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19 years ago
Chinese proverb says to davids: Strippers may be smarter than you think.
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19 years ago
I'm not trying to judge anyone. However when I see lots of negativity I tend to respond likewise if I type before thinking about it. I haven't really studied strippers either so maybe I'm just lucky most of the time and usually only encounter the nice strippers. Of course it's possible most strippers are just nice to me and not everyone else.
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19 years ago
This particular girl didn't look that bad. She wasn't overweight and actually looked decent. I wasn't interested in a dance and told her right away. She was a bit surprised because she said she was just going to sit and talk before her night ended. I think the reaction she was getting was due to several other dancers aggressively hunting down guys trying to get a dance when almost no one wanted one. One particular dancer that made a beeline for me shortly before she came over was a bit rude too. She pushed a chair out of her way right into the knees of someone sitting close to me and then just asked me for a dance. I was drinking ice water and when I said no, she pushed my head back in a slight disgust. Lol, I think I must have accidently got some water on her when I said no thanks. I was drinking ice water and had a mouth full of ice cubes. I thought that she was rude but if I accidently got water in her face, she deserved it.
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19 years ago
hehe, I was wondering if you would say that. Most of the strippers I meet don't have a computer so email would definitely be out of the question. I have met a few strippers who were into computers. One even had a free web cam and another had her own web site. Of course that doesn't impress me as much as someone's kid who looks only like 4 or 5 years old designing her own web site.
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19 years ago
hmmm, I hear RL talking about asking strippers out and davids is asking for strippers phone numbers. I thought strip clubs were just for fun entertainment, not a dating service.
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19 years ago
I actually looked at some Libertarians and their positions during the last election I believe. Maybe I'm too mainstream or some of their views are too far out there for me. I will be keeping an eye out though. I agree we need less government, not more. I don't really like taxing all the middle class to death to pay for a big government. I feel more threatened by our government than from most people. I have yet to see someone rob someone at gunpoint but I see police pulling people off the road all the time and taking money (via tickets) and threatening them with court orders etc. if they don't comply. I see the IRS requiring everyone to pay up or else off to jail they go. I keep hearing of this new law and that new law you have to follow now. It seems to be a never ending story.
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19 years ago
Did Yoda threaten davids? I don't believe davids for one minute but I guess he wants to disappear for a bit. hmmm, laying low while the heat dies down, maybe that's it. I guess the force is powerful with Yoda. I have yet to study the Jedi ways myself, lol.
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19 years ago
So RL, did you find a guy somewhere in this big country of ours that is actually manipulating a stripper? You know it takes two to be plural. Why don't you just post what you observed instead of making this guy or two guys seem like the world?
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19 years ago
So RL, do you tell strippers before or after they ask for a dance that you may have been in PRISON and have a record? Do you think it is immoral to not state this before you get a dance?
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19 years ago
Maybe it is an age thing but I find the opposite. I find very often when I go to a new club the dancers often come at me fast and furious. The same thing happens in a club where a lot of new dancers are working at times. What can get even more annoying is when you move around and sit in a different place, some of the same dancers try again and again as if they don't realize they just asked you 15 minutes ago. I do like getting attention at the stage though.
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19 years ago
In case someone doesn't know what I'm referring to, the post above was my response to what FONDL stated that dancers are often aloof to a new face. That hasn't been my experience.
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19 years ago
I guess davids is all screwed up. He can't make up his mind one way or the other.
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19 years ago
I think the real sad day was when the city of Detroit elected women to run the city. It's all downhill from there.
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19 years ago
Did someone say casualguy? For the record, I am not a LEO.
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19 years ago
I enjoy tipping girls in the nude a dollar. However I rarely want to pay extra just to see them dance nude especially if those dances are all air. As far as looks go, I prefer to be able to see something besides hair down there so shaved is good for me. Most girls in the strip clubs I see are that way. I think I would feel uncomfortable getting dances in a nude club where the girls rubbed themselves all over you. Seems like I remember a place like that years ago but my memory is fuzzy.
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19 years ago
Glad you had fun and that I might have helped. It's fun to see other people having fun when I go to a strip club. It enhances the party atmosphere for everyone else I believe.
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19 years ago
No. However I am now wondering what is the definition of a serious relationship with a stripper?
