Update: 1st place for dumbest move
anongirl98
Last night I told TUSCL that I was participating in a wet t shirt contest and I won!! There were only 6 other girls so not major comp but it was pretty exciting:-)
However, following my triumph I had to be rushed to the hospital, not so exciting :-(
I had been hanging with a guy at the bar, didn't know him but he seemed fairly friendly, he bought me a drink and then with some pouting, bought my friends a round too. Definately my type, mid fifties, silver fox kinda guy.
After the stage show I dried off and sat back beside him, he offered me a drink that was sitting on the table that he supposedly just ordered and I stupidly accepted (I know, big big mistake). I was still a bit buzzed from winning so I sipped at it and within 3 minutes felt super drunk. I'm not a heavy drinker and I don't do any type of drugs so I assumed it was just me being light weight like usual. My friends had gone to a club (my ID wouldn't have worked) and promised to come back in an hour -- I didn't protest because there was 0 guys their type there (20 y/o gym rat, type if you know what I mean) and I was really hitting it off with this guy.
Anyways, the guys plan did not work because my body rejected the drug and instead of just being "easy" I passed out and then started vomiting and afterwards dry heaving on the bar floor until the ambulance came. Luckily for me, my friend had been outside of the club smoking and came back when she saw the ambulances heading to the bar, so I wasn't alone during the hospital stuff--I really hate them.
Sorry the details are kind of choppy, I only Know what the bartender told my friends.
Anyways thanks for the good luck wishes on the original post, id like to think they saved me from a night that could've been much worse. :-)
However, following my triumph I had to be rushed to the hospital, not so exciting :-(
I had been hanging with a guy at the bar, didn't know him but he seemed fairly friendly, he bought me a drink and then with some pouting, bought my friends a round too. Definately my type, mid fifties, silver fox kinda guy.
After the stage show I dried off and sat back beside him, he offered me a drink that was sitting on the table that he supposedly just ordered and I stupidly accepted (I know, big big mistake). I was still a bit buzzed from winning so I sipped at it and within 3 minutes felt super drunk. I'm not a heavy drinker and I don't do any type of drugs so I assumed it was just me being light weight like usual. My friends had gone to a club (my ID wouldn't have worked) and promised to come back in an hour -- I didn't protest because there was 0 guys their type there (20 y/o gym rat, type if you know what I mean) and I was really hitting it off with this guy.
Anyways, the guys plan did not work because my body rejected the drug and instead of just being "easy" I passed out and then started vomiting and afterwards dry heaving on the bar floor until the ambulance came. Luckily for me, my friend had been outside of the club smoking and came back when she saw the ambulances heading to the bar, so I wasn't alone during the hospital stuff--I really hate them.
Sorry the details are kind of choppy, I only Know what the bartender told my friends.
Anyways thanks for the good luck wishes on the original post, id like to think they saved me from a night that could've been much worse. :-)
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aren't you 18, anongirl?
Vikings - yes, I'm 18..can't blame a girl for daddy issues ;-)
25- I know not to! I'm usually better with this kinda stuff, I'm a good girl! Like I said, I just got wrapped up in the buzz of winning and I wasn't thinking. Thanks for the advice :-) I am lucky!
What a dumbass that guy was. Sounds lime he was doing pretty good at connecting with you and he had to do something like that. Did the guy get arrested? He probably would have been in my area.
Congrats on your win! Now you won't be so nervous next time. You got more experience and confidence now!
Unfortunately, strip clubs can be easy pickings for guys like that. And if you end up working at one, this probably won't be the only time it happens to you or is attempted. I've heard all kinds of horror stories from girls at the clubs very similar to this.
Best bet is to always be on your guard while at the club.
It was great that you won the wet t-shirt contest. Can you post some photos?
I knew a girl who always dated guys 20-25 years older than her. Got married twice to a couple of them. Both ended in divorce.
Esta- I've dated guys my age and in their 20s, in fact I currently have a restraining order against one. Yes some older guys only want sex but so do some younger guys. Older men (some) are just more attractive to me then (most) young guys. I like the maturity, nurturing, intelligence and overall persona. Plus, I find I fight a loooot more with younger guys because a.) jealousy - the older you are the more you realize you are who you are and your self esteem isn't so low so you're not so worried about cheating and stuff. B.) there isn't competition, with guys that are my age I feel like there's a constant competition with jobs, money, promotions etc. AND I think sleeping with guys 30 years my elder is kinda hot :-)
No I didn't mean type for SC customers I meant my sexual/romantic type, which is why like I've said stripping is a great way to make some cash while flirting with guys (for the most part) that I'd normally flirt with
@GoVikings I guess its more common in NYC than anywhere else. Because I see it quite a lot and I don't just stay in Queens all day.
Me being attracted and liking older men is in know way me trying to discredit younger guys, it's just a preference. Just like if I was a lesbian, I could still date women without hating men. :-)
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IUD SIS, stay in school ‘cause it's the best
Mikeya - I am in school and I plan to stay in it for another 6 years! I don't discuss that on here though because I kinda get the idea that girls stripping to pay for their tuition is translated to = bullshit. I'm sorry if I annoy you or you don't like my discussions--I feel that vibe, but I'll try my best to stay outta your virtual way :-)
I'm not permanently working at a SC (yeah I know, roll your eyes ;-)) I'm doing it for a year until I can go to school. And I'm less then a year away from being the legal drinking age, meaning fake IDs are basically essentially for hanging out with most of my friends. I also don't intentionally pick "loser" young guys, I don't think anyone does.
