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19 years ago
If she wants to kiss you she will initiate it. You would look stupid telling a stripper you want to pay her "X" amount of dollars just to get a kiss from her on the lips.
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19 years ago
So you would just tell her this dance is over and give her the money and leave?
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19 years ago
I would rather someone keep it real with me or at least do a good job of showing like you like my company, but don't tell lies so obvious that I can clearly see through them. If you don't enjoy her lapdances anymore I would just move on to another dancer. I wouldn't take her up on the OTC thing because she is just trying to get you "hooked" so you will be spending more money on her. If it was me and I didn't want to speak with her anymore I would just come right out and tell her that I think she is fake.
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19 years ago
Casualguy: I can see where your coming from in that some will remember you. There is a dancer at another club who remembered me after a 5month Hiatus but I think that was because I use to go see a dancer she was good friends with. I really didn't get to chat with the dancer named Lola that long on either occasion. Like I said if she is giving poor lapdances she aint the one for me, plus I hate those piercings on the lips. Makes her look slutty and trashy.
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19 years ago
Yoda I respect your opinions but this is from a guy who has dealt with women like strippers when he was in the "business". I am pretty sure he knows more about them than the average customer. He know writes books and does seminars around the country mainly to help men to better understand females. Actually that is what the book is about. He says every male has a "Mack within" he just needs the write guidance and tools to let it out. It doesn't matter what you look like or how much money you make you can get the lady you want.
Davids the name of this book is called "The Mack Within."
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19 years ago
davids thanks for the sarcasm that was a pretty good one their man.
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19 years ago
Yeah they might be there to make money but they can be honest about it and not insult my intelligence or manhood.
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19 years ago
Chandler I was just giving a suggestion on how to get to know a stripper on a normal level. Yeah some strippers do look plain when they are not in their stripper attire. I have seen a few coming into work with their hair tied in a ponytail and no makeup and wearing bluejeans.
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19 years ago
Some of them will try to get smart with you. I told this one girl that I wasn't going to by her a drink and she proceded to tell me that basically I wasn't a gentleman and that she is use to being around gentleman.
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19 years ago
Metaldude that guy was truly a wierdo.
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19 years ago
Some other stupid names: Trouble, Echo, Lyric, Ferrin, Sweet pea, and Stasia(nice girl silly name.)
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19 years ago
Causalguy: After you tell her "I would rather spend it on dances". I bet she will ask oh so you want to get a dance? Then I have tell her no I had someone else in mind. Then she will walk off pissed off.
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19 years ago
JC I could give a dam'n less if a stripper respected me or not just don't try to play me for a fool.
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19 years ago
chitownlawyer: The incident you described of having a rubber fall out of your pants leg happened to me about 2years ago. I had just got through getting a lapdance. I was on the way out when I felt something slide down my leg. I looked back and saw the condom on the floor. I quickly bent down to pick it up and acted if I had dropped my keys. I looke up and saw one of my favs looking at me. I don't know if she saw me pick it up or not but I know I quickly headed for the exit. I stayed away for about 2months hoping if anyone did see it they would forget. I went back about 7weeks later and everything was normal.
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19 years ago
Forgot to mention it's best to wear regular underbriefs than Boxers briefs if you are going to wear a condom. The regular briefs will help secure it from the "freefall."
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19 years ago
Jennifer Garner, Jennifer Lopez, Beyonce Knowles, and Eva Langoria(sp).
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19 years ago
SC: She lead me to believe that she is with the baby's father. Maybe her boyfriend doesn't make that much money? She said that she wanted some "quick" money.
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19 years ago
Spelling Error(led not lead)
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19 years ago
Chandler: No I don't care what her reason is for dancing and I would never get a lapdance from her simply because she can't dance onstage. The woman has no rhythem, as stiff as a board, although she seems nice.
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19 years ago
Chittown for a person who has been to a Bikini bar lately some of the dancers will pop open the top during a private dance. Not too many will show their pussy although one dancer I know will let me sneak a peak, but she use to work at a full nude club years ago. I guess she still has a bit of the stripclub demeanor in her. The only thing with the Bikini bars where I live is that they are strongly watched by the ABC board. The topless bars are not suppose to have any contact accoriding to the local laws but the Bikini bars can get away with a little more. Although the girls will do what they have to do until they here that the board might be coming through on a certain night. They try to be on good behavior those nights.
Shadowcat: You stated you didn't know they still existed. There are plenty of them about 200miles south of Atlanta in Alabama.
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19 years ago
Chitown: Why did you decide halfway through the dance that you wanted to get more? Was she giving you that much contact to make you want another one right away? Yeah the girl was a Ass and shouldn't have done anything like that. It may be club policy to get the money before the dance starts but I highly doubt that it says to stop in the middle of a dance to collect more money. There are some places that ask for the money upfront and others that don't. As long as I get a good dance I don't care either way.
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19 years ago
I have always seen the cashiers use a black marker. Still that won't help the dancer if she is slipped a counterfiet for a dance. They will not discover it to the crook is long gone, and then they still won't know who it is. Do places that find counterfiet money notify the police? What procedures do they usually follow?
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19 years ago
JC IMO $10.00dollars is a little too much for an airdance. I know it is the standard at most clubs but I don't think there worth more than $5.00dollars. I would rather pay 25 or $30dollars for a good lapdance than pay $10dollars for a no contact dance.
Romantic Lover: Good luck on finding a woman willing to give sexual gratification for only $5dollars even if it is only a dance. You might as well check out the local bad area in your hometown of Houston and find a crackhead whore to satisfy your needs for cheap.
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19 years ago
Okay I want to add something else to the topic. What if the dancer is giving you a handjob throught the pants but you want to go to the next level and have her pull it out? Do you make any suggestions or should you be contempt with getting some type of action even though it isn't exactly what you wanted? I can get a handjob through the pants easily at the 2clubs I visit but never had any volunteer to do it unconvered. Maybe the local laws & club rules are to strict for the girls to try anything like that?
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19 years ago
Some guys do come to stripclubs and complain. I remember one guy saying that he wouldn't give none of these "H's" his money. I was thinking to myself then why come here? If you don't think the girls look worth a dam'n or you think they are below you for some reason then why come to the club?