Would you ever consider going to the strip club while you're in a dating relatio
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Me having a girlfriend is pretty much why I have not been on this website for a while. I am getting tired of her being so clingy, but I like her a lot. So I'm thinking of going to the club to see different women just to play with different woman. But do you think that is wrong since I do like her a lot but we are not married?
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My attitude is if I'm hundreds or thousands of miles away and she doesn't know about it, then what's it matter. Particularly since it's not emotional.
If you end up dating this girl in the long term - this could become more of an issue, as over the long term - it’s more likely that you will club.
If she’s not ok now - she most likely won’t be ok in the future. I’d not recommend trying to secretly club in a long term committed relationship.
Now that I'm older, I go to the club regardless of whether I'm dating someone. If I'm not dating someone, well, not interested in going to a dance club, so might as well see a stripper. And if I AM dating someone, well that someone is going to be 40+ years old, and touch a 22-year-old hottie is a whole 'nother experience
I haven't been in a relationship since I started SCing, but I was in relationships while I was still into dance clubs. Still went out to those. Between me being older and the difference between dance clubs and SCs, though, I doubt I'd feel the same way about continuing to SC if I found someone.
The reason I go to the club is bc I'm not in a relationship and I enjoy looking at naked women.
I would not ask about going to the club. This early in a relationship, asking about strip clubs will send warning bells to the girl that she's not good enough. That's a hassle you don't need. You need to foster a situation where strip clubs can come up in the conversation organically. She'll then give you an idea of her feelings about it and you'll know how to proceed.
Yes, I believe I would.
Actually, my latest SB likes going to the strip club with me, so maybe that doesn't count. Or, does it count double?
Do what you gotta do before you wish you would've done it.
Personally, I go to strip clubs because I like beautiful women, particularly those that take their clothes off in my presence. I often choose to go to a SC instead of a dance club or bar because I don't really enjoy dancing, I don't drink a lot, I'm a shy person, and my standards are high. I go to strip clubs because I've touched more naked women in strip clubs than I have anywhere else.