Comments by whodey (page 20)

Best - had a dancer who left almost $800 in the back seat of my car. It either fell out of her work backpack while it was in the car or she dropped it while getting the bag in or out of my car. I never even noticed because I almost never used the backseat of that car because it was cramped getting into and out of since it was just a two door car. About 3 months later I was getting the car detailed and when I picked it up the detailer told me he put the Crown Royal bag of cash on the passenger seat and laughed. I thanked him for his honesty and gave him an extra $100 tip. After thinking back to determine who could've left it in there I remembered the girl who had put her backpack in the back seat. I went back to the club I had met her at but she no longer worked there so I spent the cash on the girls who were working that night. Worst - a dancer left a small makeup bag on the bathroom sink. When I opened it I could see a couple of small glass vials and several syringes in the bag. I quickly took the bag down the hall and tossed it in the trash can in the vending area. Needless to say that was the last time I ever dealt with her.

I setup a snapchat account a few years that I primarily use for things like Sports Center and other business and news updates from groups I follow. I have never posted anything myself and have only rarely used it communicate with p4p providers. A couple of dancers I see otc only use social media to communicate and since I have family, friends and business contacts on my Facebook page I don't give that out to people in this hobby. There are also a couple of escorts that I see that will respond almost instantly to a chat on snapchat but tend to take hours or even days to respond to a regular text and you shouldn't even bother calling them because you'll never get an answer.

It was harsh, but I wouldn't call it savage. She wasn't beautiful, at least from what you could see with a baggy sweatshirt and a mask on, but she isn't ugly or "busted" like he called her. Just a kind of plain and average looking girl.

"before I could even right my tip the broad says make sure you take care of us bartenders like I wasn’t going to or I was a cheap skate." This is confusing considering you said they made you pay cash for the beer, so what is there to write (I assume this is what you meant when you wrote right my tip) when you are paying cash. It should take less time to hand her a couple of bucks from the change she is giving you than it would take her to ask you to take care of the bartenders. If there was some sort of delay between her giving you your drink and your change that probably explains why she assumed you weren't going to tip. They are used to people either tipping instantly or not at all.

Some poles spin, others don't. The clubs that are big on high energy pole tricks usually have at least one pole that spins on the main stage.

Why would a bartender have to beg you to tip. I don't think I have ever bought a drink at a bar and not tipped the bartender. As for having to pay cash, most clubs (and a lot of other businesses) have a minimum you have to buy to use a debit or credit card. That is due to the fact that Visa/Mastercard/AmEx or whatever other card you are using charges the business to process the transaction. That fee is often a percentage of the amount processed but their is a minimum fee so it doesn't make financial sense for a business to have to pay a fee for just one beer. The way I see it, if you are so tight with your money that you can't tip a bartender/waitress every time they bring you a drink maybe strip clubs aren't the right hobby for you. The same goes if you don't have enough cash on you at the beginning of a strip club visit to have it not be an issue if you have to pay cash for your one beer. Keep in mind that strip clubs are an extremely expensive hobby that usually involves the need to carry a fair amount of cash with you for each visit. As for the girl at the front whom you complained to, what is her job? If she is a manager that is the right person to talk to about your complaints. If she is just a front door girl / cashier or a coat check girl there is no reason for you to whine at her about what the bartender or waitress did. That isn't her job so I don't blame her for giving you an attitude if you were whining like a little bitch to her.

Does anyone really think the US hasn't flown intelligence gathering missions over China, Russia, N. Korea and most other countries recently? I don't know if we do it with balloons, drones, planes or a combination of all three but I am sure we do it just like China and Russia do. Hell, I wouldn't be surprised if we have multiple surveillance missions over China right now. That doesn't mean we shouldn't shoot them down when we catch them in the act, we absolutely should. I just don't get why the public is so shocked to learn it happens.

I used to help prepare tax returns through a community organization as part of the IRS's VITA program from the time I was in college until about 4 years ago. Back before I found TUSCL and realized how much the clubs around here sucked compared to other cities I had several of the girls from a couple of local clubs who I helped with their taxes. A lot of them had never filed before but one of the older dancers had started convincing them to do it so they could qualify for a car loan or eventually for a mortgage. Most of them seemed to make just enough to maximize their Earned Income Tax Credit and Child Tax Credit to get a nice little refund. Shockingly, I don't recall a single one that ever ended up owing taxes on their declared income for some reason. If I wasn't such a trusting person I would suspect they weren't honest about how much they made from dancing.

Like other have said, if she's just had a few drinks to help her relax and have fun it's fine. Anything beyond that is a hard pass. That's one of the reasons I prefer day shift or early evenings since most of the girls aren't drunk during those times. I have seen drunk dancers do everything from fall asleep to throw up on customers. More importantly, the things I like to do with dancers require 2 consenting adults to agree to. If she is drunk she can't really consent in my opinion and somebody would have to be a lowlife piece of shit to take advantage of a drunk girl to do them. Anybody that would take advantage of a drunk dancer is no better than any other sexual predator or rapist and they deserve to end up in jail as a result.