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19 years ago
I don't usually try to get to know a stripper so about the only thing that matters to me about personality is are they nice and can I trust them enough that they won't try to rip me off if I get a dance. If they are obviously putting on an act to be nice, that's a turnoff. Of course some strippers don't even bother to act nice after you turn them down for a dance. Obviously they won't get any dances from me for as long as I remember them which might be a few days to a few weeks. Every once in a while I might be interested in chatting so if their personality is compatible with me, that is good.
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19 years ago
There may be a customer out there who does not want to spend time with a stripper OTC. He may simply want to get some dances and leave it at that. Of course if a girl is persistent enough, a guy may agree to see her. I guess some people (RL?)keep wanting or thinking about something they can't seem to get. If a guy is already confident he can get what he wants, he doesn't ask unless he really wants it.
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19 years ago
I'm not going to change my mind either. I know some strippers are bad apples and will scam or steal money hoping to never get caught or have to pay for it. I successfully got one stripper fired for picking my pocket. I even got my money back from the manager. Apparently management was already getting red flags from a mysterious loss of business and customers who she already had encounters with. I got invited to the manager's office and confirmed her identity after they did an investigation. Many people might not think the management of a strip club would listen to customers but they do listen if it's affecting their business.
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19 years ago
I sometimes will tell dancers I'm not interested in a dance but if they want to sit with me anyway, they can. A few dancers have done so and talked for a good 20 to 30 minutes before leaving. A few of those dancers apparently will have some difficulty deciding when to leave. I found a lot will leave after you leave for a few minutes to go tip another dancer on the stage. I usually tell them I'm going to go tip her etc. Of course if she wants to go with you, you're not going to get rid of her so easily. I usually only do this with the better looking dancers. The ones I don't care for that much I will just say no thanks, maybe later, not right now, or I'm waiting on someone. The really stubborn dancers on occasion have dragged me and my chair over 50 feet across the room, grabbed my arms and physically pulled me a good distance towards the lap dance room, and refused to leave my table. I had one dancer even willing to argue with me for at least 15 minutes why I should get a dance from her when I kept telling her no. I had another dancer keep saying she was willing to negotiate with me to dance for me and she even invited me to her house just to get a dance. That was odd. I got a suspicion that she wanted more than a dance but she definitely was not my type.
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19 years ago
Speaking about the #1 or #2 favorites reminded me of a national bikini contest I saw tonight. I definitely had a favorite who I thought should win the contest and then a number 2 for runner up. I noticed the girl I picked for number 2 was giving me rather prolonged looks as she was walking by in her bikini every time she walked by. The other two girls did not. Makes me wonder if she did the same thing to the judges because to my surprise she won the contest. First time I ever got the contest winner wrong. I suppose there may be more than looks involved in winning a Hawaiian Tropic contest semi-final or in becoming a #1 favorite.
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19 years ago
I like to see several pretty girls getting naked. A strip club seems like an excellent place for it. I rarely go just to see one girl but if one or two girls give much better dances or better stage tipping than all the others, it makes the visit more enjoyable. I often like to visit more than one club in a night so that I can check out even more girls. Some of the clubs I visit, you can see almost all of the dancers within just an hour or two.
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19 years ago
I think I have actually confused some dancers. Drinking a few beers usually gives me a big energy boost and I will walk around and go tip any girl I feel like even though I don't want to get dances. I'm just watching them up close. I thought about that after I went up to tip one girl on the main stage twice and then she came over to me afterwards and then told her I wasn't interested in a dance after she asked. Maybe I got in a habit of shifting chairs years ago because when I'm new to a club or lots of girls don't know I don't usually get that many dances, I get approached and asked constantly for dances. There are times when I wish I could just sit and watch the girls without dealing with someone asking me questions every 3 minutes. The first 10 or 15 girls seem flattering but after that it's gets old fast. hmmm, maybe if I sat like a lump on a log, I could avoid attention. Oh well, I actually get some entertainment watching some dancers hunt for me because I changed chairs again,lol.
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19 years ago
Oh by the way, I'm perfectly ok with all of the guys who just sit there. It means less competition if I want to go tip a girl of my choosing when I see someone I like. Of course I may not be a typical strip club visitor in a strip club. I often change chairs or tables every 5 to 15 minutes unless someone is tying me up or I'm sleepy.