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7 years ago
Most dancers are conscientious about their hygiene and vaginal health. Unfortunately, some aren't. There have been recent threads re smelly pussies.
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7 years ago
Have a similar drama happening at my current favorite club. It's a nude, full bar, no lap dance, no VIP joint. I like this club because of the large number of 6-8 rated dancers willing to make extra funds playing OTC. So far I've pulled two dancers for OTC and have had a couple sessions with each.
After giving up the goods OTC they both expected me to sit with them ITC, tip them on stage, and hold their spot at my table when they went onstage. Oh, and they wanted to be in control of which other girls were allowed to join my table, or hang out with me when they had to go on stage. Both threatened no more OTC if they had to get up from my table while I chatted up other girls not in their respective clicks. Part of the problem is that I visit the club during non-busy times and they have to go on stage about every 20 mins.
One had a hissy fit ITC. The other has paused OTC (classic pussy restriction) until she's treated right ITC. Gladly giving up OTC with both to control how I spend my time and money. And indeed money is what it is all about. Those bitches don't give a shit about me personally. They just want me as a regular for the income.
I continue to roll into MY new favorite club, and I decide who I hang with and how I spend MY money. Lots of other OTC options materializing.
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7 years ago
Lots of porns available as escorts. The "free" part is tough however.
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7 years ago
Ladies that have heavy accents and are not fluent in English are a turn off for me. I just don't want to put in the extra translation work, particularly if they aren't really hot.
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7 years ago
Yeah, JS69's list is spot on!
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7 years ago
Hi KB! I clubbed quite a bit in the Houston area over the past several months. My recommendation for you is St. James. They hire a wide diversity of beautiful women like yourself. Not sure where you play along the extras spectrum, but I've found St. James to be fairly tame. Good money making opp for dancers with decent custie skills. PM me for more details or other options.
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7 years ago
So not linking OTC to how I operate ITC is a rule.
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7 years ago
Like you and your ATF, my SB and I try to do overnights whenever possible. We consider that a rule. Another rule is no exchange of funds during OTC playtime, except for courtesy gas money or other low dollar need. We handle all funding through the electronically deposited monthly allowance. That's my rule.
Glad this OTC-related post popped up. Dealing with strippers who expect me to be their "regular" ITC if they are doing OTC with me. Rejecting that shit! I want to be able to spend time with whoever I want. I control my wallet dammit. Dropped one OTC chica over the issue. May have to drop another. I'm asserting how I want to operate in a no extras, no lap dance club. Lots of OTC opportunities, but the girls want to be treated "special" ITC. They run in clicks and are open to their friends sitting with them, but not girls outside their little click. They get ticked off if I invite someone outside their click to join my table. May have to work this club one dancer at a time, sitting with whoever I want. Interesting situation that doesn't happen, or happens less, at high mileage clubs. Girls in extras-friendly clubs get it that guys will have multiple high mileage relationships.
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7 years ago
Funny! I think you're right.
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7 years ago
ppwh -> "Better to save the flowers for when she has had a rough time, some accomplishment, etc, instead of to express that you would like to fuck her. She should already know that."
Well said!
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7 years ago
Naw, you're in like-minded company. LOL! My pervy eyes are always scanning gatherings for cleavage.
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7 years ago
Agree with PC and JS69, and those on here who espouse the "Just ask!" system. The romancer was outted as a whimp and played like a fiddle. Funny, fucking strippers is so easy it nearly makes picking up chicks in bars and dance clubs, or any civvie venue, obsolete.
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7 years ago
She really does it for me.
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7 years ago
Watched some of it, but I'm generally not into preseason football.
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7 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Pay double. Be generous. :-)
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7 years ago
Some dancers are hesitant to kiss because they are not sure whether a custie wants it, and they want to avoid rejection. I let dancers I like and want to smooch with know I enjoy kissing. Then I let them decide whether they're up for pecks, LFK or DFK.
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7 years ago
Prefer large natural with a wide tolerance for droopiness. I also enjoy soft augmented boobs that have a real boob feel, particularly around the nipple.
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7 years ago
Try the Amsterdam red light district. I had a good time at Bananen Bar and Club. See my reviews.
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7 years ago
If she's a liar, you'll be able to figure it out because she'll tell small lies about other things.
My money is on her being a truth-teller, at least at the moment. LOL!
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7 years ago
Hate to disagree, but IME the most successful dancers know that it's critical to watch the door in a club. I've found that the dancers that approach me first do so because I fit their personal type or guy preference. I know, I know, their type being just about any PL with money in his pocket. Once I start spending money, the girls who only care about the cash swoop in to play.
Side note, the very first dancer I ever met in a club was a true 10, a curvy Italian/ Native American mix, and I turned her down for a lap dance because I didn't know what that was. LOL! Found out shortly thereafter when other dancers educated me. Missed opportunity I'm sure!
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7 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
Most of the strippers I've met are "women of faith". While they may see some conflict between their sex worker job and their religion, they prioritize obtaining the financial benefits of the work to care for themselves and their families. No different than lots of folks in many fields of employment.
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7 years ago
^^ Nice!
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7 years ago
My most prolific provider of pics is my SB. Second best is a stunner who bit on the SD/SB line and agreed to OTC after just a 30 minute convo. No lap dances or bar side intimacy. Went on an overseas trip for a couple weeks. While I was traveling, she sent dozens of pics and videos, including masturbation videos. When the OTC finally happened, I felt like I knew her intimately. LOL!
As usual, without sufficient intimacy buildup the OTC was meh, and it was one and done. Sometimes I wish I'd kept things going just for the sexy media stream. :-)
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7 years ago
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Doces300You can run but you will only die tired
I enjoy the full spectrum of clubs. Met one of my favs at a dive in NJ and my ATF at an upscale NYC club. It's really all about the quality of the ladies and the kind of interaction possible.
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7 years ago
Most people don't realize it but some fat chicks are just as flexible as thinner babes. Imagine that mound of flesh spread eagle across a bed. Not my thing, but that's really yummy to some fellas. LOL!