too many people.

The English Premier League is awesome!! The relegation system for demoting the 3 worst teams is brilliant!! Imagine if the 3 worst NFL, NBA or MLB teams had to leave the league and earn their way back in!?! Never again would teams tank the second half of their season to improve their draft position. Soccer in the United States sucks because the MLS sucks! The MLS sucks because American youth soccer favors size over skill the way teams are built, managed and refereed. Even the referees in America suck. The rest of the world has figured out that skill beats size. There is a reason the U.S. cannot come even close to winning a mens world cup. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rhssI-sk4YU Check out this video -- this is THE MLS CUP CHAMPIONSHIP GAME!!! Two classic goalie fuck ups and one referee fuck up. This championship game is a microcosm of everything wrong with U.S. soccer. This was replayed over and over around the world as they laugh at us.

This might be trickier than we know. Quaaludes were a popular club drug in the 1960's through 1980's. It was common to abuse the drug voluntarily and have sex. It was thought the drug was hypnotic and relaxing and was used to enhance sex. If Cosby gave it to women without their knowledge and then had sex, I suppose one could argue he drugged them with a sedative and then raped them. Put him in jail. On the other hand, if ludes were taken voluntarily and then sex followed, how can the women 30 years later argue successfully that they were drugged and raped. In the second case, they chose to sedate themselves and have sex with a celebrity. At the very least, Cosby's legend is soiled by the knowledge he was a serial adulterer and a serial drug user/provider to young women over several decades all the while holding himself out as America's Father Figure. Fuck you Bill. Our Lord will ultimately judge if there was evil intent in your heart -- and by the look of it, it won't be long.

Nawww ... much simpler -- as a Bears fan let me say "Rex Grossman is our quarterback" Lovie sucked. So did Wannstedt. By the end, everyone of every race and gender wanted him GONE!

In my family and my wife's family, marriages all lasted until death (51, 55, 57, 61 and 69 years, respectively). I made 25 years and don't know how I will make 26 sometimes. We had sex 0 times in 2015 and just 1 time in each of 2014, 2013 and 2012. Early on, at its best, we probably had sex 1 or 2 times a month (which wasn't enough, but whatcha goin do). in recent years, to keep from driving head on into traffic, now I club it. Sometimes the ITC and (rare) OTC seems like enough -- other times it seems shallow and unsatisfying. I probably need help. I have always speculated that men are only as faithful as their options allow. I have no idea what the end game will be. I can't see my interest in sexual gratification diminishing nor can I see hers reinvigorating. My advice to all you youngsters contemplating marriage -- make DAMN sure you are genuinely on the same page regarding money and sex. Disagreement over one or the other results in a lifetime of misery for someone.

Sounds like you missed an opportunity to be of service to her by offering her the cash she needed in exchange for an OTC session at the location of her choosing.

I have never gone for clubbing when porn stars are present. I want my visits to be about me -- not about gawking at some supposed "star". Having said that, I must say -- Sorry! For me, natural tits, great ass, perfect teeth . . . AJ is no less than a 9 plus. I am not a big fan of the gangbang vids, but purely on looks, she is a winner. I might not club to see her, but, in her vids, she is wankable.