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Keep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
When I'm regularly seeing one or two OTC favs, I often will go for months without going to a strip club. Anybody else?
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I will play along and comment on your discussion.
You wrote; and I quote;
“When I'm regularly seeing one or two OTC favs”
Pics and Vids of the “two OTC favs” or it didn’t happen.
:D
Once OTC is achieved, it is best to keep seen girls OTC only.
Not me. First because I also enjoy the club environment. Second because I always want to have an eye out for the next great thing and also need to keep the ball moving on prospects.
I could see this working if you're the type of guy who doesn't really enjoy the club that much and can see the same person for a long time. That's not me. I'm not looking for a wife, whether it's ITC or OTC. For me every one of these things has a shelf life. I don't mind riding it for a while when I find something special, but a few months is my outer range in most situations.
Same here. I like cultivating a dependable regular but It always ends because I just loose interest because of various reasons.
If it's just going to be sex for money I may as well enjoy some variety instead of sticking with just one or two girls unless I find someone I click with like I did my atf.
The guys with the puffed out chests are like "ain't no little girl in stripper heels gonna tell me how to club. I'm a man! I'm 50!" Lol. The new girl you wanna bang is definitely gonna listen when that little girl in a thong and her clique threatens to choke her out in the back.
Any dancer I've asked to go OTC has already likely passed the "no stupid shit" test, and won't cause a problem. If she was faking it, I probably won't see her again. I once had *four* dancers in one club that I was seeing OTC. They all knew, in fact at one point, they apparently all got together and discussed it. At another club, I was talking to two friends. At some point, they had a falling out, and one of them came to me and told me that I couldn't see the other one anymore. I told *her* that wasn't gonna happen, but if *she* wanted to stop talking to me because of it, I understood. She didn't stop.
I do my best to manage expectations. Just like I'm not the only dick she's sucking, she's not likely one sucking *my* dick.
Yes, I'm sure your "choke her out in the back" scenario happens; *did* happen to one of my favs. The "choker" got *her* ass kicked, and never got another dime from me, in or out of the club.
So while you choose to characterize being self-confident and assertive as mere bravado, it's not, and my experience backs that up.
That's good for you, gmd. I might have a bit of my experience myself lol. Do you want stories for or against having multiple girls from the same club in the otc lineup?
"Your post presumes that fucking a particular dancer is *worth* avoiding all the others."
Actually it didn't. I was just making conversation because I'm procrastinating.
"That might have been true with my ATF, but even she didn't get "jealous" enough to ask me to stop. In fact, she was more likely to want to join."
It's been true with my ATF. That's one set of stories. And with her the problems have mostly been in the other direction (other dancers getting pissed be cause she's been the clear favorite). They got fired. But with her being a queen bee she'll smile to my face about doing what I want and make sure the others know what the deal is when I'm not around. Or tell lies. Whatever. She's pretty shady, but the cock wants what it wants. And she basically runs that club.
"Yes, I'm sure your "choke her out in the back" scenario happens; *did* happen to one of my favs."
Then what's the problem? I'm just having a bit of fun, because this is literally a titty bar site and it's supposed to be. But since you got all serious on me, you absolutely know there's a shit ton of puffery that goes on around here. It's highly comical and truly trollworthy.
Hey skibum. You said your wife is a swinger, right? No strippers for a night in as a change of pace?
I saw things this way for years. But OTC can be pretty convenient. When it's not causing chaos, that is lol.
Makes sense. I don't disagree. All I'm saying is it isn't fool proof. If only we could "finesse" all these stripper chicks like we toss words around on TUSCL. I kid. That would be boring. But even if the girl goes along with something doesn't mean she likes it, and that stuff adds up. Resentment is a bitch.
The other week I passed up a threesome with a friend of a friend I actually wanted to rail (but not in a must have way) because I could tell the bird in the hand wasn't 100% on board. What's one drunken fuck that didn't happen in the grand scheme of things?
So I just popped into one of my regular clubs this afternoon. I’ll be do a review soon about my experience. Part of this visit kind of relates to what is being discussed.
I’ve been reluctant to continue patronizing one of the dancers here for sometime now. I feel she has this “I’m too good” attitude that has really turned me off. Without going into too much detail, I vowed my most recent encounter with her would be my last.
And thus far, I kept my word. Had one trip at another club I thoroughly enjoyed, as well as a few trips here since my last time with her. I’ve met two new dancers I’ve enjoyed the company of.
Today was a little different. She tried to approach me to solicit dances, and I told her no thanks. I ended up meeting and getting a couple dances from a gorgeous new dancer today.
The reason I’m mentioning all this is I’m a little concerned if the previous dancer is going to start giving the one today a hard time. I’m not sure if she would go that far, as she does already appear to have a well established flock of regulars.
I work hard for my money, as I’m sure a lot people do. I don’t feel any of these dancers should feel entitled to anything other than let’s say common courtesy from customers. I’m hoping I can move on after by being disappointed by her and not have any residual drama develop from it.
Started OTC with a dancer who worked in a DC non-lapdance club. After 2nd date, saw her in the club. Spent about 30 mins with her, then said I wanted to talk to other dancers. Later, she texted me and whined about me hanging with other dancers in the club, since she was doing OTC with me, and hinted my approach ITC might limit our OTC activities.
Knowing it’s all about her wanting to control as much of my wallet as possible, I just gave a neutral response, saying I’d give her feelings some thought. Given the lack of action ITC, and some of the best OTC fun with her I’ve ever had, I actually thought she made a good point. But I never committed to her request. Wanted to maintain my options.
Tbh though my experiences are similar to those of Wall, HG and some others. Once I breach the OTC barrier with a girl, I find that the ITC possessiveness ramps up. A lot of it happens behind the scenes and often I don't hear about it until much later. With increased money comes increased drama. I have also had girls stop seeing me OTC when they learned that I took someone else out.
While I enjoy variety, I also enjoy my adult recreation in the comfort of an actual bed rather than a location that ranges from a walk-in closet to broom cubby.
But I always find my way back to the club... because variety.
I also think the dynamic is drastically different in clubs where ITC/OTC is common and pretty much out in the open vs those where its more clandestine. In the more common/open clubs, there's both less of the sexual exclusivity related motivations and even less of the financial complications, so its less of an issue. There's also the aspect of setting expectations up front. A dancer who has seen me walking out with other strippers, or dropping them off, or going to the private room areas, she's really got no reason to expect any sort of exclusivity. The opposite is true as well, if a dancer has never seen me talking to other strippers over the course of several ITC interactions, she may reasonably expect some sort of exclusivity, particularly if she agreed to meet me OTC based on some perception of exclusivity or loyalty, misplaced or not.
All that is a long way of saying, in these matters I think conditions vary significantly, so do outcomes.