I pretty much align with Bubba's approach. I prefer the hotel but over time I might offer her the hotel fee if she'd be comfortable with me at her place.
I asked how dangerous OTC at her place is a while back. Here's a link. Not one single TUSCLer offered a personnel story that gives me pause. There were some what-if's and I-saw-on-tv's but no first hand accounts.
https://www.tuscl.net/?page=post&id=49896
If you have a great relationship with, go for it at her place. Sounds like you have a good relationship with her that could become great, I probably would try a hotel the first time and decide based on that.
'Compensation mode' is interesting; take money from an loser that doesn't manage his money well only to give it to an idiot that doesn't manage his money well.
Like newbie strippers, they don't know how to handle themselves in the VIP. They have a hard time saying no and setting limits. So. Ask her dance nude, then eat her pussy, make her cum, and tell her you want to see her after her shift.
It just might work.
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