Comments by bumrubber (page 4)

harrydave - +1 Prim0 - definitely something to that but a lot of regular women have that kind of confidence too.

Non-strippers I've dated have been as good or better looking than the strippers so it's not an issue. Not bragging just stating how it is. The world is full of pretty girls with great bodies. I've found too that the driven or corporate types are the best, because they're the most comfortable with themselves. I dated one stripper who was that way too but it was never as good as with a serious girlfriend because the passion was lacking. Best was a serious girlfriend who had a modest job but very well adjusted and a MILF. Ditto on recent divorcees, starved for both affection and sex that they're used to getting every day, but haven't been for awhile.

I had a VIP turn into a major GFE makeout session with me caressing her whole body which she really seemed to like. She took my hand and put it inside her double bikini bottoms and guided me to exactly where and how she wanted to be touched. A few minutes of this and she came like a freight train. I felt the contractions. It just sorta happened and I don't think I'd do it again. I don't think I'd do the makeout thing either but she was a great kisser too!

A lot of these women are so beautiful because they are thin from literally not having enough to eat for much of their lives. No joke. I have a Russian stripper buddy who's told me a lot about these girls and where they come from. A friend is from an ethnic/religious Russian community. In his 30s he took a trip to the old country to check it out and possibly find a wife through semi-arranged marriage. He had always dated beautiful girls but said he couldn't believe how beautiful they were over there.

I've never seen a male waiter, only bartenders. And all of them were assholes, while only about half the women bartenders are.

So many strippers have that "little girl voice." What's up with that?

I don't bring any money that I can't afford to lose... I mean spend. Seriously, I've kissed it goodbye beforehand. Aside from that, being around certain kinds of people, away from the safety of others, is asking for trouble. It's only a matter of time, if you're meeting up with strippers/hookers, partying with druggies, doing all-night bar crawls with people you don't know, etc.

I agree with georgemicro, don't be doing anything you're not totally comfortable with. It's way too easy to get addicted to this so be careful. It can wind up costing a ridiculous amount of money, and there can be other big time costs too. With every girlfriend except the current one I'd be so in trouble if they found out I went to a SC. It's OK with the current one because she's a stripper. It probably puts her more at ease about her own lifestyle. But this is not normal! Even if your girlfriend says she's OK with it, she probably would rather you didn't go. Not to mention the money you might be spending.

If it was $6 for an ATM fee in a SC you got off easy. Many are $10 or more. Still others are there to harvest your card information. Clubs are owned by shady people, and they have friends who are even shadier. You might not get cleaned out this week or this month, but maybe long after you've forgotten about having used that machine. Often they'll wait 'til payday. Never use an ATM that's not installed in a wall, preferably on bank property. Go to a supermarket or Wal-Mart, buy some gum or something, and get cash back. There's always a Wal-Mart near SCs!

I went to Catholic school. So I like plaid skirts. GF and I went to Disneyland last weekend, she wearing a plaid skirt w/ knee socks. Overall the look was preppy and conservative, but damn sexy.

I like strip clubs because I get to see, and feel, fit female bodies. I'm pretty fit myself so I go for the same. Fat is a turnoff which in the USA is a big problem, as 2/3 of Americans are overweight or obese. Yuck! I have much better luck in Canada where women are THINNER, more of them are FIT, and they're a lot friendlier. That said, fit women are still not too rare, even at my age (mid 40s), especially among professionals who do competitive sports and have their shit together. FWIW, Kim Kardashian is way too fat for me. Marisa Miller looks great, bordering on TOO skinny, but fit like that is hot. This preference goes back to teenage years, where nothing turned me on like the lean athletic girls who still had curves from nice musculature. Girls that other guys liked because they had big boobs and butts were all over me and I didn't care, while I'd go nuts trying to hit on the track team and the dancers in the drama dept. I've been with a couple of hot fatties (fat by my standards anyway) but in general I haven't enjoyed softer flesh as much.

Late afternoon or early evening, usually waiting for traffic to clear after seeing a client or something. I can sit in my car or be bored, or sit in a SC with a nice ass in my lap. I sometimes get to see the afternoon girls before they leave, and the evening girls as they arrive. The evening girls are usually fresher and friendlier than later on in their shift.

More about neighbor strippergirl: I could hear all the conversation from over there, clear as a bell. One of her male roommates broke his leg and was home from work for a few weeks. I heard him saying suggestive things to her, whining about having broken up with his girlfriend, playing to her sweet, dumb, needy side, gradually wearing her down into giving him sexual favors. One day there was talking and talking and then silence. Then I heard, "You have to tell me when you're going to cum!" ...and, "OK just this once but don't be expecting that every day." Naturally it became a daily occurrance. When he got his cast off he would come home for lunch and they would fuck loudly for half an hour, he would shower off quickly then go back to work. I don't know if the other guy roommate ever knew.

There are a few in my neighborhood now, but they're quiet and normal and blend in with all the trophy wives and their boobs. I used to live next door to one who had a lifestyle like the above. Two male roommates, all of them up all night talking and smoking and watching movies and playing video games. Strippergirl would talk on the phone all afternoon, usually whining about how great everything was when she was still with whatshisname.

I drive less than 5k miles a year now, so no, it doesn't affect me.

I find the stage shows unremarkable to stupid here in southern CA. But I love being around beautiful, naked or almost naked women, and interacting with them. And in a SC I can grab and feel some of that flesh.

$3.85 for Arco (usually the cheapest) regular in SoCal. Our economy will finally improve when gas gets expensive enough that people will quit driving away their wealth, and choose a better way to live.

I have it on good authority that if you tried to go in there, you'd get a 6" stiletto heel through your skull.

In SoCal it seems customers expect it so girls do their best to deliver - as much as they can get away with. If you're new (to them) they'll hit you with their best shot to try to hook you as a customer. I have an ongoing bet with a dancer that she can't make me cum. She has a great ass and is really good with it. So I get rock hard, which she takes as a challenge. She's gotten me close but so far I've managed to save it for the GF.

Here's <a href="http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=149557">what the girls think</a>.

South Carolina indeed. You can't get away from it there, even outdoors. People empty their ashtrays at traffic lights, so there are big piles of butts on the ground at every intersection. The whole state looks and smells like an ashtray!

SoCal clubs generally don't allow it. Probably paranoid about cameras. And trading numbers for OTC. I'm afraid of it falling out of my pocket or getting pickpocketed for it, and winding up with $1000 in calls on my bill.

<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VLnWf1sQkjY">Jizz in My Pants</a> - The Lonely Island

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I thought Masters in Myrtle Beach had a male show in a separate room on Saturday nights.