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7 years ago
One thing we guys often don't consider is how competitive some women are with other women about their looks. I haven't watched more than five minutes of a 'Housewives of' show, but I can easily see those women doing it to maintain or improve their social status in a group of peers.
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7 years ago
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EveWhere there's a hole, there's a way. [HIATUS]
His intentions could have been totally harmless and innocent, but you have no way of knowing that. Politely break off the conversation and move on.
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7 years ago
I want my attention fixed on what I'm watching, not conjuring thoughts for a conversation.
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7 years ago
I had one tell me she would fuck or blow me, but wouldn't kiss because it's too personal. How fucked up is that?
I've had a few strippers who would kiss hello if we knew each other, but that's about it. Even so, I liked it.
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7 years ago
Call her and see where it goes, just don't fall ass over teacup for her. She's probably just trying to improve her business.
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7 years ago
I'd like to hear your impressions of younger versus older men.
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7 years ago
I had Papi's experience on Northwest Highway in Dallas pre-y2k with a couple of young things cruising.
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7 years ago
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Cashman1234He/Him - He’s a filthy pig. That’s him in VIP with another whore.
Even though I've played in rock bands for 50+ years, I don't like clubs with oppressively loud or poorly/overly equalized music. I prefer conversation with a dancer to be more intimate with music in the background.
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7 years ago
I encountered the same thing when I went there recently. Whether it's only a club rule, or some law, I don't know. One dancer made the pups available for a minute or two, then covered them up. Another dancer wouldn't take them out at all, stating that was the house rule.
If I ever go back there, if a dancer is trying to sell me a dance, I'd insist 'No tits, no dance'.
There is VIP there, but exactly what it offers, I didn't bother to find out.
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7 years ago
I enjoy it a lot. I first found the site back in the 90's when it was a free site, then it seemed to drop out of site for a while. I'm glad it's here - I like reading about the experiences of others, and it does add some perspective about what to look for and expect of the SC experience.
Before TUSCL was around, if I was travelling to a city, I would have to look in the yellow pages for night clubs, then try a few to see if I liked them. The reviews at least give me an idea which clubs to definitely avoid. I don't travel often any more, and I live 90 miles from the nearest SC, so I don't get to review often.
After reading here, I definitely would like to have larks in Detroit and Tijuana!
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7 years ago
If the dancer initiates the contact and doesn't repulse me, I take that as a sign that reciprocating is okay. With an established favorite, a little greeting contact seems to always be welcome, but I would never touch the privates.
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7 years ago
Put the relationship was in a different context, say in a restaurant or store, where she is there to wait on customers (including you). If you became a regular there, I'm sure her service would be tailored to what she knows of you and your preferences, but it's still a business relationship. When the transaction is done, she has other customers and you have other things to do.
Friendships may grow out of such relationships and last long after you are both out of the SC scene (well, maybe at least her), but that's chancy, and nobody should really expect it while business is being done.
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7 years ago
I wish him a speedy recovery. I know how bad hospital stays are - have one in my near future. Hang in there, dude.
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7 years ago
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Cashman1234He/Him - He’s a filthy pig. That’s him in VIP with another whore.
One bitch complained my hands were rough - any kind of complaining stops me. Another said I couldn't touch her when other dancers at the same club allowed it. Bad breath or other hygiene issues are deal stoppers, too. However, those kinds of things are generally infrequent.
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7 years ago
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Doces300You can run but you will only die tired
I gave a favorite a couple of tree ornaments. I also was browsing a disney store and saw "Woody" dolls. I bought one for her and told her that I was giving her a woody because she always gives me a woodie. Lame joke, but she liked it!
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7 years ago
With an HR job you really won't be involved in the manufacturing process. You will be in more of a supporting role. HR people are what I can revenue consumers. They don't produce products or contribute directly to a company's revenue stream. Non-producing jobs can be some of those first cut if hard times arise for a company. Of course, hardly any job is layoff-proof any more.
If you like working with people and would like handling hiring and benefits issues, it could be the right job for you. If you like, it, go for it!
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7 years ago
That depends on what you like to do. I realize it's hard to tell what a job in the field might be like when you are getting started. From my experiences, I'd say that HR people tend to be extroverts - people people if you will. Marketing and sales people are similar. The people most successful in those roles tend to be good looking and would be your competition for a job.
If you are more of an introvert, you might be more satisfied in an accounting or a similar technical field.
I hope this helps. Feel free to message me if you have any further questions.
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7 years ago
I've had them offer dances, then follow with "You know you want to." I replied with something like "Oh really? You just looked into my mind and found that?" It usually pisses them off and they move on.
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7 years ago
When you get older and your spouse/SO looks terrible and the box is like cardboard, you might get a different point of view.
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7 years ago
"You're a smooth talker! How long will you be in town?"
"You got nice one, honey!"
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7 years ago
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whodeyFat bastard that can afford to fuck hot strippers
Hopefully he just has a friend who is handy with a sharpie.
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7 years ago
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Cashman1234He/Him - He’s a filthy pig. That’s him in VIP with another whore.
I'm curious as to what females call it, except "down there."
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7 years ago
Sex is a powerful urge and the intimacy it creates keeps some couples together for a lifetime. Some people can handle casual sex casually, some can't. Those who can't do some pretty crazy stuff.
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7 years ago
Often things are not what they seem to be. While I think the 'Make it Rain' activity is stupid, the guy is playing a game and the girl was playing right back. I wouldn't take it too seriously.
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7 years ago
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CJKent (Banned)“The more a person needs to be right, the less certain he is...”
I don't know if I would use the word aggressive, but some posters do seem the have the personality of a hard crab. Point a finger too close to one and you'll know what I mean. I kinda see this as locker room talk where a guy can say anything he wants and not get his lights punched out. I enjoy the comments for the most part, and ignore the stupid ones.