If I wrote discussions saying "Today I studied for 3 hours, and then practiced my basket toss in cheer" I don't think anyone would be happy. This site was made for strip clubs, sorry I don't post my GPA.
I'm also sorry if that was rude (a little sarcastic I know). I rarely stick up for myself but your backhanded comments on some threads and stuff in regards to me are kind of unnessacary. :-)
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I am an older guy and have been dating 18-25 year olds for several years. I like younger girls and they seem to like the security an older guy can offer them.
jestrite50...are you paying them or do you mean dating in the traditional sense?
I feel sick and my head already kills, I don't feel like arguing anymore. Sorry for offending you in anyway:-)
1. fuck that rapey fucking asshole. If there are cameras in the club, you should push the club to review the tapes and get his fucking ass arrested.
2. +++ for craving us older guys (I get it (and like it) -- BTW, where in the USA are you at?)
3. don't let the haters chase you away. Not everyone has a pickle up their ass
4. You survived what wlll likely prove to be a valuable lesson. Count your blessings.
Just please be more careful next time and don't take drinks from anyone, even co-workers you think are your 'friends.'
I'm sure you're pretty and now you know that older dudes will do just about anything to get a piece of you.
Just be careful!!!!!!!
Shailynn -- yeah this experience has got me so shook I don't even know how willing I'll be to ever accept a drink! Thanks for your advice, didn't mean to complain about my headache. I know I should be grateful!
I don't pay anyone to date. When I date a girl there is no expectation of how much she will benefit. She does benefit however and I treat her very well.
Anon, I am unfamiliar with Canadian law, but I would venture to say it is similar to the US. If you want to press charges go to the local leos and get a urinalysis, witness statements from the people at the club, hospital records and etc. You might get a little push for using a fake but they will most likely go after the bastard with enough evidence. Because you were lucky, they will want him off the streets before he tries to strike again.
You have records of the ambulance so you should try pressing charges. It may be hard to prove since he could just say he received the drink that way. But it might embarrass the guy even if they don't lock him up!
I think drugging a drink trumps drinking with a fake ID, especially when you're only one year shy of drinking age!
A.) my family cannot find out, I don't live with them but it wouldn't be hard for news to travel here.
B.) lawyers are fairly expensive when you're 18, my family lawyer is clearly not an option and I can't exactly charge daddies credit card
I don't know exactly what this guy does but his title is "Dr". I'm 99% sure he is responsible for Friday--esp. because if he was innocent why did he disappear when I was convulsing?? But if he's not posting him on that sex offender site (my friends idea) would ruin his career. I'm not sure what to do at this point.
But perhaps this experience will shy you away from men 20 years your senior? Because crazy shit like this will happen in night clubs too.
As for the silver fox comment, how do you feel about silver grizzly bears?
As soon as charges are filed, the name and address of the accuser and charges become very public information. Now if you talk to your parents to let them know what happened and they say to press charges, go for it. It's a tough situation especially knowing this creep might do it again to another girl. However there are known issues with date rape drugs and there are a lot of creepy people out there. There are a lot of good people too.
You have a lot of serious thinking to do about going after that asshole.
First, was a blood test done to verify that you had been rufied? If not, the slope will be very steep.
Second, even if you were rufied, and I don't doubt for a second that you were, can you prove beyond all reasonable doubt that he did it? You said that you were 99% sure. That leaves 1% of doubt for a slick defense attorney to seize upon.
Third, Your parents will inevitably find out. My gut feeling is that after initial unpleasantness related to the use of a fake ID to get into a wet T-shirt contest they will let it go, especially since you almost suffered something really bad. If you decide to go after the guy, tell them first!
On an unrelated subject, have you checked into your ability to work without a green card. A few years ago, a person could work on a student visa. I don't know if that vis still the case. A call to the US consulate in Toronto should get you a quick answer if you haven't already gotten one.
BTW, congrats on you win!
You're not going to be everybody's cup of tea on this board. Click the icon that looks like a microphone under the user name of the people you want to ignore. There's a lot of good helpful people here but there are also people that just want to stir up drama. Don't know why.
Gmd- grizzlies are one of my favourite types of animals :-)
Shark- I'm not afraid I'll get in trouble by my parents or anything like that. I don't think I've ever even gotten "grounded" when I was younger. I just know that it would not be beneficial for them to have any part in this because of past events involving 1/2. As I said -- I don't want to bring up family stuff publicly so I can't explain much.
Atac - yes there was a blood test done, positive for a substantial amount of "GHB" the doctor told my friend that in lucky I puked as much as I did. No I can't prove that it was him, only that I only had a few drinks and he bought all of them. I'm not sure about the green card thing, but I'm a dual citizen and I have a SIN card already. I have a few months to with on small details.
Bavarian - I don't want to block anybody because I know sometimes nice people say mean things. But I definately will if it's continuous! Thank you :-)
Sinclair - I'm probably going to first talk to a nurse at my school, I have to gather all my options. I wish I could just pretend it didn't happen because it's really kind of scary but I don't want him to hurt anybody else
Some posters have commented to be careful in strip-cubs and unattended drinks – has anyone ever known of a dancer being drugged by a custy in a strip-club – I kinda doubt that would happen – what can the custy do – it's not as if he can throw her over his shoulder and walk-out with the dancer.
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Glad you're ok anongirl.
I hope that creepy old fuck gets what's coming to him.
Lopaw- thank you! I do too, it's scary how someone can come across as so "normal" with intentions of hurting you..
Esta- good advice :-)
Js69- thank you! I might just take you up on that..
Oh my. Oh my, my.