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19 years ago
I wouldn't mind meeting some of you guys but flying across the country sounds to expensive for me. I also promised myself that I was going to back away from the SC scene next year. If it was some where like Shadowcat's club in or in central Florida I might give it a thought.
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19 years ago
Some of them will get jeolous if they see you buying a number of dances from other girls. I had that experience about 3months ago. The dancer wasn't a ATF but more of just my favorite dancer at that particular club. She had spoke to me when I came in but didn't really sit and chat with me.
The club was pretty much slow so of course other girls came to talk. I sent some of them away but after a while I said the heck with it I might as well talk to someone since I am alone. I think I had gotten about 3 tabledances when Lyric whom was sitting with another gentleman threw her keys at me. She said "Hey what are you doing?" I said well you are sitting with that guy?" She was like I was just trying to give you some time to get comfortable. I said okay? More time went by. After getting a lapdance from this other dancer I started to head out the door. I ran into Lyric. She was kind of pissed that I didn't get a dance from her. I told her that I was heading out and would see her the next time. There hasn't been a next time. I may not ever go back.
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19 years ago
Okay JC I agree with what you said, but it has prompted another question. Would you or any person on this board admit that your ATF or Favorite dancer lacks morals or in some cases is a whore? Yeah I know it sounds rude but we all know that some of these girls are Ho's. Some people(The more religiouse ones) think that by a girl just taking off her clothes to strangers makes her one regardless if she is having sex with anyone.
Okay for me thinking about my former ATF "Faith" I wouldn't say that she is a whore but the truth is she does or did lack morals being naked in front of strange guys.
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19 years ago
FONDL: "Memories are the ony thing you get to keep" that is a good motto to live by. Thanks to everyone for your input.
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19 years ago
Okay Davids I go out to "Regular" clubs on occasions. I use to go on a regular basis but my favorite nightclub got busted 3 weeks ago for selling alcohol to underage drinkers and some of the patrons carrying drugs on them. Since then the crowd has been very thin. Some of the women in the clubs are nice and then some can be bitches as well. I really don't go to try and "Get Numbers" from women. If I think that they might like me I might ask but other than that I am just happy with a friendly conversation and a dance.
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19 years ago
You want find many older men in the "regular" clubs unlessen the crowd is an older crowd like 30years old and up. Most of the men 40 and older like to hang out in a "social" club instead of a dance club. Social clubs don't have loud music and they usually don't play stuff like Rap or Rock music. It's just a place where they can sit down with there friends and have a nice drink. Kind of like a "Upscale" bar with a more neighborly atmoshphere. The reason I know this is because I have heard some of the older employees I work with talk about a particular club in town. They like to party as well, but just not around the Young crowd.
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19 years ago
This situation didn't happen recently it was about 2years ago. The reason I brought it up was that I was thinking about going to one of my clubs this weekend. The last time I was there I saw this brunette that caught my eye. I got a dance from another dancer that I had already in mind as a backup plan if my fav "Blake" wasn't there. I didn't get a chance to get stage side with the new dancer and was wondering if I see her this time what type of dance would she give? I am just the type that likes to think of possible scenarios before I encounter them.
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19 years ago
SC: There is a difference between dating someone and getting a "booty call". I agree that I wouldn't want someone like that for a GF but if she was willing to give it up then I would gladly oblige her. Yoda is probably right in that she is just trying to get him hooked to become a regualr of hers. He mentioned to her that she should call him but she said that the guy should be the gentleman and call first. Little does she know that he doesn't even own a vehicle and can't get to the club without me taking him.
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19 years ago
Giveitayank: I had that problem once in the past. The best thing you can do is just find another dancer that values her Hygiene. I thought most dancers in the Gentleman's club kept their hygiene up more than Strippers in the "Hole in the wall" type stripclubs. Rick's is suppose to be a gentleman's club right? Believe it or not some guys probably don't care about the smell. I have heard some guys claiming they have stuck their finger up the dancer's ass or smelled the ass. Disgusting to me, but there are some freaks and wierdos out there.
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19 years ago
I disagree Komey. I would think that just like in everyday life people in your on race might give you "extra perks" just because you are one of them. If a black dancer doesn't care for white men she isn't going to work harder but do the bare minimum that is allowed and the same goes with a white dancer and a blackmale customer.
