Comments by ujay (page 5)

I would never pay for companionship. I pay for sex period. Even in the club, I may get one or two dances to test the waters before bringing up the subject of sex. If I feel the stripper is not interested, I cut my losses and move to another one. Many more are coming to the club each day.

From the comments above, it would appear that strippers are truly addicted to stripping. Perhaps, they are no different from the alcoholics or drugs addicts, only that they get paid. Why would someone want to maintain a longterm relationship with such a person or get to marry one. They will simply run back to the strip club at the slightest of life's challenges. They are damaged goods.

Have they fallen victims to their own allure and mystique?

Thanks for all of the great information.

In my opinion, the average stripper in NJ clubs make around $150/day without "extras". She typically works 5 days a week or $750/week or $3000/month. The girls that do "extra" may make up to a $100K/month, provided she is beautiful and sexy. You, however, can not see what they do with their money. Their lives always appear to revolve from one crises to another---car notes, rent, child care, the list goes on.

Thanks guys and girls for all of the comments! The best conclusion I can reach from all the comments is that Timing Is Everything! You have to meet the stripper at the right time: less customers in the club, daytime, week days. With the lining of the stars, Cash is King! At the end of the day, a girl who takes out her clothing and exposes her vagina, is also the girl who will fuck for money when personal expenses begin to line up usually at the end of the month.

I know of a stripper who I heard from other strippers that she is planning on getting married in three months. She is still dancing to "pay for the wedding". She is pretty as hell and largely gives HJ. A week ago, I was extremely lucky. She had made only six dollars all day, and I walked in the club with pockets full of money. We had a sensual lapdance and I proposed sex in the VIP. She initially refused, but came back a few minutes later, and informed me that she can not go home after working all day with only six dollars. Well, we had great sex 90 days from her wedding. She did not allow me to kiss her because "that would be too personal". Stripper logic! How can such a person be trusted in the hurdles of life with its ups and downs. She will always escape out the back door, whether to the club or with her employers. I can not place my life in the hands of a stripper with her roller coaster of a life. I believe that when a lady takes off her clothing and exposes her vagina to strangers, she has crossed the path of no return. She has tasted the golden apple and will return from time to time to bite at the apple. She, however, appears to be a good mother and leaves the club faithfully at 5pm each day to pick up her son from daycare, even if the club is full of customers.

Thanks guys and girls for all of the great advice. I do agree that Rian can probably not be saved. I will try to keep my distance from her although she casts an intoxicating spell over me. I will probably need to stay away from this club. I no longer want to enrich the club owners with long periods in the VIP speaking with Rian. Unless she gets her act together, she will eventually be the loser. I do not criticize girls who chose to dance, provided it serves a higher purpose. I have promised Rian to help with school fees if she provides a transcript. So far, none is forthcoming. The club owners do not give a damn about these girls. They are a money making machine for the club owners. They advertise so called Hot Body Contests that recruit these girls right out of high school. The glamor of so called "modeling" and the financial windfall sweep them off their feet. How can someone who appears so gentle, kind, and soft spoken, yet is dangerously out of control a Rian. There are two older strippers in the club that are presently around 35 years old. They were once beautiful in their prime. Today, no one wants a lap dance from them, even if it is offered free. They go from one patron to another begging for lapdances, without success. I have paid one of them to speak with Rian to no avail. It will truly be sad if Rian eventually becomes one of these old strippers that have nowhere to go and no one wants them around. They hang around the club in the daytime waiting to provide all manner of favors. They can not compete with the girls at night. Sad; such is the life of the older stripper.

There is an incredibly beautiful stripper that I like very much. She says that she takes Klonopin for "anxiety". I believe that she takes other drugs. She has been in rehab once for drug addiction. She lives with a boyfriend who was recently busted by the SWAT team for drug possession. I believe that she is spiraling out of control. This girl makes at least $500/day, but yet she does not have a good car or accomodations. It is sad to see someone that you believe have great potential for success begin to unravel. She has tried to avoid me in the club because I try to counsel her. She will only begin to come around when I bring gifts for her or tell her that I will give her $300 in the VIP. There is not much we can do for such a person. Make sure that they do not bring you down in the process. I have begun to see other beautiful girls in the club, and also try to avoid her. Truly sad.

There is no free admission at this club. It is usually $15 for admission, day or night, and a mandatory $5 drink.