Extremely Phat Women
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
Lately I have encountered at least a dozen guys who have a wife or long term gf who is extremely fat. I'm talking 300-500 lbs fat. Not just thick or chubby. Most of these guys were a normal size/weight, and a couple were small short men. And each of these guys seemed to genuinely love and be turned on sexually by their whale sized female.
I do not understand this. To me, these women seem to convey a universal sense of disgust, with huge mounds of flesh that keep moving long after they sit down and are still.
What I don't understand is how/why seemingly normal guys are so turned on by this. The only thing I can figure is that the tonage is usually accompanied by giant tits so maybe thats what they are into. But there are ways to get your hands on huge tits without all of the excess baggage. And I love tits but I don't see how you can focus on giant watermelons to the exclusion of her mounds and mounds of undulating flesh.
Is anybody here into this or know somebody who is? What's the attraction of obese women?
I do not understand this. To me, these women seem to convey a universal sense of disgust, with huge mounds of flesh that keep moving long after they sit down and are still.
What I don't understand is how/why seemingly normal guys are so turned on by this. The only thing I can figure is that the tonage is usually accompanied by giant tits so maybe thats what they are into. But there are ways to get your hands on huge tits without all of the excess baggage. And I love tits but I don't see how you can focus on giant watermelons to the exclusion of her mounds and mounds of undulating flesh.
Is anybody here into this or know somebody who is? What's the attraction of obese women?
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My guess is that in a lot of these cases, the attraction is sort of like the theories on stripper boyfriends. Either they can't really do any better or they want a woman who they think will be more malleable. The largest and overall least attractive one cheated on him, though.
I honestly think it's different strokes. Nothing more.
Let's keep in mind, not everybody is wealthy. In medieval times I guess larger women were viewed as more attractive, perhaps for the same reasons.
Remember people with lower income levels, and less education, tend to not make the connection between food and their health, until something dramatic happens. I get what you guys and gals are saying, but you need to realize many people don't understand these facts, and don't forget genetics play a major role in obesity.
The other guy, who drank himself out of college, told me that these fatties devote themselves to you, don't run around behind your back, don't get pursued, and don't nag you as much.
The veteran has mommy issues, since he was adopted by parents who went the tough love route. He has always been with fat girls, even when hotties were throwing themselves at him. He just likes wide hips, large breasts, and thick thighs. He's happily married for 21 years with three kids. More power to him, but I could never do it.
And remember:
* fat girls need love, too
* fat girls love to put things in their mouths!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z63fnMzK…
I kind of got the impression that he wanted to get with about every kind of woman, though.
I think anyone can get hit with this, but obviously enough, it happens most with guys who like super curvy "phat" women. That's what we skinny bitch lovers call "meat bombs". A girl who is super curvy but firm and tight and fit and 22, is going to be her own planet at 40, in most cases
What clearer message might a guy get than that?
for spinners!
Q) How do you fuck a fat woman ?
A) Roll her in flour and aim for the wet spot !
It can often also be a control thing - certain guys are control-freaks and they can often easily control these low self-esteem women that nobody else wants and these women seem to kinda resign themselves to nobody else wanting them thus they accept the PL as he is including him being controlling.
We're just a bunch of old perverts who convince ourselves that paying for sex, or just to ogle a pretty naked lady, is a better alternative to developing a relationship with a woman that we care about and who genuinely cares for us and not just our wallets.
And we rag on guys that have found that in a person who happens to be overweight. There is more to enjoying someone than drooling over their superficial, outward appearance.
Who am I kidding? I don't get it either.
Yea, I've never understood the attraction some guys have for these huge women. Again, not those that are heavy or thick, but morbidly obese. There was a girl like that when I was in college and it was much less common back then. Not only was she extremely heavy and sloppy looking, there was this one skinny guy always orbiting around her. And to top it off she was also, IMO, extremely ugly, just hideous looking in the face.
There must be something these guys are attracted to. And based upon my observations these women are getting more and more common every year. Me, I'll stick with tall and slim every day. Someone else can have the heavy weights.
I know some women are "normal size" when they marry and, after a few kids, lack of exercise and bad eating habits, they put on so many pounds they are virtually unrecognizable from the way they were. That is the case with some family members and friends' wives.
But in the case of "normal size" men being attracted to women who were extremely obese to begin with, I always wondered what's up with that. But if it makes them happy, then great. In the end, that's all that matters.
To me, phat is not at all attractive, ever.
Made lots of $$$ in club VIP providing extras to regulars in a Missouri club not known for dancers providing dependable extras.
Never partook, not attractive to me.
my ex morphed from very fit and cute at 28 to .... saying it politely.... by 60....
at my age of 61 when she wrongly accused me of seeing another woman...
FREEDOM!!! and at that point... since she accused me of seeing another woman...
why not???
But I can't imagine how miserable it would be to be with someone who just didn't care about her appearance, let herself go, had poor grooming habits, was lazy and mean and had nothing else going for her.