Why is your CF no longer your CF?
theDirkDiggler
Illinois
So the discussion about the shelf life of CFs made me wonder what a CF would have to do or not do to no longer be your favorite. Apparently on SW as well, regular PLs also have a shelf life, but of course strippers try to keep them as long as possible. My guess is that you either get tired of her, she quits, or another stripper catches your interest and becomes your favorite. But are there any other common reasons she may lose that status? Also has an ATF ever done anything to lose such status, as it is much harder for her to be replaced by a better ATF although it does still happen if you club long enough.
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I have also moved on because I found a better CF in terms of looks and/or LDK technique.
Also I left one CF because she downgraded her mileage after I got used to a standard for months. She paid much less attention to my dick so I dropped her fast.
* She quits.
* I have found another to become a CF and I "bounce" the lowest off my list as I have limited funds.
My ATF at another club remains my ATF (I've even written an article about her) but fell of my radar for the last several months because she was in jail for probation violations. Within a couple of hours of getting out two weeks ago, she called me to tell me that she's on house arrest for three months and wants me to visit her sometime, but in the meantime I've moved on and found new two new CFs at her old club, so our relationship will never be the same.
Customers have favorite dancers, dancers have favorite customers, and these relationships have a limited life expectancy for a number of reasons. OTOH, as a counterexample in my own clubbing history, I had a CF whom I first met when she was an 18-year-old baby stripper in 1997 and continued to get lap dances from over an 18-year period until she finally hung up the ol' G-string in 2015 at the ripe old stripper age of 36. I thought I had lost contact with her forever but recently became Facebook friends with her and even occasionally run into her in town.
There are other dances that I've stopped seeing because they no longer work at the club, and they may have even moved on to a career other than stripping.
With my CF/ATF, there are reasons why I am no longer going to see her, but I am not going to get into details. It is just time for me to move on.
That said, it was the enLARGEment that ended it, but it was on the down slide already as I saw no future in the realationship.
I can't tell you how sad and disappointed i have been when a dancer "ruins" her body this way (and i'll add labiaplasty to the list). She could have spent all her life savings on this stupidity (and yes i have no problem with calling it stupidity because it does nothing to address the real reasons she got the surgery in the first place) which carries serious risks and health complications down the road as well as costing more money for additional modifications and any eventual complications. She will never recoup the cost and in many cases she might make even less money than before for the double whammy. This happened to one my longer time favorites at a particular club although she doesn't work at that club anymore.
One dancer I saw for four years, ITC and OTC, pissed me off to the extent I deleted her phone number before she reached the parking lot and her car after our last OTC romp. Disrespecting my time and money one too many times. Even though she was just about perfect physically and I am very attracted to her.
With the one before that, it lasted a year or so and it ended when I started seeing my last cf at a different club.
My first cf and atf ended after 3-4 years when the club closed down and her husband knocked her up soon thereafter
If I’ve been seeing a dancer otc - sometimes I will keep things going a bit longer - if something changes. But - if a go to otc dancer gets very sketchy - I’ll drop her - as I make assumptions about her either getting into drugs - or about her having a scumbag boyfriend or pimp.