Comments by ujay (page 4)

The outcome of the fight would have been worse than expected. The girl that was hit on the head unexpectedly could have passed out and lost consciousness. Thanks for helping to stop the fight. The fight instigator is definitely jealous of the other girl. She wants to ruin her face and looks. Make this incident work for you. Go back to the club, speak with the manager now that the heat of the moment has died down, and see whether some compensation can be worked out for you (drink, free admission), or better still, speak with the girl that you were dancing with, and let her know what you did to stop her from being knocked unconscious. She may become your ATF. Stripper love to know that someone is concerned about them.

Man, this is great advice from a community of brothers. Thank you guys! Expect great reviews from me.

I will probably get to visit the Penthouse first, and then weave my way down. What is the routine at the Penthouse? In my area, you pay $125 for 15 min in VIP and then negotiate with the dancer. Is this the same policy at the Penthouse. I prefer to nail everything down before going to do VIP.

Given that I have to drive several hours, I would like the best that Detroit has to offer. I prefer the best value for the money. After all, I work hard for every dollar earned. I, on the other hand, do not want to be pennywise and pound foolish! In order to repay the group for the advice offered, I promise to write full reviews of my experience in the mecca of strip clubs - Detroit.

Towards the end of the song, they begin to allow you to suck their breasts and squeeze their tatties.

If a person is determined to takes photos in a stripclub, it can easily be done with some miniature cameras that look like pens. I think that strippers that work in nude clubs should expect that one day if they become famous or competing for a great job, nude photos will be available either from club cameras or customer cameras.

Move on! She is playing games with you. She wants to sap you for all its worth. She knows that you are significantly older than her and do not desire a wife. She wants to string you along with lunches, brunches, and gifts. Cut your losses now!

Well said Tiredtraveler. I could not have said it better. Discretion is the better part of valor

Ranukam, I have a different perspective to your question. I go to strip club to get a BJ or sex. I avoid bikini bars with "hot girls". I avoid high end strip clubs with $300 champagne rooms in the middle of a city with tourists. I prefer working class strip clubs in the middle of no where. I know that the girls there are hungry and need some dollars. So, let the show begin.

Strippers are expensive, hands down! You, however, get to see the complete merchandise before the purchase. With escorts, you can never be so sure what you are getting. I have had escorts beg me to write a "good" review of them. Sometimes, guys may write great reviews of escorts just to please them and not muddy the waters. However, a great escort can not be beat. I may stop in a strip club in the afternoon between 4 - 7pm before going home, just to relax a little, and enjoy some music. If the price is right, we are out to the races. Overall, a great escort is in a class of her own - crème de la crème.

The VIP program should roll out in September. The devil lies in the detail. I am largely a 4 - 7pm clubgoer after work. I never visit on the weekends. The daytime weekdays are already lax; this offer, if properly dne, would make daytime romp even better.

Recently, more and more of the pretty strippers have been doing so called "split shifts", 4 - 11pm. They get some of the daytime action, but are also around for the evening.

The club normally charges $15 for admission with a mandatory one drink purchase for $5 because it is a nude club. Only water and sodas are sold. Recently they have been charging $10 daytime with the $5 mandatory drink purchase. 15 minute VIP rooms are $125. The house takes $50, and gives the stripper $75. The girls in the daytime are generally more open to extras, though they are not the prettiest. Sometimes a pretty one from the night may work a couple of day shifts either as fine for coming late to work or simply to hustle to make ends meet. There is intense peer pressure on the nighttime stripper not to do extras; so some of them slip in the daytime to get some real money.

