Familiarity breeds....
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My ATF has been a stripper for about 7 years. I first met her almost 5 years ago and have seen her OTC at least once a week for the last four years. She has a BF who's been with her for 11 years and they have an 8 year old son being raised by his grandmother but they're still a part of his life. I figure I've fucked her at least 250 times and she rocks my boat sexually like no other woman ever has. I've met the BF several times and while the two of them have long involved drug histories, they both have vowed to get clean and stay sober. They both recently left rehab and so far so good. I should mention that she was born on my 40th birthday so obviously I'm much older than she. I've never entertained visions of riding off into the sunset with her and truly think that she and the BF will stay together for the foreseeable future.
With both of them coming out of rehab, they're broke, homeless, and don't have a working car. Earlier in the week I picked her up, drove her 100 miles to a doctors appointment, then 50 miles to a hotel where I enjoyed her favors and then left her there for 3 nights (prepaid with loyalty points) right around the corner from her club. Her plan was to work 4 shifts in 3 days to earn money to get back on her feet. I've fronted her several thousand dollars and now am not paying for OTC until we're square. She had this afternoon free and we had planned to spend time in her room and then go to dinner and then I'd drop her off at work. After seeing her a couple of nights ago I was driving home when the BF called me. He had found a letter she had written to a guy she met in rehab in which she described in great detail the pleasures she could anoint upon his body. He was pissed off at her and after fighting over the phone with her denying any impropriety other than lust, he called me because he knows " I love her like a daughter".
I assured him that even though she was flighty and impulsive, she loved only him. This seemed to mollify him to some extent, but I began to feel guilty about cuckolding this guy. Today I learned she's pregnant ( I joked with her that it was good that she'd been able to narrow the father's identity down to 17 guys) but she's sure that the BF is the father. I'm really stumped about how to address this whole situation. Walk away? Continue to meet her OTC until I'm paid back? Leave the BF in innocent bliss? Thoughts?
With both of them coming out of rehab, they're broke, homeless, and don't have a working car. Earlier in the week I picked her up, drove her 100 miles to a doctors appointment, then 50 miles to a hotel where I enjoyed her favors and then left her there for 3 nights (prepaid with loyalty points) right around the corner from her club. Her plan was to work 4 shifts in 3 days to earn money to get back on her feet. I've fronted her several thousand dollars and now am not paying for OTC until we're square. She had this afternoon free and we had planned to spend time in her room and then go to dinner and then I'd drop her off at work. After seeing her a couple of nights ago I was driving home when the BF called me. He had found a letter she had written to a guy she met in rehab in which she described in great detail the pleasures she could anoint upon his body. He was pissed off at her and after fighting over the phone with her denying any impropriety other than lust, he called me because he knows " I love her like a daughter".
I assured him that even though she was flighty and impulsive, she loved only him. This seemed to mollify him to some extent, but I began to feel guilty about cuckolding this guy. Today I learned she's pregnant ( I joked with her that it was good that she'd been able to narrow the father's identity down to 17 guys) but she's sure that the BF is the father. I'm really stumped about how to address this whole situation. Walk away? Continue to meet her OTC until I'm paid back? Leave the BF in innocent bliss? Thoughts?
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then have her boyfriend go on a lecture tour starting with @lapdanceking82’s fourth grade special ed class speaking about how the danger of drug abuse is totally worth it if you are a dumbass cuckold who cums in his pants whenever a woman enters the room. that should put an end to your worries about him too.
then you can come to follies for Caprisun69's b'day party and have cake and ice cream with the rest of us.
What's so new about your problem, bro?
Eventually, you will figure it out and do what is right for you.
But the dark side of the force is strong.
Baby test will come later.
If you bail now, you just placed the target on your forehead.
Also make sure she only knows five things about you:
1) Your first name.
2) Your last name. It took about three months for her to know my last name.
3) Your phone number.
4) The car you drive.
5) Your Benjamins.
Strippers go crazy for and chase mysterious guys, the less they know the more they go.
If she knows you so well....oh well.
I also realize and admit that my feelings for her are hypocritical and even self-destructive in some ways. But I just can't get over that last hurdle. Right now I'm not going to contact her, but I know she'll call me when she needs money. That's when I've got be prepared to say yes or no. What a PL!
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I would call it toxic and I suspect it will get worse if she's gonna have a baby. Cut your losses and find a new girl, it doesn't sound like it will be a problem.
With her being pregnant, just getting out of rehab and her boyfriend getting out as well, I'm guessing when she can no longer dance she's going to be leaning on you pretty hard for support. Who else can she turn to? If you're prepared to do that, then continue. But be advised she could look totally different once she has this baby and would you still want her? Some girls bounce back quick where others, well they never do.
Also do you think she really is pregnant? Considering all the drugs she's done it's possible a miscarriage could happen and wash all of this away quickly.
You're right in that the drama of it all intrigues me, but this just may be too much.
Shadowcat - I've listened to others' thoughts and suggestions but have let the little head over rule the big head. That may not be the case anymore. I'm not prepared or in a position to support her and a baby and the BF just learned that all plea bargains were taken off the table by the prosecutor on two class "A" felonies for which the BF is going to trial in August, so it's looking like he'll be going to prison as a 3 time offender and she'll be stuck. I've got to adopt a mentality of "this is only business" and do what's right for me.
Given the nonsensical drivel posted here recently, I just wanted to inject a little "real life" into a thread and let the wolves attack some fresh meat. I just thought it might be more fun than the 34th thread on LDKing.
This girl is messed up, and she depends on you for money and support. You're in a fucked up relationship. At the same time you obviously are getting something you need from the relationship.
I would like to tell you to walk away--or run--but I don't know that your life would be better without her.
Generally, strippers are not relationship material, especially when you're a PL who visits strip clubs. They have zero respect for you. And as we all know, they often are carrying so many substance abuse, relationship abuse, and emotional abuse issues that there just isn't a healthy relationship in there anywhere.
Then sell the screen rights. Make a hell of a movie
Next time just fuck anal, bro.
The zipless fuck (as Erica Jong called it) is like the 12-inch dick. Bragged about much more than it really exists. Look how much Elliot Spitzer was paying for a guaranteed zipless fuck, and how that turned out.
You certainly should have your eye out for an alternate fuck-buddy-for-hire. But the only sure way to keep your balls from getting you in trouble is to have them cut off.
Stories like yours REQUIRE updates or the TUSCL security force will visit you! :)