Comments by whodey (page 21)

Just go back to the club and have fun with other dancers. Once you spend some money and are polite with other dancers any perceived hit to your reputation will quickly be forgotten by the other dancers. I would just stear clear of the dancer in question going forward. Anything you approach her and say or do once she perceived you as a potential stalker will only reinforce that idea to her. Assuming you aren't fixated on her it should be easy to find another dancer (or preferably several) to have fun with going forward.

LecherousMonk when it comes to dancers or girls on SA just be honest about what you want. You won't offend a dancer or SA girl by asking as long as you are polite when doing it as they have likely been asked hundreds if not thousands of times before meeting you. Columbus is not a great town for finding OTC but it can be done. It is rare to get a girl to agree to it the first time you meet her especially in a non-extras city like Columbus but once you have spent time and money with a girl a few times ITC they will be more open to OTC with you. In Columbus I have found that it usually takes at least 2 or 3 vip sessions ITC before most girls are willing to meet OTC and even then it is a 50/50 shot. Just seeing a girl once or twice and only buying 2 or 3 lapdances per visit isn't going to cut it in that town. The girls need to know you are a spender before they will discuss OTC most of the time.

I'd be happy to console here after the Bengals beat the Chiefs this coming Sunday.

It's fairly common but by no means universal among strip clubs. Also, a lot of the clubs that do post a 2 drink minimum don't really enforce it. Basically it just gives the club a way to kick out people that come in and don't spend anything.

If you aren't going to have an edit button I don't think there should be an option to delete a post either. Some users will just use it as a defacto edit button and just delete and repost their comments. Let people have to deal with the repercussions of their angry posts. It's not like there are any real repercussions for what is posted on here anyways. The only repercussion would be a hit to your reputation with a bunch of anonymous perverts on a strip club site. If you can't deal with that make sure you think before you post.

$1,000,000,000 should cover it unless you have some really weird kinks.

As somebody from Cincinnati I can tell you three things: 1) This is the best club around Cincinnati. 2) No way this club or any of the girls there is worth spending $1400. 3) No chance at all of getting extras here.

Not a huge heavy metal fan but if I had to pick I'd go with "Breaking the Law" by Judas Priest. What little heavy metal I have listened to is the more mainstream stuff so I'm sure there are better songs out there that I have never heard but it isn't really my type of music.

"I grew up in an era where strip clubs were patronized exclusively by men and were our havens of depravity. It definitely changes the vibe when there are civilian women in the mix." I'm in my early 40s so I am not young by most standards, but I guess I am on the younger side by TUSCL standards. I don't understand why having female customers would change how a guy behaves in a strip club. I'm guessing it comes from not wanting to offend women who may be more sensitive, but to me that concept doesn't apply to any women that are going to a strip club. I get how acting the way most of us do in a strip club would offend some (probably most) women if it were done in most public settings, but the women that go to a strip club have to expect it to be a sexual environment and that is exactly why they are there. If they are going to a strip club expecting it to be something other than a sexual environment, that is completely on them and I could care less if they get offended by what goes on in a strip club that they chose to go to. To me, I'm no more concerned about offending female customers than I am about offending the dancers since I'm not trying to get anything from the female customers. In fact I'm a lot less concerned about what female customers (or male customers) think about my actions than I am about what the dancers think about me. If another customer is offended it won't matter to me, but if dancers are offended by my actions it will matter since they are less likely to give me the types of dances or extras I enjoy.

I've seen a few bachelorette parties at clubs and never thought much about it except once where the girls were hotter than the dancers on shift at a particular club. I remember wishing some of the girls from the bachelorette party would start stripping in that case. I've seen it most often in Nashville but it really is hard to go anywhere in Nashville without running into a bachelorette party.

I've never had the chance to club in Atlanta but from what I've read it would likely be the #1 city for AA dancers. Of the cities I've club in frequently in the past I would say East St. Louis had the best selection of AA dancers. Pretty much every club I was in out there was better than 50% AA and they all from thin to Papi Chulo mode and from light caramel skin to deep dark chocolate with a nice variety in each club. If you can't find an AA dancer that fits your taste in that town you must not be into AA dancers at all. It was before covid the last time I was there for business, but I doubt it has changed much. The cities I frequent these days are mostly in Ohio, Kentucky and Tennessee with occasional visits to Indianapolis and West Virginia. Some of the cities have 1 or 2 predominantly AA clubs but most of the clubs are predominantly white with only a few AA or Latinas in each club. I would say Cleveland probably has the best variety of AA dancers in this region but even there the quality leaves a lot to be desired so I wouldn't call it a Mecca by any stretch.

