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13 years ago
I've actually never been in a dance count discrepancy before. I have, however, had customers that just don't have the money, as in they have maxed out all their credit cards.
I had one customer who racked up $970 dollars on lap dances. He had mostly cash, which I collected every 10 dances since I had never seen him before. He did need to use his card at the end and it was maxed out. He was $70 short. I just said no problem and.told him not to worry about it. If someone is spending $1000, I could care less about $70 plus id like him to come back.
I have one regular that spends 1000 a week over the course of three visits. He's got a serious club addiction. One of the worst I've seen.He will many times not have the money one day so I give him up to five dances and he comes back in a couple days when he gets paid and gives me the money then.
Many long term customers will also write me personal checks. I did take a personal check from a vacationer once. It was $60 bucks and I just figured what the hell.
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13 years ago
Just tell her what you really want. If she can do it, can't do it, doesn't want to do it, wants more money to do it etc, she will let you know.
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13 years ago
My first thought is that the manager called her back there to sober up. It's no use talking to a wasted person, so I've seen many managers make girls sober up in the office, then talk to them after.
Waitresses are buffers. It's her job to come out and tell you she'll be right out. It's possible she sobered up and was too embarrassed to show her face again for the night.
As for getting fired, its possible, but I would think if she were fired, that it wasn't her first indiscretion. Strip club managers usually like their girls and want them to do well. They also understand the business. They would probably give her a warning. Now if this is her third warning, though, she could have been fired.
Don't call her anymore. Wait for her to call you. Dancers know how to get in touch with customers. She will come.around.
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13 years ago
Shit, that means I have competition.
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13 years ago
Ive got to be honest, I don't care if someone calls me a whore. I do get offended at some things but the whole "whore" "prostitute" etc words don't do a thing for me.
There are going to be customers out there that think all dancers are whores, whether they perform sex acts or not. I can't change that, its just the way it is.
It seems like the girls that get offended by "whore" are the ones that have a some type of inner turmoil going on related to the job. If you can't go home and sleep well at night after work, as bad as it sounds, you may need to practice some disconnection skills (as effed up as that sounds). Strip clubs are fantasy. If you're a whore, fine, if your not, that's fine to. Leave it at the door.
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13 years ago
Exactly. Gripes that every dancer has at one time or another. The whole "she needs to hang it up thing", though, is ridiculous. It just is.
Unfortunately, by the time I'm able to post again, this thread will probably be old news as I am heading out of town. I had a fun time with this thread though.
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13 years ago
I'll still disagree. No amount of explanation or reasoning by me will make my point completely understandable. We just can't completely step in eachother's shoes, customer and dancer. So despite what a male customer says, I'm right. And I think an article like the one above shares the feelings that all dancers, new and old, have had. Whether they should hang it up, or not
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13 years ago
Well I don't agree. I think its horrible
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13 years ago
Oh come on rickdugan, give me a break. I mean reeeaalllyy. Geeezzz. I'm speechless. A rarity for me.
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13 years ago
I think this is meant to be plug for wetpussy80, who probably is Lexi
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13 years ago
A Strippers Rants are the best.
#1- happens all the time.
#2- I have a customer that always wears nylon shorts with no underwear. He's really sweet though, plus he comes into the club 3x a week, same time, and only buys from me. Under those circumstances I'll gladly deal with the "peaking weanie" thank you.
#6- all the time.
#13- I have worked in a club with a smelly VIP. Guys would light up cigarettes, take a few drags, and wave it around. I didn't have the heart to freak out. The smell would kill anyone's mood.
#16- Cut your tampon strings and stuff the remainder as far up as possible. Getting the string caught on a zipper isn't cool. I've never seen a customer run for the door so fast.
And last but not least #31. And forget the pole, how about a guys crotch. When I get on my knees( yes I do and no I don't give BJ's), I don't want to smell the bad hygiene of the dancer before me.
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13 years ago
I liked this article. I found the comments under the article by various women even more interesting.
A lot of dancers feel the way the author does, they just don't write about it or tell you about it because its not conducive to good customer relations.
I don't think this was an attack on all customers. For example, I have felt the way the author does on more than one occasion and I love men. I like my customers. I appreciate that they are in the club just like I'm sure they appreciate the fact that I'm dancing.
A dancers experiences aren't all peachy, though, and I think the author touched on some annoyances that dancers encounter with a given few.
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13 years ago
He was a DJ. You wouldn't have wanted to see him naked. He was a little doughboy.
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13 years ago
Yes it was a nude club. She was working there before him. When he first started, he would go on a smoke break when she was up on stage. After a few weeks he didn't bother anymore.
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13 years ago
I worked at a club a year ago where a sister and brother worked together. Weird.
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13 years ago
Also to touch on some above posts, not all prostitution in Seattle is a felony. Most of the time its a misdemeanor, still on your record though. Also, yes, in most normal places prostitution requires a sex act to take place, OR, a sex act to be negotiated.
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13 years ago
In the greater Seattle area, you do not have to have sex or participate in a sex act for prostitution to occur. Seattle laws make practically everything prostitution.
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13 years ago
Harry is way more attractive than William.
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13 years ago
1. You will not know whether she is clean. It's just a risk you take having sexual relations with anyone you don't know (and some you do). You can be.safe by using condoms. That's probably all you can do.
2. Yes, she expects to be payed.
3. If boundaries are set it can go smoothly. Agree on a price beforehand. Tell her what you expect to get from the experience. Tell her how far she can go with your boyfriend and also with you.Go down to the hotel bar and have your boyfriend buy you all a round of drinks beforehand. Keep an open mind.
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13 years ago
Talents West was a great company to work for. My favorite actually. It hurt to see them go.
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13 years ago
Considering the thread, I should probably add that I truly mean it too
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13 years ago
Men who aren't afraid to be softies are hot!!
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13 years ago
Well ill get at least one new pic up this week
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13 years ago
@vincemichaels- thank you.
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13 years ago
@runrdude- on the topic of "ss" or "woman shit",as I commented on above, I think its a lot more harmless in the club. IRL though, depending on how its used and the users intentions, it can cause problems.