Comments by ujay (page 3)

For me, the purpose of going during the daytime is to maximize your dollars. Less alcohol. The girls may not be super attractive, but extras are readily available. The Den in Sayreville, NJ, fits the bill. Your dollar sure goes a long way.

Strippers and bouncers usually collude to rob customers. What if there is a disgreememt between a customers and a stripper regarding the VIP tip. An argument ensues and before you know it, your photo, home address, and DL info, is plastered on facebook, twitter, and other social media. SC reside on the fringes of the law, and have poor encryption and security apparatus. I will walk away from this nonsense.

i will stay away from this high mileage club until the policy is repealed. I do have a morality clause in my employment contract and would hate to be found in a place when an incident occurs. Your drivers license is a primary source identity verification. It has your full name, home address, DOB, and in some cases, SS number. In the wrong hands, a background check can quickly be made, and a new identity created. I have no problem with my driver license being visually inspected, but no photos.

Eagle and Lopaw have both hit a home run! The hammer on the nail!

This board is a liberal board. The guys here that support the GOP are engaging in a hobby that would be banned in a tea party administration. As far as the tea party is concerned, there should be no strip clubs, escorts....because these are morally bad and should be banned. President Obama made the right decision. Bad business hire cheap labor, pay under the table, and avoid paying taxes. This makes the good business less competitive. This practice deprives the immigrants of their human value. To ignore the problem will not make it go away; instead it creates an underbelly of the poor that is destabilizing for society.

Make sure you read the Reviews of your club. You will get an idea what takes place in your club. Most of the South Jersey Clubs are high mileage clubs. Let us know what club you are looking at.

Well spoken...VeryBigDawg. I, too, prefer nude clubs because of the lack of alcohol. In a tittie bar/sportsbar, I may have a single drink, eat a full meal, and offer lots of drinks to the strippers. Better to get them drunk.

Money talks and BS walks away. I have met whores who say you are not like other black males when they see the money.

You appeared to be a smart and well educated young lady. I think that you should stick with regular jobs like being a waitress, hostess, etc, until you complete your education. Take this from a black professional male. Stripping these days is hard work. To truly break through the $$$$ - $$$$$ mark consistently, you will have to offer extras. If you are comfortable with extras, you can cultivate a following for OTC. Try not to have sex in the club, it is messy and greatly risky, venereal disease wise. Reason? small space, minimum condoms, no towels, soap, wipes, etc. Better to have high rollers, who can afford OTC at a 3 star hotel. Cleaner, comfortable, and better. If you need the cash and must strip, then agree for extras only out of the club. No motels. Risky, dangerous, and get raided all the time, with LE looking for individuals with outstanding warrants. Stick with 3 star hotels ( Sheraton, Hilton, etc). If your clients can not afford the 3 star hotels, they can not afford you. Also, doing OTC, you cut off the middle man (stripclub), who takes most of your cash. Use the club only for lapdances and meeting clients. Hint to your clients that you are open to OTC. Good luck. Follow my advice and you will do well. Do not follow my advice, and disaster awaits!

Well said..Rickdugan.

I may be wrong, but I think that keeping good customers who spend money by providing a friendly nonthreatening atmosphere would keep the dancers in the club. If the customers begin to leave, the girls are going to chase the money to another club. I have left a club because I was pissoff only to find out a few weeks later that the girls have moved to another club.

I have probably spend around $20K on stripclubs this year. I am slowing down for now. Hope to pick back up with the start of the new year.

Most strippers try to stroke their egos by telling stories of a single night as though it is a regular occurence. I visit strip clubs in southern and central NJ. Majority of these girls make less than $45K a year. In some of these clubs, there are hardly any customers during the day. The strippers complain that summer was bad; it now appears that fall is becoming worse. I have occasionally visited nighttime, and there are the college kids drinking and throwing down an occasional dollar. The nonextras stripper would be lucky to make $200/day working five days a week, or $4/month or $48K/year. Then, she has to tip the bouncer, pay house fees, etc. At the high end, the most beautiful stripper that I know, Rian, who does extras, may make $500/day or $2500/week, $10K/month, or $120K/year. Even she complains that the flying days of the pre2007 are over. She admits that some of her friends are even considering, for the first time, getting a real job. For Rian to continue to service so many extras, she admits to taking drugs. She has been in drug rehab once already, and it is just a matter of time before she relapses. Other than the fact that she is the best dressed stripper daily with expensive outfits, shoes, makeup, hairdo, white teeth, there is hardly anything to show for her money. She and most of the other strippers depend on their drug dealer boyfriends to pick them up in second hand automobiles, and reside in motels or low end housing. I believe that many of these girls, though may be making some money, are hardly above the poverty level. Very few invest in education, housing, or even purchasing a decent automobile.

