Comments by lopaw (page 18)

My boobs, and my ever present cameltoe.

Reply politely. You might get desperate someday and she'll start looking good to you.

This place made me feel better about some of the lame choices I made as a rookie, knowing that others have made those same mistakes as well.

Near me the topless places get super busy on that Wednesday. It starts at lunchtime and continues thruout the night. The nude places seem to get a little bit busier, but nothing like the booze-fueled topless joints.

I don't mind making some small talk with guys who approach me, usually out of curiosity. But I limit it to a few sentences and then it's time to re-focus on the women. Guys who linger & try to hit on me are quickly sent packing. Bottom line is we are all there to chat up the dancers, not each other.

@sjg - if by "privileged" you mean my reflecting on real life experiences as a woman living the actual events instead of someone proselytizing about them with absolutely no knowledge or experience themselves.... then I am by all means "privileged".

Seems no dancers in my area have ever heard of TUSCL, tho many know about (and contribute to) our local SC sites. AFA anonymity goes - I never had it so I don't miss it.

Just so you know, women can get very wet due to physical stimulation that the body reacts to. Her mind might have checked out, tho. So sometimes it means that she's really turned on, and other times her body is reacting but she isn't into it mentally.

^^^ And what exactly do you think is so different about it being between 2 women? If anything it becomes MORE meaningful between 2 women for many, many reasons. This should be interesting, considering that you are not a woman (as far as I know) and have never experienced nor witnessed either scenario as a woman.

I partake of both, depending what I am in the mood for.

She wants women. Buy one for her.

Yeah Paradise has more than it's share of big girls, but Bliss is truly the home of the BBW.

I'm childless by choice and I have NEVER regretted that decision.

^^ you & I are obviously not going to the same clubs, lol.

I'm never lacking for attention (or extras) at clubs so that should tell you something. While the number of strictly lesbian dancers is relatively small, the large majority are either bi or bi- curious. Even strictly-dickly dancers have given me amazing dances that could have fooled me, lol. At the end of the day it's all about the mighty dollar.

If you found her so will everyone else.

Walked into the house without my pants on. Long story.

Yes, I used to. I've dropped it in clubs a few times not realizing it and panicked as I was driving back to work thinking that it was somewhere in the VIP room. Now I am pretty good about taking it off and leaving it in the car.

Bliss in La Puente

I review my fave club (and the dancers there) occasionally. It's virtually impossible for me to remain anonymous so I don't even try anymore.

Yes foreplay is awesome. No hotdog required ;)

I stopped by a local haunt today and found a very pretty 24yo latina who was great to chat with but was super LM in the back. Oh well. I'm gonna try my luck tomorrow afternoon at a different club.

I've worn just about everything to a club at one time or other, from business skirts to t-shirt & jeans and even tank tops w/shorts. I often decide to club on a moments notice so I just show up in whatever I am wearing at the time.

I don't have CF's really and prefer to rotate thru many clubs so that the dancers don't get too used to seeing me all the time. That way I can reduce the chances that any of them will decide that she is my CF and get too clingy.

Often a CF will lose her spot in line due to her becoming complacent about my time and my money. When she starts getting lazy & taking me for granted & assumes that I will tolerate her SS and her dances start to get shitty it's time to move on to someone new.