I think that extras have definitely become more readily available in the South Jersey/Philly area. The slowdown of the economy has taken a hit on the strippers bottomline. They have to hustle more to make a fraction of what they previously made prior to 2007. As mentioned, once a SC begins to allow extras, the customers begin to gravitate to girls that offer extras. This definitely sets the bar higher for everyone in the club. Extras are more readily available in the daytime with mature Strippers that have rent and bills to pay. The younger prettier girls that work at night may still live with parents, and do not have the responsibility of maintaining a household. Finally, club owners are less aggressive preventing contact lab dances. They too are feeling the pinch of the lack luster economy. They have rent, property and school taxes, utility bills to pay. I noticed the other day when I walked into my favorite SC, the lights in the lap dance room appeared dimmer than usual. The message was clearly written.

Cut your losses and leave now before you lose it all. As Papi said, you have the $$$, therefore you set the agenda. If she wants to play games, move to another stripper who wants to play ball. I once liked a stripper very much who began to avoid me if I did not give her a lot of money. I moved my business elsewhere. There are new ones coming on board everyday. You may also have to visit a different SC.

if there is the slightest chance that you may have impregnated her, leave immediately, and remove all connections with her. Child support is no joke. Child support with a stripper will be a pathway to hell! She can claim cost of living increase every three months! Trust me, I am paying over $2K posttaxes.

I am watching it. Lesson learned: do not fool around with street workers. Any one know of similar undercover decoys in strip clubs ? Sometimes, I am apprehensive about seeing a new stripper until I have done a little research. Are there similar busts of johns in strip clubs?

I think that I am attracted to the face of the stripper, first and foremost! She must have a cute, attractive face. I then like a well toned body with little fat. I like all breast sizes. I prefer a bubble butt. Legs are at the end of the list. To seal the deal, I like a great personality...a stripper who can sit with me and spend time in a conversation. If she can not spend time with me, the VIP is going to be a very disappointing experience. My money has value. I work hard for the dollars, therefore, value must be attached to my dollars.

I generally fly solo. I am apprehensive about making friends at the stripclub, because I am fearful of undercover LE activity. Are you guys also fearful of finding male friends at the strip club to share information? I think it will be good to share intelligence, but the threat of an undercover LE keeps me at bay to myself. So, I have to experience each stripper on my own, for better or worse; win or lose. What is the experience of this board on establishing male friendship at the stripclub to share information on the strippers?

My best overall experience in a stripclub was unexpected. A stripper promised to give me full service in the VIP but failed to deliver. I had blue balls with the condom still on. After leaving VIP, I came across another stripper in the regular lap dance room and asked for a dance. During the dance, she got me very aroused, and I offer $60 plus the cost of the lap dances for full service. She agreed and we fucked right in the regular lap dance room. I had not even taken the condom off from the failed VIP experience. In total I had spend $100 for full service, though I was out $300 from the failed VIP experience. Can you top that?

This is one of the reasons that strippers have the advantage over escorts. You get to see what you are buying before the actual encounter. Many times you have great reviews with escorts, only to be let down when you actually meet in person. I once had on escort who had great reviews only to appear shabby, unkempt, with dirty nails, and bad smell. For a stripper to survive in the competitive environment, she has to look nice, smell nice, appear clean, and give great service.

I like to see the transformation - the change from civilian clothing (good girl look) to stripper (bad girl look). I love the sensual dances.

Ranykan.... I will sympathize with a stripper and try to get her on track (help with schooling, housing, etc), but I will not fall in love. I believe that it is a giant leap for a girl to go from working at the local grocery store to becoming a stripper who exposes her vagina. There is a significant emotional and behavioral abyss that my love will never be able to cover. I can, however, serve as a sugar daddy with pay is stripper sex.

I met a new stripper at my club today. During our first three encounters, she refused to perform extras. Today, there were hardly any customers in the club. Competition was fierce! She approached me and immediately offered a BBBJ. She said she needed the money to pay for auto repairs. She gave me a spirited BBBJ, but refused to kiss or have sex, because that is reserved for her boyfriend. I was surprised when she told me that her boyfriend has agreed to BBBJ, but no sex in the club. These girls surely maintain interesting relationships. Any comments?

Always negotiate upfront before releasing the money.