Good luck Ranukan! Enjoyed reading your posts. Go and get married. The right woman creates stability in your life; then you, like me, can sneak out behind her and enjoy the strip club. Best of two worlds.

A good dance for me is titty sucking. I can pay for several dances if I can achieve this.

I would like to thank this community for listening to my problem. You told me to post on every site what happened to me. Well, I posted my experience here and also on stripclublist.com. Sure enough, the general manager left a message on stripclublist.com for me to call and speak with him. When I called and spoke with him, he promised to refund my $100, and asked to keep my business. He informed me that the club is not in the business of litigating what goes on behind close doors. I had already paid for the VIP and this is where their obligation to the parties end. Some of these bouncers do not see the big picture and connive with the strippers. Thanks to all. Always, let your voices be heard.

The most I have spend on a single dancer is $450, this includes the VIP/Sky Box which is $250.

The so called nonextras strippers are benefitting from the extras strippers. I go to my local strip club in the daytime where extras are readily available. Towards the end of the month, many nonextras girls will migrate from the night shift where extras are less and competition is fierce, and move to the dayshit when they know that guys come in the daytime for extras. These nonextras strippers try to leach off the extras customers. A guy may not have enough money to pay for the entire enchalada, but may give some dollars to the nonextra stripper if she is beautiful and give a high mileage regular strip dance. If the nonextra stripper is so hot, she should not attempt to work dayshift. She must compete in the fishbowl at niight with other nonextra strippers.

I like my stripper friend a lot, but this is mainly for sex. Initially I thought that I could change her, but she is too hooked on the dollars. I have sat in the club and see her go in and out of VIP at least six times. I know that she is having sex or giving blow jobs. I can not fathom risking my future by loving this person.

If you are afraid of raids, try going to the club during the daytime. There are never daytime raids. Raids are a publicity stunt! Mass media and hysteria. Tough on Crime bravado! Daytime is low key in most clubs, but mileage is at its best. No large volume of customers or strippers for a publicity stunt.

South Jersey is now better than Philly as far as extras are concerned. Recent clampdown in Philly prior to elections. If you want maximal extras for your dollars, try in descending order: 1. The Den, Sayreville; 2. Centerfolds, Neptune; 3. Showplace, Dover. Daytime is the best at these places. You can never go wrong with these three spots.

Well, I may be the only one on this board that work very hard for my dollars. I always want to ensure that there is value for my dollars. I can not afford to throw my money away, so I am mindful with my selection for the VIP. Generally, the girl who will sit and talk with me at the bar is the first step to a great experience. I then take her for a test run. If she takes off her panties in the common lapdance room, or shift my dick with her hands or mouth, or kiss me or rub her breast over my dick, I am sure that the stars have aligned. I have never gone wrong with this method. Price becomes a secondary issue. The VIP room is generally $125 in my area. I will then suggest a $100 - $200 tip; total: $225 - $325. Is she agrees, we are out to the races.

Agree with Papi Chulo. I am usually a daytime guy - definitely older. I have found that extras in the daytime are readily available, unrushed and unhurried, but not necessarily cheaper. A daytime stripper once told me that guys come during the day for the VIP, and not to see stripper dance. The daytime girls are typically older, but not always. Some younger, more beautiful girls that are pressed for cash may come in the early afternoon and overlap day and nighttime shifts. I have found that these same girls will readily do extras in the daytime and not at night. Sometimes this may be due to peer pressure. Also, there are less employees around. The same employee may be at the door, serve as DJ, and bartender, all in one. This makes the environment for extras easier. I do not like the rowdy party atmosphere at night, especially on the weekends.

SJG...VIP room sex can sometimes become more intense and pleasurable than bedroom sex. The small space allows for very close bonding. Intense kisses, BBBJ, cowgirl, doggy, and even lying partially on the couch with the legs pinned to the ears. I was elated and sweating today after such an experience. Well worth the money spend. Read my review.

JohnSmith69 knock the ball out of the park! I always do a one song test drive in the regular lap dance room before going to VIP. If the dance in the regular room is uninspiring, I cut my losses. If inspiring, I let the stripper know exactly what I want BBBJ/FS. Sometimes. a stripper may give FS, but not BBBJ. I will still work with her for the future. If a stripper agrees to my plans, but flatly refuses to implement them in the VIP, I do not tip. Never tip upfront in the VIP.