July 1 - Canada Day Barbecue For Partners, Employees, Suppliers, And............
farmerart
I am coming out of the bush tomorrow and putting on a barbecue at my farm for my partners, employees, and selected suppliers. It will be the world's best steaks (from my brother's cattle operation), veggies and fruit from local growers, and excellent wine and booze from the Rancho farmerart cellars. There will be a big fireworks blow-off after dark on Canada Day. I have also invited one of my Alberta OTC sweeties.
This will be only the second time I have ever had a dancer at my place. First time kind of fizzled. I know this girl better than the first one and I am pretty sure she can deal with the crowd I will be entertaining this weekend. I have been working hard for seven weeks and I am really 'twitchy', looking forward to this girl's services.
Am I playing with fire by having this girl at my place during this weekend bash with a big crowd (over 60) around?
This will be only the second time I have ever had a dancer at my place. First time kind of fizzled. I know this girl better than the first one and I am pretty sure she can deal with the crowd I will be entertaining this weekend. I have been working hard for seven weeks and I am really 'twitchy', looking forward to this girl's services.
Am I playing with fire by having this girl at my place during this weekend bash with a big crowd (over 60) around?
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Think about this, though, do you care if anybody there cottons to the fact that she's a hooker, and you're her john? If not, go for it.
You are right. She is that girl. In the end I did not give her a character reference. I did smooth the way to a summer job for her with an oil service company however, so it amounted to the same thing in the end. She seems to be doing well in her summer job.
Even if you did have a lot to lose, you could still bring a dancer to a important party. There are those that have normal lives and are decent, non-drama people that would jump at the opportunity for a business only relationship and some extra cash.
Not every dancer you let into your personal life will take advantage of you. I think you are smart and I think your instincts will be the best indicator on whether this particular girl will cause you problems.
As an example, I have a couple customers that I've had for a awhile who have invited me to parties at their place, to restaraunts with their friends or work buddies, even their family (mom/dad, not wife...well except on one occasion). It all comes down to boundaries. If you have the right girl, you won't even need to utter a word. She'll already know her boundaries.
Just don't go all Hefner on us, and start introducing her to your guests as the future "Mrs. Art" and you should be fine. . .sheesh!
The party itself was a big success. Scored some points with my partners and employees. Did two favourable deals with suppliers - which was the main reason for the shindig in the first place.
Oh, the sex with the sweetie? Well.......................
Hope you guys have a similar blast on your 4th.