If you are talking about a true military nuclear weapon I doubt it. I think the mutually assured destruction aspect of several countries possessing large nuclear arsenals is enough to keep even countries like North Korea or Iran from actually using them. If you include a dirty bomb rigged up by a terrorist group I still think the odds are low, probably around the 3-5% range.

It's part of their long term hustle and serves a few purposes for them. First off it gets them a free meal and drinks from a decent restaurant. Secondly, it helps them sell the illusion that they see you as more than a wallet to be emptied and they hope this illusion will help empty your wallet quicker. Third, it instills a sense of loyalty that they believe will help bring you back into the club repeatedly to spend more money on them once your wallet has been replenished. There is also the outside shot that it is their way to open the door to a p4p otc arrangement but I wouldn't assume it based solely on the offer to go to dinner. But, even if that isn't their intention it does give you an opening to try to move the conversation in that direction if that is what you are looking for.

Best wishes on the surgery and here's hoping you are back to your normal sex life quickly.

It's been several years since I had a regular enough otc girl that I went months without clubbing. Back when I was seeing my atf I went about a year and a half without clubbing because I was spending all of the time and money I would usually spend clubbing with her instead. Since then I haven't found anyone that I wanted a long term otc arrangement with. Sure I've had otc with women who were at least as hot as my atf but none of them had a personality that I clicked with and enjoyed as much as her. If it's just going to be sex for money I may as well enjoy some variety instead of sticking with just one or two girls unless I find someone I click with like I did my atf.

When the weather is nice I'll go camping or fishing depending on how much time I have as a way to completely unplug from the world. I never have my phone turned on during either activity. When the weather isn't conducive to being outside I'll head out to the garage for a little bit of woodworking.

She's not my ideal girl but she is far from ugly. I'd give her at least an 8 in my book, but I could see how she could be a 10 to a lot of guys.

That's way better than watching hockey.

I prefer a nice diner or good pizza if I can find it that late at night. When I am in Louisville I prefer Spinnelli's pizza since they are open until 5am. It's been a while since I've clubbed that late in Lexington but I would usually choose Tally Ho for breakfast or a burger but it isn't really convenient to the clubs. In Columbus I haven't really found a good option so it is generally just IHOP or whatever I can find open.

I think SA as well as cam sites and traditional escort sites are both competition for strip clubs in the grand scheme of things. There are a limited number of young women who want to make money from their looks and a limited amount of money for men to spend on sexual fantasies. SA is most likely the biggest competition for the girls you prefer since those girls can rationalize what they are doing as if it isn't the same as prostitution the same way strippers who occasionally do OTC can. In the end they are willing to have sex for money, but they want a sense that they will only do it with a select few men and only for the right offer. To me the girls that choose camming over dancing are the ones that are more likely to have given air dances if they worked a club. They don't mind strangers looking at them while they are naked but don't want strangers touching them. The girls that do traditional escort sites or porn are more transactional typically. They are like the dancers that go straight for the "wanna dance?" approach instead of building a connection first. The good news is there is still a lot of crossover between all these groups and a lot of women do at least two or more of those options. After all, it is important to have multiple revenue streams in this economy.

Never been with a mother and daughter that I know of either at the same time or separate. Definitely wouldn't want to be with both at the same time. Not sure if I would want to knowingly be with a girl if I knew I had fucked her mom years ago or not because that could be awkward, and I certainly wouldn't tell her I had fucked her mom. I have been with a pair of sisters separately that I didn't realize were sisters until I went to drop one of them off after an otc date and the other one was sitting on the porch. I asked the girl I was dropping off how long she had been roommates with Georgia and she replied, "we're not roommates, that's my sister. How do you know her?" Before I could even give an answer you could see it click in her mind and she just yelled "You fucked my sister?" loud enough that the sister heard her and came over to the car to see what was going on. They both started yelling and calling each other whore and all I could do was sit there since the one was still in the car.

While I would prefer the two way block, like founder said that costs him time and money to update the software. While it would be nice to have it back, the value I get from the site outweighs the minor annoyance. Maybe founder could introduce a "vip extra" membership level where for $199.99/year (or $19.99/month) you can add two way blocking to your profile. That way the people who really want it can make it worth founder's time and cost.

That's strip club math, right up there with clubs offering dances at $30/song or 3/$100.

From your pics you are beautiful enough that I can overlook the fact that you are a Bills fan.

That's a shame, 54 is way too young.