Comments by HungryGiraffe (page 9)

lopaw and LW, thanks for the inspiration to give AMPs a whirl!

Strip clubs are just simply a great form of "entertainment". So, regardless of marital status, legal age, gender, sexual preference, race, ethnicity etc, strip clubs provide a great escape to a world of beauty, intimacy, fantasy and sometimes sexual release.

Older dancers are among my favs as well.

As mentioned in my earlier thread, I intend to make a hard shift in my OTC game from money-wasting high quantity to more satisfying high quality. In fact, as I go back to basics, I'm considering challenging myself to get to know dancers better ITC, not pay for OTC sex, and negotiate freebie sex. That would be an interesting and fun experiment. LOL!

I enjoyed the company of a gorgeous curvaceous Indian dancer in VIP during my very first strip club visit at Thee Dollhouse in North Myrtle Beach. It was near-GFE w/o FIV, and the connection was good enough that we had lunch the next day. Didn't realize I was scoring an OTC right out the chute. I hadn't discovered TUSCL yet. LOL!

Thanks Rick! Agree with using uptightness ITC as a key barometer.

BigTezzy, savvy question! The clubs I've recently frequented have fewer VIP options. But, even when VIP is available there are so many hot chicks willing to fuck for money OTC, I've just been jumping to OTC right away as if it's a game of keeping score. I'm really after quality, very satisfying relationships, not slam bam thank you mams. Looking back to my initial more satisfying OTC outings, they were freebies because I let the relationships and passion build. Haven't pulled off a freebie in quite a while during this recent slam bam run. As much as some poo poo non-sex OTC, I'm beginning to like the idea of a real date that naturally leads to sex because there's mutual chemistry. Kinda back to basics. LOL!

a275ironman -- nice!

What rh48hr said. In respecting dancers, particularly on busy weekend nights, I let them know right away whether I'll get dances. I tell them I'm waiting on someone or simply not getting dances at the moment.

In general, strip clubbing has made me a more open-minded person. I respect the full spectrum of sex workers. Like you I also gained a lot of confidence in interacting with women I meet for the first time. I'm more flirty and funny. However, I limit my mongering strictly to strippers, where I can maintain a firewall from the rest of my life.

It's a mix of both for me. But generally I plan visits, particularly when traveling.

I'm generally aligned with what Subraman said. I like FIV and I like to cut to the chase about whether fingering is desired. Given many dancers work during their monthly, I think it's important to ask before starting FIV. When I don't get a yes to FIV, I frequently get permission for FOV, clit rubbing or non-insertion. One of my favs directed me to finger her ass when her usual double finger FIV offering was temporarily off the menu. She even provided the lube. I'm still sooo in lust with that woman! LOL!

I've seen the pair routine a lot among younger and new dancers. Posted a discussion in May on the topic: https://www.tuscl.net/?page=post&id=49909 I broke up a pair once by insisting on separate VIP dances. It was quite interesting to discover which dancer offered the best mileage. Turns out it was the prettier one. I still think that PYT is one of the finest women I've ever seen in a club. A stunning light caramel 10. At the time she had a BF and wasn't available OTC. Of course my OTC game was nascent at that time. Would be fun to try again. LOL!

WetWilly, I agree it's not always financial. However, my general observation is that ladies most often pursue the "job" of dancer because they don't have anyone looking out for them financially. A young woman needs someone to "invest" in her, even covering for teen pregnancy or other early missteps. Lots of folks just don't have anyone stepping up like that for them. I'm just saying I'd be that guy for a female important to me. And for me it's not theory, I've done exactly that.

Solo, with exception of one golf buddy who I've clubbed with 4 times in 6 years.

If a female important to me had not finalized the decision to become a stripper I'd try to understand and fill the underlying financial gap. If it was a done deal, I'd be supportive and give advice when asked. If she wanted to exit the biz, I'd help financially.

Nice.

bubba267, agree about the "smell and taste yourself" tactic, and I've done that as well. This topic and others, particularly related to STDs, shows that us committed mongers really need to understand women's bodies, especially sexual anatomy and issues, better than most of the young women we'll encounter. As Big Daddies, and educators of young sex workers, we gotta know our shit. LOL!

Yeah kinda cool watching the transformation, including impact of makeup.

After reading this excellent WebMD article. I'm better prepared to address smelly vaginas. I might be more patient too. http://blogs.webmd.com/womens-health/2014/10/why-does-my-vagina-smell.html

Thanks ppwh! Just searched femdophilus and learned it addresses bacterial vaginosis (BV). Another product prescribed for BV is Metronidizole. Now I'll be able to suggest these along with food-grade peroxide as possible solutions. Like you, I've met some great chicks with this issue and want to be helpful.

I've done ITC DATY on a few occasions, and during every OTC session. Never had an OTC partner refuse it. I enjoy the intimacy of DATY, particularly when its reciprocated with a BBBJ. I like bubba267's comment about the finger sniff test. Sick and tired of funky pussies. Will start a thread about a recent experience.

If he wants to keep Melania, he will be a one term prez. This gig isn't a good fit for his fam -- and that's what he's all about.

There's tits, ass and pussy in the clubs. Guess they like naked chicks too.

The 1-10 rating scale clearly has limitations. Choosing company definitely isn't all about finding someone above an artificial threshold, based mostly on appearance. It's also about a mind, body, spiritual or heart connection.