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20 years ago
Well this place isn't even a topless club so I don't know what's up. I only had to pay a dollar more ($5.00) than what I usually do. They said it was good for a 1year membership. He mentioned something that they had got in trouble the other night because none of the customers had a membership card on them.
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20 years ago
The dancer knows that the customer will eventually want sex from her even if he states otherwise. They already know that sex is on a guys mind when ever he comes into a stripclub and when he is getting lapdances so why would he think differently if he ever got the chance to be with her outside the club.
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20 years ago
I have did twice in one day but that was only when I had a little money in my pocket to blow. Both clubs were no more than a mile away from one another. Generally I don't have the funds to go twice in a week so twice in one day is definitly out of the question. Once a month sometimes twice a month is usually my limit.
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20 years ago
First of all, how long where you gone on a business trip? probably no more than a couple of months. "Out of sight, out of mind applies more to when a relationship has broken off not when you are away for a few weeks or even a few months. You are one of the few that have had a friendly relatioship with a stripper that you met at a club. You stated that you wasn't looking for something serious just a good friend to hang out with so you basically got what you wanted. I wouldn't worry about why she broke things off.
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20 years ago
I think some posters hold Strippers in too high esteem. All of them aren't bad people but they are not Angels either for they wouldn't be stripping if they did. Yes we are just as guilty for wasting money on them as well. No one should think of themselves as a pathetic loser but they shouldn't waste their time trying to date someone who only is after their money.
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20 years ago
FONDL I would not have found it funny that she lied and I bought her a graduation gift because I thought it was true. I would have told her off and got up and walked away.
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20 years ago
Most of the dancers at the club I visit regularly don't try to hide the fact that they are married or have a boyfriend or girlfriend. There is only 1girl whom I know has told a lie about not having a boyfriend. I know cause she is one of the best looking girls there. Also a few of them have admitted that they like smoking Marijuana.
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20 years ago
I know Strippers are there to make money and portray a fantasy but what sense does it make to keep spending money on a fantasy? Some of you talk about buying gifts for your favorite dancer but why give gifts if it's not real?? I don't go to a stripclub for conversation with a woman. I go to have a few drinks and lapdances that's it. I now feel it's my right to speak up when I feel a dancer is not doing a good job during a lapdance. If I am paying my hard earn money and she is giving me some lame ass airdance and I am paying 20 or 30bucks she needs to be told that she isn't living up to expectations. I will still pay her but from now on when something like that happens I will let her know that she poor job. If she doesn't really care about my feelings then why should I give a hoot about hers???
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20 years ago
That's not a real man in my opinion. He is acting more like her pimp than her husband or boyfriend.
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20 years ago
Kyle you should be a story writer. You have had plenty of experiences in life.
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20 years ago
Kyle your should be a stroywriter man.
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20 years ago
I got a good lie which was used on me. Telling the customer "Are you ready for a real dance" after he has just gotten a lapdance from another dancer. As if to say hers will be better but when you get back there it is lame as hell.
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20 years ago
Thanks ladies I appreciate your responses. You two seem like pretty cool women. Maykala I can respect the fact that you are honest with your customers. I can live with the fact that a dancer is married or has a boyfriend as long as they do a good job when it comes to the lapdance. It's alright to keep it clean but don't give a man an airdance when he has paid 20 or 30dollars for a lapdance. I also feel that a customer and a dancer can become good friends in time. It might take months or even a full year but it can happen. I have a favorite now, I haven't been to the club in about 4months because I had moved from where I was staying and the club was already 1 1/2hours away now it more like 2hours away from me. I also have been having to get alot of work on my vehicle but I do plan to go up there sometime next month to see what she is doing.
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20 years ago
She is at the club to make money regardless of whether she really likes you are not. Even if my favorite didn't ask for a dance I would at least give her a tip because if I didn't want a dance that is time she could have been making money from someone who wanted one. my curent favorite doesn't ask for any dances when she comes and sit with me but I usually get one anyway. Recently I have stopped getting the lapdances at that club(Charge 35.00 for 1st dance 20 for 2nd) and get a 10.00dollar table instead. So either way I will give her a little something for her time.