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19 years ago
Meet a girl outside the stripclub. After you start getting all of the free loving you won't be thinking about the girl in the club who is just a fantasy.
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19 years ago
Yoda: There aren't many good looking chicks at this club and I am not going to drive a hour to a club and not get a dance.
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19 years ago
Shadowcat: Has there ever been any club in Atlanta over the past 10years that gave lapdances? I used to live up in the Marietta area from 1997 to 1999. The Gold Club wasn't bad back then. I never got a lapdance but I still got alot of contact with alot of the "shotgirls." Some of the dancers gave more contact than others. The Clubs in Marietta like Boomers & The Taj Mahal(now Vegas Nights) sucked.
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19 years ago
SC: The club you are talking about was called the Cypress Lounge. It is or was close to the Kennesaw city limits. Boomers is way further down cobb parkay not too far up the road from the Cumberland mall. I heard about the Cypress lounge but never went there. It was nicknamed the Syphilis lounge by some guys because supposedly the guys from the beer factory near the club would come in during there lunch breaks and screw some of the dancers.
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19 years ago
FONDL: I think you hit the "nail on the head." She doesn't want to take the risk of some guy possibly taking a liking to her. That's fine with me, I don't think she's got much going for her other than a nice little ass.
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19 years ago
Dandydan I think you made a good point in one style being romantic and the other being Erotic(sexy). You are also right in that what I just described is some of the things one of my new Favorites does. Heck just being alone with her and seeing her in a Thong is sexy to me.
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19 years ago
Well where I am from there is hardly any two way contact. Being able to rub her thighs, and feel her ass is about much two-way as I get and that isn't always standard procedure. Depends on the girl more or less.
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19 years ago
Casualguy: Everyone gets sometype of compensation on these reality shows. The customer might not get anywhere near $200,000 dollars but 5k or 10k for only a 2 or 3week taping wouldn't be bad. The Producers would be paying all of the expenses (Hotel, air travle etc.) The bright side is that one lucky guy might actually get to nail a stripper and not have to come out of the pocket to get it. I have seen some women on these reality shows give it up just so they have a better chance of winning the contest. One more thing imagine the catfights going on with 20 women in the same house together.
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19 years ago
The only downside to going alone is that you can get alot of unwanted attention. Having to constantly fight off the dancers you don't want until the one you do is available isn't fun & can be uncomfortable. On the flipside if you are with a group, they are less likely to approach and if they do you can excuse yourself while your buddies deal with the ugly chick. I don't necessarily like going alone, I usually hang with my cousin when he is available to go but lately work schedules have permitted me to fly solo.
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19 years ago
I also wanted to say that most strippers don't think about the customer being a loser if they are alone. The few times I was at a club and was asked why I was alone, they figured that I would have more fun being with a few of my friends. Remember they are thinking from a woman's perspective. Some of men might go out alone but you will almost always find a single woman with her girlfriends if she is at a club.
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19 years ago
The Club was Daydreams in Philly. Man didn't know they still aired that show. It has been 5years since they 1st aired it on HBO. I still love Lapdance 101 with Jordan. My favorite episode
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18 years ago
Shouldn't a person be able to profile a dancer and tell whether she is the type that would be willing to do it OTC? If she is naughty during a lapdance(grabbing your dick, or showing her kitty in a non-nude club) then she could potentially be "down" for doing something. However, you still have to study them for a couple of trips to get a better feel of them. If a girl only gave a regular lapdance and stayed within the rules I wouldn't bother about asking her. Just my 2cents.
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18 years ago
Well I don't think Babygirl was lying about it being club policy because another dancer who was fairlynew did the same thing about 5months ago. I had only gotten a few dances from that girl so I could somewhat see her case,but not Babygirl. As far as the other dancer Porsha, she is Bi-sexual and her S.O.(who is a female) is the DJ at the club. So even if I had thoughts of wanting to know her better that kills things right off the bat.
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18 years ago
I forgot to add that Porsha use to be a roommate of my former favorite who use to work there about 2years ago. I am pretty sure she saw me getting dances from her and Stasia(the former dancer) never had any problems out of me. This also makes me wonder whether Stasia was Bi-sexual? although she always mentioned she had a boyfriend.
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18 years ago
RL when was the last time you went to a Stripclub? It's probably been some years since you went so stop acting like you still go regularly.