SammyGold

I like the club atmosphere, and the extras in the back if they're available. But I agree that it's not as cost effective as a provider. I don't do BP but there's always plenty of options on Eccie. I also don't live far from Niagara Falls, so a hop across now and then livens things up. Most recently, I was in Niagara to warm myself up at the Sundowner. Afterward I had the brilliant but not original idea to call an agency and ask for a girl who could include a fantasy lap dance during our time together. It worked out great - best of both worlds! She wore her club clothes, helped me find tunes on my laptop, and we went to town on the loveseat in my hotel room. It started off just like in the club, but then kept going and going. At some point it was clear that we had moved way beyond a dance and took the act into the bedroom. It was great not worrying about counting songs or wondering what was on the menu. In the other direction, it was also better than the standard hop-right-into-bed escort experience. I felt like I had time to enjoy the view and get an extended tease time before the main event.

Your penance is to write 100 times - "It's about the money, stupid." If you want a free hookup or to make a connection, go to a singles bar. Your chances of scoring with the tactics that you're using are WAY better.

looneylarry hit it on the head. I'm also in a near-sexless marriage (months at a time). I've talked, massaged, seduced, been open about my needs, told her about my clubbing and invited her along, been to counselling, got a new job to be able to spend more time at home, offered to make it just a "business" marriage if that's what she wants. Fuck it. At this point I'm still here just because of the kids. I haven't cheated other than a one-time trip to an AMP. We're good friends and work well together as parents - we're just not fuck buddies anymore and I don't think I'm interested anymore either. I know for sure that I'd be gone if I didn't think it would screw up my kids and also me since I'd miss being around them so much. Damn - this is a heavy thread for tuscl.

I came across a new one that I like called AppleJack. It only comes in pint size and slips in the pocket. I think it's a bourbon - says something about stemming from colonial days. But it's a nice sipping whiskey that is smooth and tasty warm or cold and is something a little different.

I'm sure that non-lubed work best for strippers. I imagine that the lube tastes like crap.