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20 years ago
davids if you must go to a stripclub why not fined one who isn't out to hustle you? I have a better time talking with the ones who tell me about there social problems including their boyfriend than the ones who don't mention anything about their personal life. If they are telling you personal info then it could possibly be that they see you as a nice person and you can also subjectively take it that you need to live your life and not sit around thinking their will ever be anything between the two of you.
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20 years ago
Let's see what type of clubber am I? Well I guess I fit in the fairly young crowed at 31. There is only 1club I go into where I enjoy talking to my favorite dancer otherwise I am looking for a good lapdance and good mileage. Just give me a good lapdance and I am happy. I don't need to get my drink on or hang with the fellas to have a good time. Most of the time I go I am by myself anyways so I guess I don't fit in the norm for the younger crowd.
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20 years ago
I don't see where anyone is discussing anything about their personal life. The question was what social group do you fall into when you go to a stripclub. FONDL didn't ask where you work at, how many if any kids you have etc. That is what I think of as personal information not what you category you fall into for stripclub goers.
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20 years ago
While Kyle might be a little on the eccentric side he still has a right to express his opinion. I don't know whom this stripper is but taking from her remarks she wouldn't get a dollar out of me. I don't run up in all the dancers faces anyway when I go to the club, just the ones whom seem friendly. Sort of like in real life away from the SC.
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20 years ago
Well this isn't really a Stripclub but a Bikini club and the 2private rooms use to be totally private except for the people walking by to get to the bathroom. There are no cameras in the rooms so I can believe some "Stupid" dancers has tried doing something. The reason I know is about a year ago 1 dancer who was mexican propositioned me. I told her I had already gotten 4dances before now but what look for her when I came back. She told me to make sure I remembered to bring my "Jimmy hat" when I came through again. She had no problems about saying that she was a ho, in fact her opinion was that most of the dancers were ho's but some where in denial. Well anyways I came back to the club about 2 or 3weeks later and she wasn't there I never saw her again after that 1st time, so I guess she got fired or quit. BTW this club doesn't have any champagne rooms. How the laws are in Alabama they are lucky to be selling alcohol while having the girls dance and give lapdances.
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20 years ago
I always wear boxers. Regular underwear holds "IT" in place too much and doesn't allow much room for the "neck to flex."
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20 years ago
If you guys feel that most strippers are just faking being friendly to you then why do you go? I wouldn't want to be sitting talking to someone or spending money on someone who could care less about what you are doing and talking about. Basically some of you think that all strippers are golddiggers. I am not saying you should fall in love with a stripper that you called your favorite but shouldn't there be some trust and respect from both sides? If you are going strictly for the lapdances then why sit up and talk about your personal life to someone whom you say really doesn't give a dam'n about you? It just doesn't make sense to me.
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20 years ago
Well maybe I used the wrong choice of words. Actaully It should be why do they make a statement when they already know the answer to it.
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20 years ago
It's about 12miles Dothan, Alabama on Hwy 84. You probably have never been through that area of Alabama. However I think Kyle is a little familiar with that area.
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20 years ago
Well maybe Warner Robins GA has a high population of Hispanics I don't know. There is another club right up the street but I don't see very many hispanics there but more truckers or cowboy looking white guys. As far as the blackmenm are concern there are 3different kinds that come into the club. You have your regular average guy like me who dresses causaly or in jeans 2. You have the Baller or want to be ballers. They still want get any lapdances but what they do is "Front' that they have alot of money. They will go get change for a $20dollar bill and sit at the tip rail with the 20 ones in full display. The third type like you say is the gang banger or Thug looing Brothas. They generally don't spend any money except on beer and look. They still will try to "spit" game to the ladies there but not try to spend any money.
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20 years ago
I think she is worth talking to but don't take things fast. You set the pace of things not her.