Becoming a known regular at a local club can certainly be an advantage. When you are a known quantity it makes it easier to get attention from the top tier dancers and can also lead to better mileage from dancers who trust you and bouncers tend to not keep as close of a watch on known customers. Unfortunately, I live in Cincinnati which is a terrible region for strip clubs so I do all of my clubbing in the other cities I get to on a semi-regular basis for work. This does have its own advantage of giving a wider variety of dancers since there is so much turn over between each of my visits to a particular club. While the variety is nice I am the type that prefers to have at least one regular that I know will be a good time. That is hard to do now that I am only in each city every 3-4 months. It was a lot nicer when I had 3 cities where I traveled to for work and visited each of them every 3 weeks for a couple of days at a time.

Robbing a strip club would be sacrilegious. There is nothing holier than the bond between horny old men and young naked women. Cruminals know that if you rob a strip club you're going to burn in a very special level of hell. A level they reserve for child molesters and people who talk at the theater.

25 where do you get 4 turnovers? Burrow had 2 interceptions and the Bengals had no fumbles. Honestly I'm surprised he didn't turn it over more with the way our O-line played. Cincinnati made plenty of mistakes and if it wasn't for those mistakes we had a chance to put the game away so that a KC field goal at the end wouldn't have won the game for them. The fact is we didn't take advantage of the opportunities we had so all KC needed was a field goal. We would have stopped them outside of field goal range if it wasn't for Ossai's late hit. There's no telling how the game would've turned out without the late hit. They may have hit a longer field goal or they may have hit a long touchdown to win in regulation. If it went to OT either team could've won. It wouldn't have been so bad if we had just got beaten by a team that outplayed us, that's what the game is all about. The fact that we played an even game for 59 minutes and 52 seconds and then gave the game away by committing a stupid penalty after Mahomes was already out of bounds is what hurts.

I guess a strip club being closed for a few days due to a movie shooting there is better than being closed due to a 2AMer style shooting.

This club has never really been worth visiting, and it sure as hell isn't worth risking your life to visit with this shit going on.

Please don't mention that name ... the pain is real.

https://youtu.be/Eh2PjkzW20w Not sure that the music would be great to dance to but the lyrics seem appropriate.

Docsavage probably knows the Indy scene better than anyone on here so you'd do well to listen to his advice. I don't get to Indy as often as I used to but when I do go lately I stick to Brad's or Dancer's since they have more of the type of girls I look for. I used to go to Rio in the past but I stopped after a few lackluster visits right after covid, probably about time to try them again on my next visit to Indy in April.

One big item that I have seen is no cellphones but that is becoming less common or at least less enforced lately. Five to ten years ago it was common for security to get on someone that pulled their phone out at all in a club. Now most dancers are on theirs multiple times per shift so the bouncers tend to only get on somebody if they are trying to take pictures or video with their phone. That should continue to be strictly banned and I really wish they would enforce it with dancers as well because I have ended up in the background of a few pics that dancers have taken of themselves in clubs and posted on social media.

Other than the no weapons and no touching I have never seen any of these posted. Even though I carry a concealed weapon at times I wouldn't do it in a club and I fully support banning them there. Alcohol and guns is a bad combination. If a club actually enforces the no touching rule that is fine, but it isn't a club I am going to spend any money at. I stay out of the party atmosphere type clubs so I doubt laser pointers or flashlights have ever been an issue at the clubs I go to. Most of the clubs I go to are thankfully nonsmoking now but I have seen people smoking blunts in those that do allow smoking. No condoms or sexual stimulants makes sense to help cover the club from liability in the case of a prostitution raid. Like Mate said eye droppers are often used by criminal scumbags as a way to hide date rape drugs like GHB that they are trying to slip into girl's drinks.

If you are looking for a wife and you know that women are going to Home Depot to find a husband wouldn't it make sense to spend time at Home Depot?

I doubt he was "eating" it, he was probably practicing his deep throat skills and went too far and swallowed it.

"Word to the wise, take off the trench coat." Never tell a creep to take off the trench coat since he is likely naked underneath it.

I prefer late afternoons at smaller clubs so there have been plenty of times I have been the only customer when I walk onto a club. A lot of the times if I get done with work around 3 I'll stop by a club and it isn't unusual to be the only customer there until around 5 at some clubs. Only downside is that a lot of the time there aren't many, or sometimes any, girls to choose from. If you can find a dancer you like it can be a lot of fun since there is no competition and she is eager to make money.

I'm good with any hair color as long as it is one that could occur naturally on a woman. Like others have said the bright neon colors don't generally look good, unless they are done as part of an overall look like a punk rocker vibe and then it can work. However, I have never turned a girl down for a dance or anything else based on her hair.

Clearly I pull for the Bengals so I am obviously pulling for them. On the NFC side I feel like it will be the Eagles. I think this is Hurts chance to shine with an NFC championship. I actually think the 49ers are a better overall team, but Purdy's luck will finally run out this week and end his undefeated streak.