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13 years ago
There is no danger here. Troop has it right.
The key words in that phrase she uttered was "the 28 year old you". She was probably telling the truth when she said all of that. But unless you are the 28 year old you, I think it will be business as usual.
As a side note, everytime I hear someone say "stripper shit", I giggle and think, you mean "woman shit".
While I can't speak for all women, I think a real good percentage of non strippers also rely on the use of "stripper shit" to get what they want.
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13 years ago
To answer your concerns, I wouldn't feel uncomfortable when girls go up on stage that aren't your type. Dancers understand that they are not going to be everyone's type. If you tip because you appreciate that they are working, then great, you are an ideal customer I'm sure. This doesn't mean your required to buy a dance from all of them. Just say " no thank you, I appreciate you coming over though".
If the dancers seem upset that you aren't buying dances and you said what I told you to say above, then oh well, too bad for them. Rejection is part of the game and you are not required to like or buy from all the dancers.
Enjoy your time at the club. Spend your money on the girl of your choice. Leave happy. Try not to let the girls get to you too much. You are there to have fun.
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13 years ago
Ok that was funny.
Gatorfan is on a roll. First with this, then with the penis comment.
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13 years ago
Everytime I look at it, I see a penis.
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13 years ago
Pippa is pretty. If I were a man I would be into her. Plus the accent is big. I like British accents.
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13 years ago
I worked with a girl named Vito and another named Nasty.
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13 years ago
I think you're okay.
Even if you did have a lot to lose, you could still bring a dancer to a important party. There are those that have normal lives and are decent, non-drama people that would jump at the opportunity for a business only relationship and some extra cash.
Not every dancer you let into your personal life will take advantage of you. I think you are smart and I think your instincts will be the best indicator on whether this particular girl will cause you problems.
As an example, I have a couple customers that I've had for a awhile who have invited me to parties at their place, to restaraunts with their friends or work buddies, even their family (mom/dad, not wife...well except on one occasion). It all comes down to boundaries. If you have the right girl, you won't even need to utter a word. She'll already know her boundaries.
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13 years ago
No you're not shallow. I couldn't deal with that either.
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13 years ago
@georgmicrodong: I agree with you.
If I don't honor an agreement, customers won't come back, so I always honor the agreement.
Some customers don't honor their end of the agreement. Usually, though, there's an amicable way to settle the discrepancy.
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13 years ago
@kimi: I understand what you mean. I still negotiate beforehand with VIP. By that I mean before the VIP begins or right after your lap dance. You set the pace. You shouldn't feel rushed to agree to the dancers terms. If you have paid her for the lapdances and she has possible guaranteed money from you for a VIP/ champagne room, I don't see why you guys can't sit there for two minutes and figure it out.
I know dancers can be pushy and rushed at times. While you guys are negotiating, why don't you offer her a nice back or foot massage.
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13 years ago
I ALWAYS,let me say it again, ALWAYS set terms and prices before a dance. I do it in a very fun, playful way. I don't drop the hammer on anyone. But I tell a customer right away of any rules. We then set a price and stick to it. Most.customers can enjoy the dance more if they know what to expect and that I won't pull any weird shit with them after we're done. Stripping is a business. For me, its more about bringing customers back to me instead of running a big game and trying to get as much as I can out of someone in a single VIP.
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13 years ago
It depends. Some girls work well high, some do not. I've never been high (yes that is the truth and proud of it) but I've seen girls who are. A little pot, they still give decent dances and stage shows. Heroin, and you have passed out on dressing room floor and a major problem.
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13 years ago
Don't flash your money. I always make a point to avoid those that do.
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13 years ago
I'm not quite sure why the 2nd Amendment was brought up in this particular story. Criminals would have, carry, and use guns whether we have a 2nd Amendment or not. I'm not a genius but I can figure that out.
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13 years ago
Go back to the club and ask her.
If you didn't spend a lot of money on her when you were there, she may not take you seriously and you will get excuses. However, if she likes you, feels comfortable with both of you, and there is something very lucrative in it for her, she may say yes.
You might all want to meet for drinks to "break the ice" right before your session. It will make things easier for all of you.
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13 years ago
Working on it
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13 years ago
I don't like to grind. I only do it on request. I have one customer, a bigger guy, that bounces me like a jackhammer on his crotch. And he likes to do this while I'm facing away from him. It's actually hard to stay on his lap, I have to grab walls, the table, anything to stay on. I don't get it.
Aside from that one, if I'm worried about hurting someone, I always ask, "Am I hurting you?"
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13 years ago
Well I like it when dancers post here. :)
Regarding posting pics as minnow said, I tried to post two pics. I went to my account, then photos, then upload. After a few seconds a " photo file invalid" message came up.They are regular pics from a Canon powershot and I have successfully uploaded several other pics off of it to websites before (facebook). So I'm trying to make it work.
If anyone else has had this problem, pm me so I don't feel like an idiot
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13 years ago
A large space, plenty of mirrors, tables, and large lockers. And when you think you have enough, add a few more..
A separate bathroom area for dancers only.
And of course, an lcd screen and speakers so we can keep track if the action on the floor.
I could add a couple more things but they.aren't necessary. I prefer to stay out of the dressing room. It is nice, though, to get dressed, undressed, and cleaned up in a nice large space.
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13 years ago
@bodaniels: I agree. :)..I took a couple of my boobs (hehe) after I posted my last comment. Now I just have to upload them on my computer.
I'm still not convinced this picture thing is a good idea.
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13 years ago
I have had many similar experiences like this with men. Totally not my type. Not even attractive really, but there's just something about them.
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13 years ago
I've been seriously thinking about it. Maybe ill surprise you guys in the next couple of weeks.
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13 years ago
*spending*
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13 years ago
I spend about fifteen minutes per shift In the dressing room. That is to get dressed. Other than that I stay out of there. I have no idea what goes on in the minds of those always down# their time in the dressing room, bathroom, or out smoking. I'm guessing its what bodaniels mentioned
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13 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
I agree with ohioman