OKAY< since I'm a girl..boys listen..my husband went to bachelor party a few weeks ago..Dinner, then 2 strip clubs ..the first was totally nude...when he came home we joked about the amount of lap dances everyone had, including himself!! He told me what happened and I don't think I've ever been SO TURNED ON, and we've been married over 17 years.. He told me how the girls got so close to his face ..we talked about the piercings he saw, een what he smelled, I thought that might be a stretch, though.(yes boys..UP CLOSE & PERSONAL) , but it was all air..This place was in a Chicago Suburb, Diamonds, in West Chicago..Anyway, We've ahad sex at least 3 TIMES A DAY for the last 2 weeks, I've run out of sexy new garter belts and see-thru bikins..I'm going to have to go shopping. I signed on here to get information as to how to approach the couples thing..don't quite know what to expect. But, back to the THRUST of the topic..if your lady doesn't like it, try to find out why.. (it may not just be the typical jealousy thing..she may be uncomfortable with her looks, body legs. boobs, age, whatever.) If you know someone's wife or whatever who does like the idea, maybe a good open minded talk can help..a great sex life with your partner is nothing to take for granted. I've never loved my husband more...
I was under the impression that they were all FIT, YOUNG, SLIM and had tight asses.. what could I have been thinking..And I thought I was going to be intimidated if I went with my husband....what's the deal....Is this every where??..I'm in Chicagoland!!
I don't think I'd be interested in going to the private room..just a regular lapdance would be nice..but I'm not certain what to expect..It would be a couples thing..I'd be brining my husband along.
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